mummycool

It takes so many to make the world....

2010-09-18T22:30:00.000+08:00

......I was with some friends during Iftar...a week or so before AidilFitri..old and new friends..it was an OK meeting,nothing fancy.I was seated infront of an old friend,someone who's quite close to me..
She wears hijab..repent(i suppose)..I knew her during her wild days...I'm sorry ..I'm not here to talk bad about anyone..I'm only here to remind myself how people can change their skin,their clothings,their appearance but still can't change their innerself..hmmm..how shud i say it?They changed their appearance,cpvers their "aurat"but they talk bad about other people..they assume,they judge..without hesitation...:(
I was not surprise that she is still that way..The same person that I knew for so long,still have that bitterness in her about almost everybody..especially me..:)I can only pray..that someday she will find her peace and not be so negative about life and everybody....

I believe that no one have the right to judge other people,especially when you don't know that person...It's sad that "fitnah".."umpat"..is like food to some people...
May Allah swt blessed me with and all of us with his guidance and love so that we will become a better person for our loved ones and for ourself.

HIJRAH

2010-09-18T22:18:00.000+08:00

Edit

"hijrah"....in every sense of the word..

by Adriana Az on Sunday, August 29, 2010 at 10:28pm

HIJRAH

~sometimes...bila kita dah ber"hijrah"...kita kdg2 cepat melatah..:)
bila nampak benda2 yang tak "cantik" di mata kita...kita cepat buat komen,cepat buat "conclusions"or "assumptions"..atau dalam erti kata lain..andaian dan bersangka..
Kita juga manusia biasa yg memang dalam hidup hari2 kita,tak lepas dari buat kesilapan..yg disengajakan atau tidak sengaja..
Cepat lupa bahawa setiap orang ada hak masing2 dalam setiap perbuatan mereka...jgn kita cepat membuat andaian,berprasangka dan menjatuhkan hukuman...takut2 kepandaian kita itu memakan diri sendiri..sia2 saja kita ber"hijrah" apabila "dalaman"kita kosong dan mungkin orang yang kita kata itu lebih baik dari kita..:)
Semoga ..setiap penghijrahan itu berserta dengan niat yang baik dan sentiasa menjaga "mulut" kita agar tak terlepas kata2 yang tak sepatutnya...insyaallah.

~yang buruk itu dari kekurangan saya dan yg indah itu milikNYA~

Al-Fatihah

2010-07-19T17:19:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum.....Hi gorgeous people..:)
I heard that one of our sisters, from http://onebreastbouncing.blogspot.com/ hasleft us all to meet her Creator.Al-Fatihah.She was suffering from breast cancer.My dua that her family will be strong and redha as this is the reality of life.
I have always reminded myself..that all of us will be tested...in many,many ways...different people,different tests...but the pain that we have to face and feel and endure...all that ...everyone of us will feel it.We have different needs,different wants...we dislikes different things,likes different stufffs....we are all different...its how we find the common thing among us to keep us all united and live in harmony and peace.Living with different people,living with your spouse that sometimes acts like a total stranger...how do you find the similarities,the common ground...the "thing' that ties you both together?...only you know the answer....
Losing someone you love and care and have known for your whole life...is never easy..never easy...you're crying for so many reasons...you know you're gonna miss her/him...you wont see her/him anymore...you're going to miss that person so much that it will hurt you...but...you will bouce back,you will get up on your feet,you hafta..so you gotta...because you're still alive.
This life that Allah swt has grant each one of us..is the gift itself.Dont abuse it,...live it,love it..and no one can make you happy other than you yourself.
My post this time may make sense...most probably not make any sense to most of you...:))
I wish that whoever out there that is feeling down and feeling that the world is crumbling down....wipe those tears....look in the mirror...and say..I love you and I'm gonna make you happy..:)

lelaki kaki pukul...shame on you!!!

2010-07-16T00:18:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum everyone...:)
I know it's been a while...but I'm still around Alhamdulillah,still able to breathe and embrace this beautiful life...:)
I can't help myself on not commenting on this topic....I can't stand/accept/respect...men who hit women..COME ON!!!!!!!!How do you even look at yourself in the mirror?Hitting women?
I saw this in the news lately where this actor keep on hitting his wife...I don't know why they're still married...I mean ..didn't it say clearly in the holy Quran that you can't hit your wife,kalau nak mengajar/mendidik bukan dengan pukulan yang menyakitkan???
Where's the people who's responsible to help these women that has been abused,tortured physically...not to mention the mental abuse that she will face all her life...
Can a woman,who has been hit by her spouse actually forgives and forget?I can't answer that on anyone's behalf but I know I can't.I'll never be able to forget...It will break my heart to pieces that can never be mend,it will hurt me emotionally..not to mention the pain itself..physically...my dicnity as a person,a human being...I know I could never forget...and it will take years to forgive....
To all the men/husbands/boyfriends....be a man..."A REAL MAN,DON'T HIT WOMAN"

...still around...:)

2010-06-18T22:37:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum.....:))))))
I wonder if this blog still have readers...:)to you who's reading this,I thank you with a big hug*hugs*
I'm still around,Alhamdulillah :)
Still baking,updating clients,managing the household...my two kids..etc,etc..:)...Life has been...emmmm...okay:)
Sometimes things happen without any warnings or signs....sometimes,you just have to go with the flow and play along with whatever that comes your way.It could be painful,it could be good for you...go with the flow...
I learned in my 35 going 36 years of blessed life that,don't ever think you're alone..coz you're never alone..as long as you're still breathing HE is right there waiting for you to ask for HIS guidance:)
I learned not to question my fate,I learned that things happen for a reason(always ada nikmah)and every clouds have its own silver lining...:)
So gorgeous readers....no matter where you are,in whatever situation you are in now...you're blessed :)
Thanks for taking the time to read this weird ramblings of mine tonight.Till we meet again...stand tall and love yourself!!!

:)

2010-06-07T15:00:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum.......:)
Hello peoplee...:))It's been a while eh:)I've been ....how to say this..??not hibernating...been very busy trying,very hard to keep myself sane:)..no need to know the details..its very memeningkan and very bowringggg::))))
What I want to say here today...is ...what do you besides having stronger faith in HIM...when you're facing something so hard for you to swallow?besides having more faith,sabar,write the do's and the dont's..the good and bad list,the right and wrong...after all that lists...a never ending one I might add...what then?
how do you decide?
I was in this situation few times,and alhamdulillah,i got my answers but this time it's really testing me:)
I guess this test is a very tiny one compared to others but still...I pray for strength and guidance from HIM.
When you know you're alone in this fight,you have nowhere to run...you run to HIM...for if no one knows who you are inside,
no one fells what you feel,
when others judge you as they wish....
you turn to HIM for strength,guidance and love.:)
I'm in a crossroad here..alone...
do i make a decision to please other people?
please myself?
my kids are my no1 priority...no question bout that...
so..what do I do?:))
I have no answer.....

SERABUT.....

2010-05-19T00:28:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikummmm....hello darlingsss....OMG!!!OMG!!!....its been so long.Yeah...I'm not my usual self lately.Not gonna make any statement that might contribute to"worsen "the situation that I'm going through now...:))very serabut...sometimes zombie...my mom call me a "thinker"..I think too much,and analize things until the last details hat it doesn't bring me any good.
Don't u gorgeous people worry(ada ke yg kesah pon)..I know that i'm very strong,insyaAllah.I'm insyaAllah capable to go through this very small "ujian"...insyaallah.
Please if u ever remember me in your prayer,to say a little prayer for me..:)
I'll be back..insyaAllah..when everyting is better,I doubt things will go back to normal...but it will be better...insyaallah.:)
thank you for taking the time to read this.:)peace!!!

...hhhmmmmm....

2010-05-09T01:15:00.000+08:00

Salaam gorgeous people :)...How' everybody?I've been ..yesss..busy like everybody else.:)sometimes too many things happen all at once,I just dunno what to think,write or do..:)After that dreadful episode at M!@#S KLCC...I decided to try Mr."C"...broadband..hhhmmm...macam tu jgk..sometimes the connection is really bad I wonder why do we pay and yet they never provide us with THE best service... I mean,we paid for it..still...adoiii...tired la talking bout this.:(
We took the kids to PD..Muaz's 3rd birthday.Muaz wasn't well,coughing,slight temperature,runny nose but all of us had fun at the pool,sauna & gym session for mummy n ayah...loved it.The kids had an amazing time feeding the bunnies at the Pet's Farm...All these happened at Avillion Port Dickson...will definitely choose this hotel for our next short getaway again.It was ...almost perfect.9.5 out of 10..:)bravo Avillion Port Dickson:)
I'm also in the midst of studying ...chewwwahhh...studying hokay:)..this particular topic.."does opposites really attracts?"..What do u think peeps?Does opposites really attracts?...Does a relationship which have 2 person,with opposites character,interests...style..etc..etc...really can attract each other?;)..for how long?Will the relationship works?...hhhmmm......:)
Help me out on this and mayybeee..I'll share what I think about it...:)
To all mommies out there....Happy mother's day!!!!give yourself a pat on the back for a" job" well done:)

GIANT NETWORK PROVIDER,"M".. CUSTOMER SERVICE VERY BAD,SHAME ON YOU!!!

2010-05-02T01:40:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum everyone...hello gorgeous people.How is everybody.Hopefully...no matter how big the boulder that is in front of you..you'll stay calm and cool...and face it rather than running away from it :)
Well...what happened to me last few days was very disturbing,to me at least....(I'm sensitive person maahhh)I wanted to change my broadband plan..to a cheaper one of course but still gives me the speed and coverage that i need.We went to KLCC to terminate the old plan and registered the new plan.The idiot(please excuse my language)that took the particulars and "registered"my husbands name,told us that we'll be able to activate and get connected after 2hrs.(it was in their promo as well)Happily we went window shopping and headed home.Arrived home around 9ish,settle the kids and ...plug in the modem la kannnn...no svc...hmmmm...cannot be,this is M***S...called the customer svc,only to get hold of them after an hour and a half,(i was bloody pissed already)..please excuse my language again....asked them what happened and the answer was"you'll only be activated after 48hrs"...I was like WTF!!!!!!!hah...dah lama tak nyumpah ni.
Why?
because we have so many applications and it will take time for them to key in your data
Oh..please,don't give me that answer,how many did you expect to apply?10 people?
I'm sorry ma'am...there's nothing i can do.you have to wait 48hrs.
!@#$%%^&&&
The next day we went again to return the old cable(hubby forgotten about it :/)..asked the people there...the answer was
Oh..don't worry,already registered and should be OK.(we tried it there and then..no line)
They said..sorry,then you have to wait 48hrs then...!@#$%....
we went home and tried again that night,no luck.Woke up Saturday morning,I called them again...the reply was
"sorry ma'am..your account is not registered."
what????
"its not registered"
I heard what you said..but why??"i' not sure ma'am"
I put down the phone after some QA with them
Hubby decided to drive down again to KLCC(we're staying in Nilai btw)for the 3rd time,3 days in a row,to cancel the application and asked for a refund.If I was in charge of handling this matter,Ill asked the manager to see me,apologized to me,asked the girl who forgot to register to apologize,asked for the refund asked for compensation,for making us go there 3 times,compensate the fuel,the toll,and the parking tickets.Call me cheapskates..I don't care.This is all about the service that you promise but failed to deliver.I bet hat you wouldn't dare to do this to an American or other mat saleh or Arabs...but they just said sorry encik,gave the money and make stupid faces.
Sorry peeps..I'm just very particular about customer service and manners.You deliver what you've promised...simple as that,if you can't compensate...I guess t will take us another 20yrs for our people to be addressed/treated properly...:/

sorrryyyyy......:)

2010-04-26T01:22:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikummm...hi people...hi everybody:))
I'm sorry for not updating this log.I've been really busy.I can't tell you the details...too many things happened,all at the same time but all are good and well,alhamdulillah.This week will also be a busy week for me,household chores,PM..my dad's here,orders..this n that...ala...the normal mummy stuff kan..kann.kan...
I'm also planning to have some serious TLC actions this week.This also depends whether I have th time(have to make time)...lulur,urut tradisional,facials...hair treatment...yesss..how nice to veerranngannn...:P
Till next entry darlings2x semua...take care,drive safe and eat "sparingly"kekekeke..

when ayah is not around......;)

2010-04-17T16:50:00.000+08:00

When ayah@my dearest husband is not around,mummy will usually freak out quietly..in her head..trying to figure out activities to do with her two active munchkins..I know I only have 2 right now,but.....very handful ya.I have to plan out what to do with them so that they don't get bored and their activities will actually benefit them,hands and eye coordination,and all that sort of thing la..

So... I decided to bake with them..yippie.We made plain cookies,(trial and error basis)I didn't make a lot of them so I made a very small batch of "doh".It turned out well and we had loads of fun..and mummy was very,very happy to see the excitement in their faces.Marissa even called me >teacher.hahaha...love u baby!Enjoy the pics people,we might have another baking session before ayah comes back from his trip :)..we miss u ayah!
p/s:marissa wants to bake these to sell them at our next bazaar event next weekend,whaddya think?

botox??NO!NO!NO!....

2010-04-14T01:42:00.000+08:00

Salam people...gorgeous people...yesss...finally I found the time...not so right time jugak..but it's ok,a very short and hopefully good entry for you gorgeous mums out there.I'm sure most of you already know the secret to natural "botox" and "detox"..without taking any "tea"that makes you rush to the loo every 10mins,or eating diet pills,or following a tight diet regime that will only last you for 3 mths?....
I'm here to share what I found out last 2 weeks..hahahah...will get you the complete correct eating habit when I have the time to type it out ya.
What made me excited is this statement:botox a'la naturel...Igot excited and remembered only 2things from the list....
1.Every morning drink at least 500ml of plain water(you know this I'm sure...for detoxing)
2.Blend red apple (with skin)and oranges(without skin..obviously)together and drink the juice,without adding sugar.(this is natural botox)

Those are the 2 thing that stuck on my mind,as I've never tried doing both of them(yesss...I'm very teruk)BBUUTTTTTT....I intend to try it out as soon as I get my new juice extractor...huaaaaa..which is i don't know when.sad case lah me...no juice extractor...does anyone knows if blending using the normal blender works?:)
so,all the best ladies...follow this 2 things every morning to get that natural glow in your face:)

i nak buat botox!!

2010-04-10T13:31:00.000+08:00

Are you with me???You wanna join me?let's do it together ..the more the merrier....
kekekekeke..kekkeke....mummy is feeling a little tipsy,sewel a bit..not enough sleep.At MIL's house..dah tua2 pon ada tukar bantal lagi ke?got such thing ah?hahahaha..nevermind that...
I....
want to....
share ......
with ......YOU!!!!!...the secrets to a'la naturel botox..no injections,no needles.....
but..it doesn't come easy...huaaahuaaahuaaa...i'd like to see how many responds I get from this entry albeit i know so well i don't have many followers..wakakakaka...
If ramai nak tahu...maaayyybeeeee..i'll post it in my next entry.kekekek(gatai btol)

bread butter pudding......oh no!!!!

2010-04-07T08:56:00.000+08:00

Yessssss!!!!!This is the one that I've been digging in these past few days ...huaaaaaa!!!!I made bread butter pudding twice this week and...it's not good for your weighing machine ya!!It was my first time baking it,I've never tried making them myself,but I looovveeee bread butter pudding,so..a friend gave me the recipe which I "professionally"altered it to my own version(actually very malas nak bukak balik mailbox)and...we..me,marissa n muaz..loved it!After finishing 2 casseroles this week...I went to JJ and bought this

It was only rm4.90 and yes,yours truly have been jumping like a mad cow for the past few days...hahahah...weight still the same but inches..losing babe!!wakakaka..gelak golek2x..makcik very happy!!

Lesson for today..eat what you like,sparingly and exercise...(pls ask for doctor's advice before you follow my advice ;)...)

BLANK......

2010-04-07T08:33:00.000+08:00

Salam everyone,how have you been?InsyaAllah everybody's well and good.Me and family Alhamdulillah are all well and good.Been busy doing some soul searching...chewwah(as if!!)..no,no..really..been looking back at how my life was simpler back then(before i started blogging)wondering if I had done enough for my family..:)This morning,before My hbnd left for work,I asked him
........."yang,will the kids leave me when they've grown up"....my husband smiled and said,insyaAllah yang,doakan yg terbaik utk anak2.
Thank you Yang.....InsyaAllah.

"i'm not good enough??so what??!!"

2010-03-31T01:01:00.002+08:00

Have you ever felt that you're living by other people's expectations?When WHATEVER you do is NEVER good enough by their standards?You strived your hardest and still it's not even near their "TARGET"of what you should achieved?
What do you do?How do you feel?Stressed?Sick?Depressed?Talk to someone?Play along?"bodek"them a bit?I don't know..What is the best way for you to deal with this situation.?
You and me....different,childhood,how we were raised=different..backgrounds?different..so,how do we find one solution for this?
Some people will say.....move on
some might say....ignore that person
some say......i dunno
some ....smirk at you
some......sabar(be patient)

I believe at some point in your life,you're just too tired to hear the same advices and the same people telling you the SAME thing all the time....
Being PATIENT ..all your life is also verrryyy tiring...
What do you do then??TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE....
Do things at your own pace,own way and at the same time,be nice to all those people around you that has been bugging you,telling you that you're not good enough.SMILE...It is YOUR life..so why bother what people have to say.?As long as your actions does no harm to you and your loved ones....continue.Life's too short to live by what others think of you..It is not them who give you this life.You don't owe anyone any explanations on how you bathe your kids,what you make them for breakfast,why your sambal tumis is not as nice as your sister's,why you wear your clothes starting with your left hand instead of your right hand,why you walk sideways and not like a supermodel,why you don't put on makeup,why you don't have enough designer handbags...and the lists are endless.....
LIVE YOUR LIFE AS HOW YOU WANT IT TO BE,HOW YOUR RELIGION ASK YOU TO..NOT BY OTHER PEOPLE'S STANDARD....PEACE!!!!

My first stall ;)

2010-03-22T19:14:00.001+08:00

Salam everyone...ola ;)There's always a first time for everything..no?Well,for the first time,I'll be opening a ~~shop~~ table at a bazaar as stated below.I'll be selling ..aha!!yesss...my "baby" ...homemade halal beef lasagna
creme caramel and other yummies,together with Ame with her beautiful craftwork.So dear friends,do come...hope to see u there ;)
(anyone who wishes to pre-order their lasagna,pls do so by thursday.lasagna will be sold at rm50,rm5 off the normal price.)
Venue: SEGi University College, Kota Damansara
Address: No. 9, Jalan Teknologi, Taman Sains Selangor, Kota Damansara, PJU 5, 47810 Petaling Jaya, Selangor D.E.
Date: 27-28 March 2010
Time: 10am - 5pm

Life as a homemaker@housewife...;)

2010-03-18T01:51:00.001+08:00

Assalamualaikum...Ola people!!!

Today's entry is about me and me only..not about other homemakers or queen of the house ya...;)
I used to work for 11 years,resigned.Worked for a month with a multinational company,resigned..and have been staying home ever since.Since I left the "working"world,I've seen and heard many comments about "housewives,orang rumah,homemakers..and whatever that this so called "working"people called them(including me la..)Most of the time the remarks will be
"eh,you dah tak kerja?best la dokrumah,goyang kaki,main2 ngan anak je kan"
"ohhh..surirumah,bestla..takde dateline,takde meeting"
"eeeiii..bestnye jadi housewife ye..relax kan"
Some are plain dumb comments to me,some are cynical,some are just being bitchy...some are????IGNORANT???
I saw this in my friends ,friend FB status:as I'm not a normal housewife,i don't have the time to buat update blog".....
hmmmm...maybe she should resign and go learn how to manage her time well.
In life ...we're given/blessed with 24hrs,manage it !!...
Life of a stay at home mom:

starts at 6am..mandi,solat..boil water for my coffee
hidai baju..if raining,figure out how to make em dry and not smelly..meaning all over the house/guest room
I'm not gonna break into details what i do at home..just so you who have maid knows,EVERYTHING that your maid does..i do it,vacuum,sapu rumah,doing dishes,hidai baju,lap itu ini,clean the bathroom,....i don't wash the cars or do the gardening coz i don't have a garden...hahahha..
my kids learn to read and write from me ..alhamdulillah,even muqaddam.alhamdulillah..
i cook almost everyday...almost.
i sleep late coz that's the only "ME TIME" that i have.
I NEVER..go out WITHOUT my kids..not anybody's problem,not mine either..sometimes leceh but I wont leave them with other people except my husband.
Who ever said housewife don't have datelines or meeting??preparing my kids meal,their bathtime,tea time,nap time,reading time,playing time,mengaji...tv time..everything that involves a toddler and a 5 year old...i call it dateline..constantly on the my feet..have to be faster than them...
sometimes i don't even know what to cook...:/

I'm not a perfect housewife..not a perfect mommy..Don't even wish I'm perfect but I do wish and doa everyday that what I do will benefit my kids and my family.They're the most important people in my life..I'm blessed to have them with me...
Oh ya,no to forget,I'm a unit trust consultant and I bake :)..so whoever says being a housewife is easy...ask them to resign and try doing it first....;)
(another thing...please don't forget the endless siblings fights,messing up the toys room,their sakit demam,endless questions why,what,when...from my kids...tiring but satisfying)

stop whining and change...for your future's sake!!!

2010-03-15T12:46:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum everyone...Ola people!!Hope everybody had a good weekend.It's school hols and maybe some of you are out there with your kids and loved ones,maybe some are at home with your kids,watching TV and enjoying each others company :))

I hope this entry will be short and sweet and will benefit some of us including me.:)I have some friends,acquaintance,people from all walks of life saying that they're tired of doing what they're doing and yet not enough money every month...I maybe the wrong person they talked to as I'm my own boss(my choice..and I don't complain)...hmmm..let's see if I can be some help to those in this category....I will always say,whatever your condition is, save some money first,before you spend it on other things.

every month,pay yourself first.put in an account where you know you don't have easy access to it>this is to ensure when you fall sick (nauzubillah),you wont have to call a friend to ask for medical money.
B.Y.O.F>bring your own food!!!!people2...come on..don't be such a lazy bum to make your own sandwich to work..to those who likes it hot and spicy,make sambal tumis during the weekend,and there you have sambal tumis sandwich to bring to work,and sambal tumis is great as they can be reheat many times...so can bring to work maybe 2 or 3 times??
B.Y.O.D>bring your own drinks!!!so what if people call you cheapskates??so what??they're NOT gonna be there to pay for your hutang and medical bills when you so need the money right?bring water or coffee in your flask.bring creamer in sachets if you like 'em white :)
how to have home cooked food when you're tired?easy..cook only once a week,in big portions,freeze them and when u come home,thaw and reheat them>don't tell me you want steak every night right?eat healthy food and not rice every night will do a LOT of GOOD to your body :)

This list are purely from my obeservation and own experience.Though I've never worked in an office before(does one month in the office counts?)..I fine this method works for me.I see so many people complaining of not having enough time to cook,always eating out and before end of the month(usually 2 weeks before)the money's all gone....:(

CHANGE!!!You have to change to be able to have a different life.Money doesn't drop from the sky..to those homemakers,where their husbands are the sole breadwinner,there must be something that you can do to help the economy of your family.Stop whining and complaining or blaming other people even...

It's easy to blame other people for everything..but let's not do that.Be in charge of your life,be a responsible person,if not for other people,for yourself.Life may not be the same tomorrow,you may not have that job that you have today tomorrow..nobody knows what in there for you tomorrow..so,be prepared.SAVE and CHANGE!

TAG FROM SUPERHEROES AND MOM...:)

2010-03-14T00:48:00.001+08:00

Assalamualaikum everyone
oh yeah..i've been tagged..never been tagged before,not femes..hahaha..now ada femesla sikit(ferasan)so..here goes.....

Here are the rules to accept the award :

1. Thank & link the person that gave you the award. THANK YOU IZ
2. Pass this award onto 15 bloggers you’ve recently discovered and think are fantastic:wokay..sapa yg kena???

LYBEAU
A NEW CHAPTER OF MY LIFE
NELCYNDANA
COFFEE CREAMER & SUGAR
AKAK RATU
TRANSFORMASI 2009
MR & MRS IMRAN
DAYS OF OUR LIFE
BABY BLU
MAZNAH
THE DELIVERANCE
EYNDA'S DIARY
THIS IS ME
FROM MY KITCHEN WITH LOVE
THE JOURNEY OF MY LIFE

3. Contact said Blogs and let them know they’ve won the award – Oh..Okayyyy..:)
4. State 7 things about yourself....

simple
loving but can be paranoid mom
blunt
honest
loyal
sensitive
active

lasagna in Shah Alam :)

2010-03-08T17:39:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum everybody........
Announcement2x...I will be in Giant Shah Alam on Friday 12/03/2010 around 1230hrs to deliver lasagnas.If you wish to place your order,please do so by wednesday..nak kena confirm awai2 ye..you can reach me at 016-9057668 or email mas_arom@yahoo.com or order kat chatbox http://monpetiticafe.blogspot.com/
Thank you semua..see u there :)

Qamilla Boutique

2010-03-06T23:49:00.001+08:00

Assalamualaikum...olla people :)
I was pretty busy as usual,Alhamdulillah but managed to meet few old friends in between my tight schedules(macam busy gilakan)keekkekeek..I went to SACC to meet up with an old friend,the last time I saw her was in 1994???maybe la..so,while waiting for her I walked into this boutique called Qamilla.I...fell....in love..with her collections..oh my,oh my...I maybe exaggerating but I don't think I am..I find her collections...simple yet stunningly elegant..I quickly told my darling husband..."now u know where I'm going to get my baju kurung and jubah from"..heheheh..He agreed that their collections are different from any other shops that we've been into..their collections of men's baju melayu are also equally stylish...*sigh*...i'm dreaming of that polka dot cotton kurung and that black jubah with sarawak motifs.........

stress no more.....:)

2010-03-02T23:57:00.000+08:00

Salam people..
A short entry on what I take for helping me go through a hectic day.I can't elaborate on what vitamins or supplement to take for your body..every body works /react differently on supplements,so..ask your doctor for advice before splurging on supplements that you don't even know whether your body needs them or not.
As for me this B-50 works for me,it helps me to go through my everyday life,hectic jgk,no maid,2 toddlers,update clients and deliver orders..:)I get them from Cosway..so,if you guys wanna try,head to the nearest Cosway outlet :)..cheers.
*please check with your doctor first before buying the product,if you are allergic to any supplements*

sediakan payung sebelum hujan

2010-03-01T00:55:00.001+08:00

Assalamualaikum...Ola people :)

Do you have a fire extinguisher at home?in your car?..I believe everyone should have at least one in their home and in their car.I want to share this experience with you guys..It wasn't that scary but scary enough to make me want you to have this thing at home.

I was at my MI L's house last Thursday..I was supposed to attend a friends majlis doa selamat in Bkt A on Friday morning.So,I had something to do in KL on thursday ,we spend the nite at MIL's house...eh,eh,...melalut lak aku ni..sorry eh..

At around 4ish Friday morning i woke up to attend to muaz..I didn't know what time it was.I was about to go back to sleep when I smell something burning.It was mild a first then it became stronger.I got up wondering if my MIL had woke up and have something on the stove.

I opened the room door to a dining room filled with smoke.I rushed to the kitchen but there was nothing on the stove,my mind straight away thought,the house is on fire!!

I called out for my husband"yang..something's burning,get up"..Muaz didn't sleep and hung on to my husband who was already up and went straight for the kitchen door.He opened the kitchen to let the smoke out and went in front to open the sliding door .I went to check on marissa..alhamdulillah we were all okay.My hubby woke my in laws up and FIL said it has got to do with the wiring or one of the lights.

We were all okay,the house was not on fire,the circuit breaker tripped and everything went ok,alhamdulillah...buttt..I couldn't sleep coz muaz didn't want to sleep.I didn't sleep until 0930hrs Friday morning..I wanted to stay up to attend the kenduri but I was to exhausted that I slept and woke up at 1130 or so..the kenduri was suppose to be at 11am.(i was tired because i send my dad in pekeliling on Thurs and had a lot going on that week)

I 'm sorry my friend that I missed the kenduri,it wasn't intentional.I wouldn't have come all the way from nilai if i didn't want to attend yr majlis,but it wasn't meant to be.(my friend hasn't replied my msgs since that day)Insyallah..ada rezeki kalau u jemput lagi i akan sampai.This is where the saying goes,"kita merancang and Allah yg menentukan"..:(

So,back to the other story,get a BCF/fire extinguisher,keep it at home.It's vital to have it at home..learn on how to use it,it's pretty easy.

take care people..salam.

Al-Fatihah,adik syafiah humairah sahari

2010-02-28T01:04:00.001+08:00

Al-Fatihah to Syafiah Humairah Sahari....I'm beyond words..I can't describe,couldn't find a word to describe how I'm feeling right now.I'm not going to elaborate on how I'm feeling.I just want to say this to that murderer..you're a bloody murderer and you don't deserve to live.You should be shot,should be kicked by 1000 footballers(make that a million) and should be lashed and dragged by 100 horses.
To the so called mother...you are a whore!!!a sick whore and you will see your daughter in the other world and you can only pray that she will pray for you...nauzubillah..kerana nafsu kau biarkan anak kau dibunuh,diseksa..hanya kerana nafsu syaitan kau tu.nauzubillah..jauhkan aku dari sifat binatang ini.bianatng pun sayangkan anak.
This kind of behaviour have to put to a stop.There has to be an akta to defend and to protect these children...Why hasn't anyone propose the mother to be canned?That model who was suppose to be canned,she's a loving mother...yet people don't want to see that side of her..yet this idiot who let her daughter die...boleh pengsan konon..4mths pregnant with another baby...boleh senyap je..no one nak sebat dia???something is very wrong here.
Let's all pray that adik syafiah rest in peace.Semoga tempat mu disana lebih aman,lebih penuh kasih sayang dari NYA.Sesungguhnya,tempat kau disana dan bukan dengan orang2 yg zalim ini,wallahualam..Allah SWT Maha Mengetahui.
Yang buruk dari saya sendiri,Yang baik hanya dari Allah SWT.

malaysia's public toilet=filthy

2010-02-26T07:34:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum people....:)Salam Maulidur Rasul,Selawat ke atas Nabi Junjungan Nabi Muhammad SAW....
I wanted to post this entry last year but I was too bitter,fed-up and just tired even thinking bout it.I can be very bitchy or might even use vulgar words so i decided not to post any entry about this public toilet issue until now...very in composed mode huahuahuhauhau....
I'll make this as short,simple,SWEET as I possibly could :)........
I hate the public toilet in our country!!!!!!!!I hate the mentality of the people who can't even have the decency to wash after themselves properly.I hate it that we have to pay to enter and use toilets that's flooded with dirty water....I hate public toilets here that are not user friendly.....Masyaallah...Can somebody,anybody that can change the mindset of our people,to be more civic minded,to become cleaner people....!!!!Try the public toilet in PD...go and try.My hubby said the gents toilet are not so bad..but LADIES toilet..YA RABB..........pengotor macam takda kepala hotak!!!!!!What's the use of the brain inside your head???throwing used shampoo packets on the floor,used sanitary pads on the floor..????!!!The floor flooded with almost everything that's used.
Malls toilets???Don't even go to that mall in Putrajaya....masyaallah..90%malay,muslims..toilet macam !@#$%^.....with the smell,the tissues thrown not in the bin but on the floor...I just don't get it..I don't get it..I get into really bad,bad mood everytime I have to use the public toilet in MALAYSIA...Most of the time I wished there's something that could be done to "teach" these species of people who doesn't know how to use public toilets..there's no time to educate them,some are "old" enough....*fennnatttt*
Go travel,overseas...go learn from those people...how they keep their public toilets clean and dry and mind you..they're "kapior"...cakap sleng perak skt kasi paham...

My princess turns 5

2010-02-23T02:05:00.000+08:00

Alhamdulillah,thank you Allah SWT for blessing me and my husband with wonderful children.We had a small birthday celebration for my baby,princess Marissa on Sunday 21/2/10 at KFC KD Giant.She turned 5 on the 18Th Feb.We had a blast and I felt so blessed surrounded by loved ones, family and close friends.Thank you all for making it a wonderful event.On behalf of Shahrom and myself,I'd like to thank all of you for coming..with all the beautiful gifts,thank you*hugs*Thank you KFC for organizing a great fun-filled party.If you guys want to make a birthday party for your cute kiddos..call KFC at 1 300 88 66 33.They're great.
Alhamdulillah again and take care.:)

happy:)

2010-02-16T01:01:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum...hey you..:)

busy me,running after the kids,3 days without water supply last weekend...and cupcakes orders for this weekend,my dad coming to visit(yeayyy)..creme caramel to get them ready before the 20th..around 20-25pkts..and I'm happy..Alhamdulillah.Won't be posting any entry until everythings done..so..have a good week ahead people!

ENTRY BERANI MATI....PART2....

2010-02-12T22:18:00.000+08:00

..................................

.tunguuuuuuuuu!!!!!!

RENUNGAN BERSAMA....:)

2010-02-11T01:23:00.000+08:00

Mari kita sama2 hayati dan sama2 share this post with those we love..

Di akhirat nanti ada 4 golongan lelaki yang akan ditarik masuk ke neraka oleh wanita. Lelaki itu adalah mereka yang tidak memberikan hak kepada wanita dan tidak menjaga amanah itu. Mereka ialah:
1. Ayahnya...
Apabila seseorang yang bergelar ayah tidak mempedulikan anak2 perempuannya di dunia. Dia tidak memberikan segala keperluan agama seperti mengajar solat, mengaji dan sebagainya Dia membiarkan anak2 perempuannya tidak menutup aurat. Tidak cukup kalau dengan hanya memberi
kemewahan dunia sahaja. Maka dia akan ditarik ke neraka oleh anaknya.
(p/s; Duhai lelaki yang bergelar ayah, bagaimanakah hal keadaan anak perempuanmu sekarang?. Adakah kau mengajarnya bersolat & saum?..menutup aurat?.. pengetahuan agama?.. Jika tidak cukup salah satunya, maka bersedialah untuk menjadi bahan bakar neraka jahanam.)
2. Suaminya
Apabila sang suami tidak mempedulikan tindak tanduk isterinya. Bergaul bebas di pejabat, memperhiaskan diri bukan untuk suami tapi untuk pandangan kaum lelaki yang bukan mahram. Apabila suami mendiam diri walaupun seorang yang alim dimana solatnya tidak pernah bertangguh,
saumnya tidak tinggal, maka dia akan turut ditarik oleh isterinya bersama-sama ke dalam neraka.
(p/s; Duhai lelaki yang bergelar suami, bagaimanakah hal keadaan isteri tercintamu sekarang?. Dimanakah dia? Bagaimana akhlaknya? Jika tidak kau menjaganya mengikut ketetapan syari'at, maka terimalah hakikat yang kau
akan sehidup semati bersamanya di 'taman' neraka sana.)
3. Abang-abangnya
Apabila ayahnya sudah tiada,tanggungjawab menjaga maruah wanita jatuh ke bahu abang- abangnya dan saudara lelakinya. Jikalau mereka hanya mementingkan keluarganya sahaja dan adiknya dibiar melencong dari ajaran
Islam, tunggulah tarikan adiknya di akhirat kelak.
(p/s; Duhai lelaki yang mempunyai adik perempuan, jangan hanya ! menjaga amalmu, dan jangan ingat kau terlepas... kau juga akan dipertanggungjawabkan di akhirat kelak...jika membiarkan adikmu bergelumang dengan maksiat... dan tidak menutup aurat.)
4. Anak2 lelakinya
Apabila seorang anak tidak menasihati seorang ibu perihal kelakuan yang haram disisi Islam. bila ibu membuat kemungkaran mengumpat, memfitnah, mengata dan sebagainya...maka anak itu akan disoal dan dipertanggungjawabkan di akhirat kelak....dan nantikan tarikan ibunya ke neraka.
(p/s; Duhai anak2 lelaki.... sayangilah ibumu....nasihatilah dia jika tersalah atau terlupa... kerana ibu juga insan biasa... tak lepas dr melakukan dosa... selamatkanlah dia dr menjadi 'kayu api' neraka....jika tidak, kau juga
akan ditarik menjadi penemannya.)
Firman Allah S.W.T;
"Hai anak Adam, peliharalah diri kamu serta ahlimu dari api neraka dimana bahan bakarnya ialah manusia, jin dan batu-batu.....
SELAMAT BERAMAL.

entry berani mati..hikhikhik...

2010-02-06T01:10:00.001+08:00

....salam everyone:)..This entry is named entry berani mati is becaused...hauhuahuahua..I'm about to share with you..story mory I..yang have memalukan I like BIG time hokay..huahuahua..as I'm typing this I'm already laughing terkekek2 but cannot make any sound coz marissa n muaz are sleeping..hikhikhik..better type as fast as I could so that they wont get up before i could finish this..hokay..here goes..This embarrassing event took place last year in a hypermarket nearby my hse..hypermarket ye..take note..meaning that ramai orang...
I locked my house before I left and I went into the car.When I entered the hypermarket...I passed by this kiosk that sells programs for children..ala what's the name?dah terforgot..as usual..I just say no,thank you to the sales person and walked off confidently..(berlagak beb)..then went to the playland that they have there..took off my slippers(i wear sandals/slippers everywhere)and followed my kids at the playland..good mummy what,takut anak jatuh so,standby la kat anak..
where is this story going???sabau,sabau...
my hubby went to the surau and I waited for him at the playland..still in the playland area..then my husband came out from the surau and said"let's go home"..so..i said..wokay..i went to where I left my slippers...eh..there's my slippers...and there's my OTHER slippers.....get it??!!get it??!!!
I HAD MY SLIPPERS ON....CONFIDENTLY..WALKING IN THE HYPERMARKET,FULL OF PEOPLE..WITH SLIPPERS ON MY FEET...NOT THE SAME PAIR!!!!!!!HOOOOMMMAAAAIIIGAAAWWWDDDDD!!!!horror babes!!horror!!!...
i ran to my husband gelak macam nak pengsan,muka merah nak mamps...malu like gila...dunno where to put my face..wanted to get inside the groceries trolley so that i don't have to walk...Ya Rabb...malu weii....
So...so..people,people...lesson learnt..don't rushed out of the house and take time to put on your shoes/slippers..by actually looking at them before you put them on!!
(luckily for me..cewahh..nak lucky lagi tu...yeah,i have nice slippers..both bling2..hahahah..tak la malu sgt kekekek..as if!!!)

yang lepas jangan dikenang...

2010-02-05T08:27:00.000+08:00

................Barang yang lepas jangan dikenang,kalau dikenang pasti menangis...:(.....No matter what you face in life,don't let your past becomes the boulder that stops you from moving forward.Embrace life,look forward,make the best of everything.....sounds familiar?yeah..all the best professionals speaker/motivator will say the same thing..it's not as easy as they say it..I know.What do they mean by those things?When we're facing this big messy problem..sometimes we feel like..that's it laa...nyampah,menci..why me??what did I do that I'm tested this way???
hmmmm...heard all those before,experienced that phase too..before..but,I'm thankful.It's just a phase..really.Just like a thick black...was it black or dark grey??yup,just like a black thick cloud that will pass and the sun will shine again....
I'm still learning,everyday is a learning process.Focusing on many things in life,one have to know their priorities..set a limit,set a goal..who comes first,what comes next...or you can also just live your life as they are and be positive no matter what comes in your way :)

Family,kids,work,hobbies,friends,...you...who comes first?you decide...

kak zura...oh kak zura..:)

2010-02-03T08:32:00.001+08:00

pics by google

salam everyone.....announcement2x...those who wishes to have a body massage at home,spa massage or traditional massage..you can try this lady's service..whom in my opinion is in the top of my masseuse's list...cewwwahhh..ada list masseuse hokay!!!!

She's staying in Nilai..call her at 019-7293606 for appointment..she's very busy so do make appointments first :)

reminder for myself :/

2010-01-31T00:50:00.000+08:00

Diriwayatkan dari Abfullah bin Mas'ud r.a, bahawa dia mengatakan Rasulullah s.a.w, bersabda:
"Tahukah kamu sekelian, siapakah yang benar-benar bartaubat?"
Kami menjawab: Allah dan Rasulnya lebih tahu."
Nabi Muhammad s.a.w bersabda:
"Barang siapa bertaubat sedang dia tidak mempelajari ilmu
maka dia bukanlah orang-orang yang (benar-benar) bertaubat;
dan barang siapa bertaubat sedang dia tidak bertambah tekun ibadatnya,
maka dia bukanlah orang yang (benar-benar) bertaubat;
dan barang siapa bertaubat sedang dia tidak berusaha membuat seterunya rela kepadanya'
maka dia bukanlah orang yang (benar-benar) bertaubat;
dan barang siapa bertaubat sedang dia tidak merubah pakaian dan perhiasannya,
maka dia bukanlah orang yang (benar-benar) bertaubat;
dan barang siapa bertaubat sedang tidak menggantikan sahabat-sahabatnya'
maka dia bukanlah orang yang (benar-benar) bertaubat;
dan barang siapa yang bertaubat sedang dia tidak melipatkan tilam dan tikarnya,
maka dia bukanlah orang yang (benar-benar) bertaubat;
dan barang siapa bertaubat sedang dia tidak menyedekahkan kelebihan ari apa yang ada di tangannya'
maka dia bukanlah orang yang (benar-benar) bertaubat;
maka apabila kelakuan-kelakuan ini semua telah nyah dari seorang hamba
barulah dia menjadi orang yang sungguh-sungguh bertaubat."

me like the bizinessss...:)

2010-01-30T01:31:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikummmmm....dear2 everybody..finally I have the time to sit down and post a new entry..Been busy and loving it,Alhamdulillah.still can't make this entry as detail as I want to,I'm going to Melaka for the weekend...catching up with old friends and my husband's family are meeting us there..
I met the very sweet ABRAHYN today..homaaaiiigooootttt...she was this...sweet LITTLE creature..very relax(yessss...i read body language kihkihkih)humble AND.....she wore PINK!!!!hehehehe..head to toe...homakhai..cute la pulak kan..huhuhu..I cant wear Pink like she did..sumpah tk cantik..kekeke.
I will update about my lasagna delivery in http://monpetiticafe.blogspot.com/ so,do join me there.:)
So..till next update..I shall leave y'all to a nice long weekend..drive safely,don't forget to lock yr cars as soon as you get into it..there are many "saiko's" out there..and be healthy..:)

save with Public Mutual ;)

2010-01-24T00:46:00.000+08:00

KUALA LUMPUR 22 Jan. – Biarpun para pengguna merentasi Asia Pasifik, Timur Tengah dan Afrika semakin yakin terhadap ekonomi enam bulan akan datang, tetapi pengguna Malaysia pula adalah sebaliknya.
Di Malaysia, ketidaktentuan ekonomi telah mendorong para pengguna mengekal atau meningkatkan tahap simpanan untuk perbelanjaan kecemasan.
Berdasarkan Tinjauan MasterCard, hampir 90 peratus golongan pengguna yang berumur 18 hingga 29 tahun begitu berhati-hati dengan simpanan untuk kegunaan ketika terdesak.
Majoriti pengguna di Malaysia iaitu 32 peratus merancang untuk menyimpan antara satu hingga 10 peratus daripada pendapatan dalam tempoh enam bulan akan datang.
Tiga kategori utama simpanan itu ialah persaraan (59 peratus), pelaburan (38 peratus) dan membeli atau menaik taraf hartanah (29 peratus).
Tinjauan itu dijalankan pada 1 Oktober hingga 9 November 2009, membabitkan 10,623 pengguna di Asia Pasifik, Timur Tengah dan Afrika.
Melalui hasil tinjauan itu didapati ketidaktentuan ekonomi dan perbelanjaan kecemasan merupakan sebab utama yang menyebabkan pengguna merancang untuk meningkatkan simpanan mereka.
Filipina yang mewakili 91 peratus pelanggan yang mempunyai sikap berhati-hati yang tinggi terhadap ketidakstabilan ekonomi berbanding Morocco (30 peratus).
Majoriti pelanggan serantau menyimpan sehingga 10 peratus pendapatan mereka, 23 peratus lagi memperuntukan 11 hingga 20 peratus simpanan mereka untuk tujuan sama.
Hanya lima peratus sahaja pengguna serantau tidak membuat sebarang simpanan.
Lebih menarik, golongan mudah merupakan pengguna yang mempunyai semangat tinggi terhadap simpanan dengan 84 peratus pengguna di bawah umur 30 tahun mahu menyimpan berbanding 81 peratus dari kalangan yang berumur 30 hingga 44 tahun.
Penasihat Ekonomi Asia Pasifik MasterCard Worldwide, Dr. Yuwa hendrick-Wong berkata, daripada perspektif ekonomi, keutamaan kepada simpanan boleh dikategorikan kepada dua aspek, satu simpanan untuk perbelanjaan masa depan seperti pembelian atau menaik taraf hartanah dan persaraan.
”Jenis kategori ini akan terus menjadi tabiat utama menyimpan di rantau Asia Pasifik,” katanya.
Satu lagi adalah mereka yang menyimpan sebagai persediaan untuk menghadapi kemungkinan pada masa depan kerana berhati-hati dengan unjuran ekonomi jangka sederhana.
Ini disebabkan kefahaman bahawa kemeruapan pasaran berada dalam keadaan tidak stabil, tambah Hendrick-Wong.
Dalam pada itu, tinjauan itu juga mendapati punca utama pelanggan kurang menyimpan adalah disebabkan pendapatan tidak mencukupi (55 peratus), inflasi tinggi (34 peratus) dan kadar faedah yang rendah (15 peratus).
sumber: Utusan online

Anybody who wishes to invest with Islamic funds(shariah based),do not hesitate to call email me at mas_arom@yahoo.com
I'm a certified Unit Trust Consultant with Public Mutual :)

minyak urut....urut apa??:)

2010-01-21T00:11:00.000+08:00

salammmmm...yezzzaaa..the entry for today is I'm going to pretend to be a makcik urut..urut apa??jeng,jeng,jeng....urut badan and yg sewaktu dengannye.hehehehe

No...I want to share with you people out there(i kan suka share2 ni) what I found,my mom's family found this minyak many2 years ago....more than 30yrs ago la gamaknye.

So,recently my mom bought the whole pack of this ointment and I tried it today and it worked fast and healed muaz's cut on the forehead..boys will be boys...that's a whole different story.so,i'm gonna upload the pic here and if anyone of you wanna try this ointment,u can ask for MINYAK HAJI MOHD.TERMIZI BIN AL-HAJI IBRAHIM.

problems VS blessings

2010-01-20T01:46:00.001+08:00

Salam everyone...kekekeke..problems vs blessings...masalah vs Rahmat...everybody or most of us wakes up in the morning on the wrong side of the bed,not all..not all the time,maybe most of the time..mesti ada problems..but it's OK..makes our life more colourful and more juicy heheheh..
I was told about this problems vs blessings by somebody and I was really touched.Sometimes we're so ignorant towards the blessings that we have everyday that we took for granted it will be there everyday..so,the story goes like this

ms x:i have a big problem..masalah besar sgt..(sobbing)
Mr z:apa masalah you?tell me..I'm sure its not that big
ms x:how can u say that..its big and I'm mad +sad
Mr z:OK...lets try this..you tell me yr problem and i tell you its not that big and yr rahmat is bigger
Mr z:1st rahmat..you open up yr eyes in the morning,Alhamdulillah,you're still able to see
2nd rahmat...you're breathing
3rd rahmat...you can still think
do you want me to go on with the blessings that you have?how many problems do u have??
ms x:*sobbing*
Mr z:sometimes,when you wake up from sleep..instead of being thankful,you choose to think of the problems first...
what if when you wake up one day..and you can't see?that my dear is what i would call a BIG problem.

Well...I guess Mr z was right and quite blunt :) but he was right(in my opinion)..We're only humans and it's good that once in a while we better ourselves by "muhasabah" diri.

ffffwwwweeeeiiitttt!!!!

2010-01-16T06:01:00.001+08:00

FFFWWWWWeeeeeettiiTTTTT!!!!!
Assalamualaikummm...yeah!mummy's back!!kekekekek..(saja gempak,did it work??)I've been really,really..tired,exhausted mentally and physically.Other than my normal routine as a mom,wife,a consultant(like this word),running in and out of the house is what I "like"best..huhuhuhu...I know,..no complaints.Time management my best friend would say..and that's what it is.It's all about time management.I think we "busy"people also should make time for ourselves,and I'm not talking about pampering yourself in a spa,or having someone over to massage you(hehehe..did that last week)..me telling you that have a time on your own to have a self analysis..got such thing ke?Working is part of life but don't make it your life.Stop and really stop and have a moment just for yourself.Take a deep breath,close your eyes and smile will actually take that stress feeling away.It worked for me.Sometimes when I'm too tired and I know I'll get agitated,apart from picking up the phone and spill the beans to my good friend..hhehehe..I'll go to my bathroom,shut the door,look in the mirror and smile.It really make a difference...try,cuba,test :)..
Oh yeah..zikir,...I'm not pious but zikir works for me too.
So..peace to everybody..work smart,don't forget to hug your loved ones everyday.Hug them,they need it and so do you :)

mayonnaise in a jar...

2010-01-12T02:15:00.000+08:00

I received this in my email today and like to share it with you.

Mayonnaise in a jar.

When things in your life seem , almost too much to handle,
When 24 Hours in a day is not enough,
Remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.
A professor stood before his philosophy class
And had some items in front of him.
When the class began, wordlessly,
He picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar
and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students, if the jar was full.
They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured
them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
The pebbles rolled into the open Areas between the golf balls.
He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous 'yes.'
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively
filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.
'Now,' said the professor, as the laughter subsided,
'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things - family,
children, health, Friends, and Favorite passions –
Things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, Your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, house, and car.
The sand is everything else --The small stuff.
'If you put the sand into the jar first,' He continued,
'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
The same goes for life.
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff,
You will never have room for the things that are important to you.
So...
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Play With your children.
Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.
There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.
'Take care of the golf balls first --
The things that really matter.
Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.
The professor smiled.
'I'm glad you asked'.
It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'

fennaaatttt....

2010-01-09T21:59:00.000+08:00

the host and hostess

chicken dance

marissa and birthday girl allysha

chicken dance again

hmmmm....

making cheeky faces again :)

birthday girl,allysha is 2!!

Salam everyone....I've been busy hehehe..wih my kids,my chores,all the same stuff and now my baking thingy.I enjoyed making them but I can't say its not tiring.We went to Allysha's birthday party today.Had a lot of fun catching up with acik nah and Ame of course...but somehow with kids and all,I felt like the time was too short hahaha..mummy wated more "lepak"time.
Anyways,still it was nice to meet up with friends.Ame ordered cupcakes for her abah and I was honoured to do it for her,yeah...her mum being the "tokay kueh"...I was nervous hokay!!It was like going for an exam or something.I hoped I passed the benchmarks and hoped they liked the cuppies.Checkout http://monpetiticafe.blogspot.com/
Thank you my dearest friend Ame for your trust and support,I know that you could afford more than what you ordered from me,and I know you ordered because you wanted to gave me yr support and I thank you from the bottom of my humble heart.*hugs kuat2!*
I need to get a full body massage heheheh..tomorrow at 8am..hehehe..nite.

Berpada pada.

2010-01-05T20:22:00.001+08:00

by-adrianaaz

Kadang2 manusia suka lupa
selalu manusia lupa....
Lupa utk berpada2
bersederhana dalam segala hal

Manusia memang suka lihat pada luaran
Samada cantik atau buruk luaran itu
manusia suka melihat luaran sahaja
Suka menghakimi luaran orang walau mereka bukan "hakim"yg terbaik
Menjatuhkan hukuman berpandukan kepada "rasa" mereka

Kadang2 manusia suka lupa
Yang lembut diluar kadang keras didalam
Yang nampak keras diluar,sebenarnya halus dan lembut didalam

Kadang manusia suka lupa
Lupa dgn siapa mereka bersuara,siapa di depan mereka
Manusia akan kata apa mereka suka
Bergurau..katanya

Tapi manusia lupa,didepan mereka adalah org yg halus jiwanya
Yang telah terluka hatinya
akibat gurauan yg tak berpada2

Jangan pandang org sebelah mata
Lihat pada hatinya dan bukan luaran
Lihat pada hatinya dan bukan ijazahnya
Lihat pada hatinya,
Lihat pada hatinya.

A good start :)

2010-01-04T08:56:00.000+08:00

Salam....I hope its not too late for me to wish Happy New Year to all out there.I've been busy and I had no extra time to post new entries but I had some time to spare reading some of the blogs.
We took marissa n muaz to bagan lalang and port dickson the day after for a short swimming session.Had so much fun with them and you know what sea breeze can do to you right,you get so tired afterwards and thats one of the reason why I was too lazy to blog.I wanted to share my thoughts bout so many things that I saw during our short rip to PD but I guess I'll do it some other day.I'm just too tired to talk about civic awareness in this country,public toilets,littering...endless list of negative remarks will come out from me and I don't want to spoil anybody's mood.Yeah not to forget...cruelty to animals..yechhhh!!!I don't like it when I find myself going deep into this issues as I feel that whatever my opinion about all these matters are going down the drain and wasted.I deeply regret that no matter how modern our country will be,no matter how much we spend in building better infrastuctures,its the mentality and attitude of oneself to make it worthy.oh..oh...ana is in a serious tone and mood now...nope,no..no..I don't want to stress myself about these things anymore..not good for me n my family :)
Yeah,that was the 2009 and now Jan4th..I had 3 orders of lasagna and 40 cupcakes delivered yesterday to Pn.Linda R(cupcakes)Pn.Liza(2 lasagna)and my own biras in sbg..hahaha.Thank you ladies for having trust in me and supporting my new found interest and business :)
Marissa said..."mom,you made the best lasagna and cupcakes in the whole world..you're the best COOKER!!!"..hahahaha..oh baby,baby(thts what i call her)...mummy will be honoured to be yr "cooker" anytime.hahhaha..Its a wonderful feeling to be praised by yr own kids albeit the fact that I'm not the best cook but as long as I'm their best cook,I'm happy :)
So,I started with a good response from my biras and friends,visited my mom in USJ and my baby sis and my mom said it was really good(sapa lagi nak pujikan)...but Its true,they hardly praise anyone hahaha..so,Alhamdulillah,Alhamdulillah,Alhamdulillah..yg baik dari Allah swt and kekurangan is from me.
So,I hope whoever reading this will give me your best doa that I will succed in this biz and insyaallah with your doa and good wishes I'll be one of the good "player"in this field :).

cream caramel,"kek" batik(my version),homemade beef lasagna :)+cupcakes:))

2009-12-28T02:17:00.000+08:00

Salam everybody :)
I'm on cloud 9 these past few days.One of my old schoolmate asked me few weeks back if I'm taking orders for cupcakes...She's planning to give it to her son's classmate on his birthday.Yippeeee!!!Alhamdulillah,syukur byk2.I was thankful that she trusted me to do it for her..thank you dear.So,now I'm like nervous+excited+going bonkers over this whatever feeling that is in me right now,smiling,dreaming..hehehe..So,I decided to extend my menu a bit..hahaha..

all time favourite...ssllluurrrppp;)

I love eating all these yummy food,I know,I know..watch out for the numbers on your weighing machine going up,up,up...but they're sinfully delicious(ferasan+overrated+tak tipunye statement)I kept making them and my family enjoyed them..muaz kept asking for the cupcakes..every time he opened the fridge,he'll go like"mum,where are the "tuptakes??"can you make some more "tuptakes" mum?"

I love this baby ;)

hehehehe...So,I'm trying my luck at selling these personal favourite dessert of mine and my homemade beef lasagna.Wish me luck babes and if anyone of you wishes to order..email me ya..

my kek batik :)

sticky chewy balls(my 1st trial on makin them as giveaways for weddings/door gifts/dessert.

happy :)

2009-12-26T02:48:00.000+08:00

MV last week's outings

KLCC-last week's outings

my princess

Alhamdulillah....I've been smiling for the past week..hehehehe..(kerang busuk)I'm constantly reminding myself to smile,even if marissa spilled my coffee on her workbook,muaz spilled water on the floor..bla,bla,bla..I will still smile because....???I just want to :))I made some kek batik for my neighbour last night.Hopefully they'll like it.We took the kids for outing,watched a movie,Princess and The Frog,enjoyed it,had a chat with old friend at Alamanda's food court...hmmm..It was a good day for everybody,Alhamdulillah.I would usually opposed to the idea of going out on a public holiday but today was a good day for everybody :)I didn't complained about any single thing..hahahaha..I would usually complained to my hubby about the crowd,the public toilet and other things lah..but today,I behaved.I "redha" and that I guess was the reason why the day was a good one :))

kek batik for sale :))

what goes around....comes???

2009-12-21T02:28:00.001+08:00

Salam people,babes,dudes,haji,hajjah....:)Tengah cari ilham on what to share.Day in day out with the kids,cooking,cleaning up,picking up after them..bla,bla,bla..yup!!What stay-at-home mom does..not to forget,reading,writing,numbers,shapes,colors..bl,bla,bla..supermom?nope..did it out of lurveeeee babes,Amanah...yesss.Amanah dari Allah swt.

I'm far from a "perfect"mom..I have my own temper to handle,I have my own flaws...but like all of you out there,I'm still trying everyday to take care of my "amanah"and treat them with tender loving care :)

Hmmmm...what else is our amanah?Husbands has a BIG amanah to take care of,his wife and his family..kids,parents..etc,etc..So,when he said"aku terima nikah...."and its "SAH"..there you have one amanah on your shoulder dudes!!!It's not like you marry and then you think you're the king of the house and you are my wifey and you are to "layan"I sesuka hati I...ho,ho,ho..dudes..you're so wrong if you think that way.When you take her as your wife,you made a promise to God to take care of this wife of yours,your family,to lead them to the right path,you the imam(for muslems)..I think I can babble about this like the whole night..I'm so not gonna do that.I believe they're better people out there who knows more about this hukum hakam about the husbands and wifey relationship.Next!!!

Amanah again...our body is amanah.It's ours but not rightfully ours..hehehe..konpius??It's a loan people,...from Him,Allah SWT the Almighty.So,what did yo do to this "loan"have u taken good care of it?Have you abandon it?Have you treat it as how it's suppose to be treated?since it's not rightfully yours,you should know what are the do's and dont's right??:)Next!!!

Who else?What else?..Our responsibility towards our society,our pets..yess..our pets.Have we forgotten that they too are Allah SWT creations?Have we done our best to protect them and to give them what they deserve?:)I'm sure you guys have,alhamdulillah.Their food,place to sleep,if they need "partners"during mating season...those are all their needs and we cant take it away from them...hmmm...Next!!

I believe in hukum karma,what goes around comes around...I also believe that if you intentionally hurt other people,someday you'll be hurt too,nauzubillah.If not you,someone that you care for will have to pay for what you did,fair?no?....hmmm...Les all pray that we always pause and think before we say something or do something that might hurt other people,animals,living creatures.
I'd like to apologise if I've hurt anyone's feelings in the process of reading this,it's purely my own tot's and a reminder to myself,not with the intention to hurt anyone.:) Peace!

new year,new hope.new ME :)

2009-12-19T13:26:00.001+08:00

Salam Maal Hijrah :)..We had a great time watching the doa awal and akhir tahun from TV1..Marissa and Muaz doa with us and we hug each other and promise ourselves to become a better person,insyaallah.Quite emotional for me,(byk buat salah kan kekeke)and I pray that all of us will have a better year ahead,a successful year,with more happy moments insyaallah.
I don't want to think about negative people,what they think and how they think and why they are negative about all things,I don't want to end up like that,nauzubillah.I want to be more positive,more focus in what I do and yesss...I want to smile more often.Sometimes I notice that I don't smile,I only smile and laugh when I'm playing with my kids or share a joke with my hubby.I need to smile more,to exercise my facial muscle...cewwwahhhh..macam ye je :)
Ok2x....gotta go,kids hungry,hubby's away..so me n my kids are going to have a blast on our own wwoooohhhoooo.....

TIME WILL TELL

2009-12-17T02:36:00.000+08:00

This entry is dedicated to mama and papa,although I know you won't be able to read this but I hope you know how much I love you guys *hugs*
After having kids of my own,I know I owe a lot of things from my parents,their dedication,their unconditional love,the hopes and doa....(tears are streaming as I'm typing these down)very emotional for me to talk bout my parents...Looking back at what I've achieved as person,mother ,wife,daughter,daughter in-law,friend,neighbour,colleague...etc,etc..I have a long way to go in becoming a better person,to have a better relationship with everyone,even with my kids..I'm not sure how I'm able to achieve that,it's not easy.Being someone that is quite emotional at times like me,sensitive about issues that is close to my heart....I know it's not easy for people to understand me,who am I really??(I'm so not in the right state of mind right now,babbling like someone so lost)
I was chatting with my friend about something when I realised how my parents had raised me to become who I am right now...I'm not going to spill the details as it might sound like I'm bragging(riak)...but I'm really thankful to have learned sooo much from my parents,Alhamdulillah.
I'm learning everyday,about people and how they lead their lives ma,pa...Papa always tells me"it takes so many people to make the world Na..."..and I will never forget.(miss u pa)Whenever I'm down,I will read the poem you shared with me Pa..to gather my strength and to know that you are always there for me,makes me feel so much better.I'd like to share this poem here,hopefully my dear friends/readers will like it too:-)

Time will tell for TIME tells all
Just wait and time will show-
but bit by bit the truth comes out,
And in the end we see-
Who are right and who was wrong
Time tells eventually

So if you are misunderstood-
Your feelings try to hide.
If you took the wisest course,then you will be justified....
Remember that the other person may be right as well.
So don't pursue the argument.
Be patient,time will tell.

I have my papa to turn to when I'm down and I have my mama to ask for strength and wisdom.I can never repay them in any way and I'll forever be indebted to them for all the good things that I'm blessed with right now,alhamdulillah.
May Allah swt blessed our parents with good health and many more years with us.To my dear friends whose parents are no more with us here,Al-Fatihah to their souls and may they rest in peace.

My gift to new baby girl :)

2009-12-13T22:48:00.000+08:00

I made some strawberry flavoured cuppcakes for my neighbour,welcoming their new baby girl Afiqah Dania :) I hope they liked the cuppies(which they said they did,alhamdulillah)InsyaAllah with more practice I hope to make this new passion of mine as another source of income..who knows *wink*

friends,friends,friends...:)

2009-12-11T03:11:00.000+08:00

We had BBQ in seremban last night.Thank you chef Irwan and Nurul for a wonderful evening.I brought them my own version of cream caramel and homemade beef lasagna.hehehe..They were a hit but me n hubby was more into the grill lamb chop that was prepared for us,along with salad and homemade dressing,garlic bread...yummmyyyy...

Didn't snap any pictures,didn't even crossed my mind,were too involved with the conversations,lamb and the kids hahaha...

Hope to do this again,it was nice to hang out with good friends,good food and Alhamdulillah to all that :)

"suami tak sihat sebab pe'el isteri??"

2009-12-11T03:03:00.000+08:00

"you tau tak suami kita ni kena darah tinggi sebab perangai kita?laki ko tu cik x,darah tinggi sebab ko la,membebel tiap hari"
Damn!!I gave my extra attention to Mrs K that day,not only her voice was loud,her statement made my eyes and ears wide open.We were gathering,all us neighbours were sitting around under a cherry tree witnessing a wedding.
Mrs K asked us again"don't u guys notice all this?they(the husbands)gets all these sickness from our non-stop babbling,requests and our upside down moods..(her husband is suffering from high blood pressure*chronic*
I prefer to reserve my comments and at the same time,feeling grateful to Allah Al-Mighty for blessing my husband with good health.I will remember what Mrs K's advice to all us wives that day"Don't pressure your husbands with your demands,always asking for new things or always asking them to follow your style.Don't pressure them with your moods..tho they never say it,(coz they love u)show them your appreciation by following their way once in a while.just look at my husband,so cool,laid back but now his sick because of me:(...
*to MRS K..don't be sad,take it as a lesson and thank you for sharing with us,to remind us to appreciate our beloved husbands :)*hugs*

announcement

2009-12-08T22:10:00.000+08:00

Houses for sale!!!

Double storey=rm130'000 only
Desa Vista,Salak Tinggi Sepang
15 minits to KLIA,near schools,amenities and salak tinggi town.
Single storey=rm100'000only.
Nilai,N.Sembilan
In town,near amenities,giant,commuter station,20mins to KLIA(or less)
schools,preschools,temple,masjid.

please email me at mas_arom@yahoo.com
thank you :)

when marissa gets creative :)

2009-12-06T23:52:00.001+08:00

We went out few days back...yesss we love going out ....family outing.Went to IKANO and IKEA.Marissa went to the play land,muaz were not allowed to join his sister,not 3 yet,sorry abang,next year darling.

yo!yo!rappers in da house!

muaz...where r U????

my precious

loves fashion :))

herselfmade ring,excuse the prints on the hand(ikea playland)

bracelet

pink bracelet for mummy :)

Bought Marissa a charm bracelet..she loved it.The beads where you bought from all those small kiosks,u get to choose your own charms and get them to tie it up for you.Marissa went home happy :)The next day as I was busy cooking,she made her own bracelet.She asked for strings from me,which I didn't have any..so...what happened was,she took some rubber bands,and added the beads I bought for her not so long ago.I was impressed,touched and so proud of her...proud of you baby!!!Mummy love you!!Now,I'm going to encourage her even more on crafting project or anything that she sets her heart on.(muaz wants to bake and fix cars )

hati sama kaler,rambut lain kaler...but niat n perasaan lain2 :)

2009-12-05T01:17:00.000+08:00

Interesting tajuk??Hmmm...I'll try to make this as brief as possible.I'm not sure how but I'll give my best shot.Rambut sama hitam,hati lain2...I don't think it's relevan nowadays as most of us were born with different hair color...mine is light brown...wwwahhhhh...why?tak caya ke??
Anyways..it doesn't matter what color is your skin or your hair or your eyes,bla,bla,bla...It doesn't matter to me.I'm a very simple person,whoever knows me will tell you the same thing.I can make things complicated if you want me too but I'm not interested to complicate things....(i'm too busy to do that)Most of my friends have called me "lurus"..simply because,I am.
I don't care whether you're rich or poor,you wear designers or vincci or brand cap ayam,couture or pasar malam...I SEE you as in INSIDE you..your heart...whether you're sincere or you're not...whether you're pure or a diva in the making or..bla,bla,bla...u know what I mean.
As i promised I'l make this short,I end this entry here..hopefully it makes sense.(it doesn't matter if it doesn't makes sense to you)....:)
Wassalam.

Awal Muharram1431/18th december 09

2009-12-01T14:37:00.000+08:00

Salam...
Awal Muharram is coming and I'm kinda lookin forward to it.I sort of looking back on what I've achieved in 2009,if I had done the right things,done the wrong things (byk agaknya)made right or wrong decisions and if I had mature in my decision making,in my relationships with loved ones,family,friends,neighbours,etc..etc..
Sad to say,some still remains the same,still dwell on old things,still rake up old stories,no compromises on little things :(
On the brighter side,I'm happy to say that I've achieved(in my opinion) few things that I'm proud of.I baked raya cookies=1st time for me,I bake cupcakes=1st time,made lasanga from scratch=1st time,had a family holiday=1st time,meet a so many new people(clients)alhamdulillah=1st time,and a lot more other blessings,Alhamdulillah.My kids are eating well,speaking well,active,my husband(MR.SO) is healthy and well,happy with my new skill=baking and yesss..it puts a smile on my face to think back what we've achieved together so far as family,couple and as an individual.Oh yess of course...I had few reunions with old buddies..yeah,that puts another big grin on my face.
so..with all that,I can say that I'm really looking forward to another year of adventure with MR.SO,marissa,muaz,my family,friends,acquaintances...etc,eTC..
I don't plan to have a new year resolution...but I do make plans for myself,my kids and my family.Looking forward to another annual holiday overseas :)..short holidays in malaysia and many more good food and outings,aminn.InsyaAllah :)

Aidil Adha 09

2009-12-01T14:08:00.000+08:00

Salam...I hope its not too late to wish all muslims selamat hari raya aidil-adha.We had a good time visiting my dad in TGG.Wished that my other sister was there with us,insyaallah next time :)
Thank you to my other half for planning this trip and for doing all you can to make sure I get to spend my raya with my dad n sister*love u yang*.
Thank you to my new blogger friend IDA,for coming to see me :) such a sweet person.I hope I didn'nt bore you with my non-stop chatting.I can be quite a chatterbox,esp when I'm nervous hehehe..
My kids,all of us had a great time and was sad that we had to go home so soon.we miss you Pa..insyaAllah,we'll see u again soon*hugs* from me n d kids.

sorry baby,abang.

2009-11-25T11:13:00.000+08:00

To my dearest children,I'm truly sorry for not taking the time to look into your eyes when we talk,sometimes I'm busy with my work,housework and caught up with my own ups and downs,my mistake...I'm only human :) I pray that we will always love and respect each other and know that I'll be there for you always,insyaallah.

moving on.......

2009-11-24T03:03:00.001+08:00

Have you ever experienced something so hurtful until you just can't let it out of your mind?So bad that you keep on dwelling about it,keep talking about it...How do you let it go?How do you move on?

I maybe good at telling someone to "move on","don't look back""God is great"...I too have issues on moving on not so long ago...but now I think I have move on and am happier that I did.I wished I can help this person that I really care for to move on with her life,to cherish the blessings that Allah swt has blessed her and to live her life but I can only wish.It's she who have to make that move...:(

(semoga dia dikurniakan hidayah untuk meneruskan kehidupan dengan hati yg terbuka dan tenang)

(pic googled)

Idul Adha in ganu kite??jengjengjeng:)

2009-11-19T17:53:00.001+08:00

We might celebrate our Idul Adha in Kuala Trengganu..yahooo!!If the flights not full,we just might..We sisters planned to celebrate with our dad who's in Trengganu now,teaching undergraduates English.InsyaAllah..doakan hajat kami tercapai.:)*excited*My last visit to Trengganu was many,many...MANY years ago..eh,come to think of it,did we have nightstops in TGG back then?(ame...help)

My baking class 14th Nov2009 with Pn.Nurul Huda.

2009-11-16T15:48:00.000+08:00

I did it!!!I actually enrol myself in a baking class and enjoyed every minute of it.Not to mention how amazed I was with the hostess,Pn.Nurul Huda and her huge kitchen.It was an amazing experience.Gotta be honest with you guys..it was quite tiring.Only after I finished baking and got into the car that I realised,I was on my feet for 4hrs...I only sat for less than 5 minutes...Okay,when I used to fly we had to endure 13-15 hours of standing and walking but that was different :)

All in all I'm proud of myself and had a great time..yess it was worth it because my hubby and my kids loved them cakes..:)

black cherry cupcakes

Me n Nurul

my cupcakes

yellow butter cake with lemon flavour and choc mousse in between

muaz(sleepy dah masa ni)

amazing kitchen!

a gift from Nurul

whining won't solve your problems...

2009-11-15T15:55:00.001+08:00

Salam everyone :)....Do you whine?Who do you talk to when you're not happy about something?Everybody have their own way in tackling this issue.I have a few ways myself tho it doesn't help everytime,but most of the time it does..
I talk to my husband,my best girlfriend,doa..bla,bla,bla..Sometimes I don't want them to tell me what to do or how to solve the problem..I just need someone to hear me out..yesss...hormones kinda do that to women esp after having kids. (blaming something/someone is one one way to release stress hehehe)
So..after all that whining..what do you actually do to solve the issue?Whatever the issue maybe..how do you solve it?Do you :

Sleep on it
Argue about it
Work on it
Nothing is worth your precious time.
???
Blame other people
Lash it out on other people(yg takde kena mengena dgn masalah itu)
???

I don't have the answer.I know I can forgive,hard to forget and I can pretend,I can also get hurt easily.I'm very sensitive towards what people say and I'm very good at reading between the lines.
What I don't understand is why is it a problem to other people how I live my life,how I like my life to be when I never ask their opinion or bother them...:)
THAT I have yet to find the answer...I really hope one day I will.

membina masjid....

2009-11-13T01:11:00.001+08:00

Salam...I'm pretty sure in the malay society we often hear this esp when someone is getting married.."dia nak membina masjid"(building a mosque)which is a very noble thing to do...Yess?I know I've heard it many times and have used that phrase many times(hmmmm...)What I failed to do was to actually understand the meaning behind it.....not until last week...:)
I went to visit my mom and we were talking about our routines..what happen in that week or you know just catching up on things.We were talking about the "p" word when my mom said"nauzubillah"..I asked her (panic.).."why ma???what did I say?"
My mama told me this"Ana..careful of what you say in your house.It's a doa.Just like what people always say,membina masjid...what you say in the mosque is a doa..same goes to what you say in your house.Which I quickly regretted what I said and pray that.Allah will accept my doa.
So ladies and gentlemen....it's a lesson well learnt and I hope to be more careful of what I wish or what I say.

is this a permanent thing?

2009-11-10T11:19:00.000+08:00

I'm beginning to enjoy baking very much and I wonder if it's just a phase or a permanent thing :) I was thinking to enrol myself in a baking class to polish my skills;if there's any..hmmmm...

lasagna anyone? :)

2009-11-10T10:59:00.017+08:00

I made beef lasagna for the 1st time and it was a hit.It was suppose to be our dinner but it didn't make it to the dinner table...We finished the whole foil in less than 1 hr*LOL*..Alhamdulillah.I made it from scratch by following the recipe stated behind the lasagna sheets box,did a few changes to the recipe to fit my kids taste bud and mine too.Marissa even asked for more lasagna the next day but we didn't have anymore minced beef and lasagna sheets...sorry baby,mummy will make more soon okay*kiss2*

5th-8thnov 2009

2009-11-09T19:30:00.001+08:00

my chocolate banana cake

ready to blow the candles

my dinner

my love,my best friend,my pillar of strength

testing

2009-11-09T19:23:00.001+08:00

5th-8th 2009

2009-11-09T02:39:00.002+08:00

We started my birthday celebration on the 5th..eve of my birthday :)*Alhamdulillah*It wasn't a big party,wasn't even a party but it was a day filled with love and laughter...cewwwaahhh!!!like real je kan..hahahah...

Yeah,we went out on the 5th..hmm let me recall what we did on that day....

We went to alamanda because marissa wanted to go there soooo much.Took them for the rides,playland and I went window shopping alone while MR.SO took care of them.*thank you Yang*He asked me where I'd like to have my pre-birthday dinner and I wasn't in the mood of anything fancy..eversince I got them kids,I haven't step a foot into a fancy restaurant(except when we're on a holiday)..So..I have been dreamin' bout this particular burger hahahaha...Its "the Western Whopper"!!!So Burger King it is.The kids had their Big Apple's donut,and mommy shared the whopper with ayah and the kiddos.Everybody was happy and we went home...ooppsss not just yet.

MR.SO insisted on me having a birthday cake.We went to Giant and got ballons and a small cake with candles and headed home.Marissa and Muaz was practically over excited about mummy's birthday that they were singing birthday song all the way home...adoiiii..:)

They prepared the cake,the plates,the balloons...all 3 of them and I stayed in the room only coming out from the room to make myself a big mug of Nescafe.Then the clock struck 12am and they sang birthday songs..4x hokay!!!cut the cakes and everybody went to sleep at around 0130hrs.

So on my birthday itself,everybody woke up late,mummy didn't have to cook.MR.So made breakfast,cekodok pisang and coffee...not bad.You can take over the cooking part anytime yang,I won't feeel offended :)kekekeke..

We went to TGIF in IOI mall for dinner and that's the end of My "celebration"with my loved ones.

Thank you Shahrom Omar for loving me and accepting me for what I am(ye ke??)

Thank you Marissa and Muhammad Muaz for making mummy's life meaningful ...though u guys can be a real pain sometimes ;)

Thank you for the wonderful birthday "party"...it was very special...love u.

mama got this for me

marissa got a pretty hat from Su

muaz on my birthday eve

my 2009 birthday

freakin pissed!!

2009-11-09T01:17:00.000+08:00

I'm freakin' pissed at myself for not knowing how to fix the problem.
I'm pissed sometimes I can and sometimes I can't!!!
I'm pissed because it's suppose to be simple yet it's complicated for me :(

I CANNOT UPLOAD MY PHOTOS FOR SOME !@#$% REASON!!

my "senget"but yummy cupcakes :)

2009-11-05T12:18:00.002+08:00

No,its not my 1st attempt at baking cupcakes.Yes,unfortunately I'm no perfectionist,dont mind not being one...hehehe..made these,yummy (ferasan but percayalah,memang sedapss)cupcakes 2 nites ago.I dont have the proper mould so i just bake them and prayed infront of the oven that it will turn out nice..kahkahkah..how pathethic is that??!!Marissa keep saying"its ok mom,it will turn out great"..hmm..my baby girl's vocab is improving day by day*alhamdulillah*she really knows how to keep me calm and sometimes the opposite..hahaha..
The cupcakes did turnout not great looking but they are really yummy..We had them for breakfast and they were still soft and fluffy and we had them for tea time too...Syabas mummy..oh not to forget,have to mention it here,Marissa and Muaz helped to bake them,they helped to add the flour,baking powder,and they helped to put the cupcakes cases in the tray,and helped to lick the mixing bowl!!

just around the corner....;)

2009-11-03T01:33:00.001+08:00

Yessss!!!!Just like my best friend,my birthday is coming just around the corner...wooot!woot!!Age is just a number,I don't feel old...kahkahkah...young at heart always(yes,silakan muntah),
I celebrate my birthday every year,I dunno why but I always feel excited that I even tell my kids about how excited I am :) Maybe because I was brought up that way.My parents(alhamdulillah)never failed to wish me on my birthdays,even until today,after having 2 kids of my own,my parents and my sisters still wish me on the eve of my birthdays.On my birthday itself,they will sent msgs on my phone,my nieces and nephews will call me and sing birthday song for me.
It's not like I have birthday parties every year..no,no,no..I celebrate it with my loved ones.I will thank my mom for giving birth to me,thank my dad for being there for me and for loving me,thank my hubby for loving me..and to The Creator,Allah swt for blessing me with so many good things,alhamdulillah.
So,this year..I know that they will wish me and sing for me,looking forward to it.My mom called me yesterday and she bought me a gift :) Alhamdulillah..she didnt have to..mama,mama..
Like any other ladies out there,who have their own wishlist for their birthday. ..I'm no different..hehehe...I wish for...say the magic word...diding,boding,dibodingboding...hahaha
those who watched PHD with their kids will know this..
So..leave me in my own world for a moment to dream about the things in my wishlist...dream,dream,dream....:)

if tomorrow never comes

2009-11-02T00:19:00.000+08:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B6lw1suaZpo

Salam everyone...I was about to sleep when this came to mind..What if tomorrow never comes..??I looked into my husbands face,marissa's and muaz's...and I asked myself,if my time is up..have I showed them how much they mean to me?Have I been a good mum and that person that my husband wants..
So many "what if's" came to mind,what if I lose my sight,I won't be able to look at their beautiful faces again,if I lose my hearing,I wont be able to hear their voices...and so many more what if's...nauzubillahiminzallik..
I'm thankful for what I have and I hope I will remember how fortunate I am to have so many good things in my life.Yang,Marissa and Muaz...I love you.Mama,Papa,kaklong ,aza..I love you.My good friend Ame,thank you for being there for me always ;)..my inlaws,mak n abah..terima kasih atas kepercayaan,and to everybody who knows me,thank you for letting me be part of your beautiful life.

My son won't stop breastfeeding...help!!!!!

2009-10-25T17:02:00.002+08:00

Helppppp!!!!!Muaz dont want to stop breastfeeding...huaaaa!!!
I planned to breastfeed him for 2 years but now he's 2 yrs 5mths++..and he goes into a tantrum everytime I told him no more "mummy's milk"...Believe me,I tried gamat(the black one)and even told him mummy's milk will bleed but he couldn't care less..
"Muaz...mummy loves you but you're a big boy now,you're a cannon ball,a transformer,a superhero...you have to drink milk from the glass..no more mummy's milk okay.."

"Ya Allah..Kau kurniakan lah kebaikan dari air susu ku ini untuk anak ku,dan Kau permudahkanlah bagiku untuk memberhentikan anak ku dari menyusuinya,dan Kau kurniakanlah kebaikan dari pemberhentian ini dan jauhilah anak ku dari keburukannya,amin"

lazy + stress+mix up+mess up mind and feelings mode..

2009-10-22T00:40:00.000+08:00

Salam people.....Alhamdulillah...Although my mind is clouded by so many inputs,good and back for the past one week,I'm still here,still breathing,still able to kiss my kids and my husband,of course..still able to hear them playing+fighting with each other..Alhamdulillah.
I dunno what to blog about.I had lunch at a garden cafe called Aunty Aini's..(google it)with old friends,we used to work at the same place.Catch up on things..and few topics were raised,botox,implant,halal,haram...:)
What do you think?It's very simple to me..whatever is stated in the Holy Quran,I will follow,insyaAllah.It says haram,so haram it is.It says wear your hijab properly(cover your chest)then that's the way you wear it..InsyaAllah.It says,follow your husbands wishes as long as he doesn't ask you to do bad things then do it,InsyaAllah.What if you're not covered but your hubby wishes you to?Would you ask him to wait?This can be a very sensitive issue,no offense to anyone ya..
I met two other old colleagues at Starbucks,Gardens MV..we talked about the same thing.I can only doa that she will wear her hijab soon,such a wonderful person.
I also was tested by Allah swt...made me zombie for days(till now)but still trying to make myself strong and praying that ada hikmahnye disebalik semua ini.Kept telling myself,Allah takkan aniaya kita,kita yg aniaya diri sendiri and disebalik setiap ujian,yakinlah ada hikmahNya..wallahualam.
I'm telling myself,rezeki Allah yg bagi,InsyaAllah.

facial...painful but do wonders.

2009-10-18T15:38:00.001+08:00

Salam......I would love to spill the details about my visit to Cress Wellness recently..remember the previous entry,i so need a break..yes,Alhamduliilah,MR.SO took care of the kids for 2 hrs and I had my facial.It was painful..Ya Rabbi..sakit gilos,but 2 days after that,i saw my skin is actually better.
I am super busy now so I will end this here.To all mummies that need "that"break..go for it.Insyaallah,when I have the time,I would love to do it again,maybe make it a once a month thingy.My personal opi...it's worth it :)

I need some TLC.....

2009-10-14T14:54:00.000+08:00

I need some TLC!!!!kekekeke...I need a body massage,head to toe..facial,foot massage..the works.I need it so badly I am actually "~~drooling"~~praying for it to happen..~~buruknye~~kesian kann..

So..to Mr.SO....please make my wish come true this weekend.Mummy needs a break so badly..love you Yang!!!

have I changed that much?

2009-10-11T00:42:00.002+08:00

pics by google

salam.....have you changed?say...the last 10 years of your life...have you changed in any aspects of your life?I can't say that I have change(others can tell)..I'd love to change...for the better,a better person,wife,mummy,daughter,sister,friend....and most importantly a better muslim.I got married 7 years ago and my eldest is now 4+...so,yes..my priorities in life have changed.

pics by google

I'm not gonna elaborate on which part of my life that I felt have changed...Those closest to me can point out right away these changes and I believe they are positive changes..insyaAllah.

I'm also a firm believer that at one point in our life,we have to change...to accomodate our lifestyle,our loved ones and our priorities.

pics by google

Time flies very fast,if we're not aware of it,it will just pass by us like the wind,unnoticed.I'm happy with what I have now,alhamdulillah.Yes...I'm only human.....sometimes I do wish I can have more in certain things but I have my family and my friends to remind me to be thankful...always.

updates for ayah :)

2009-10-08T01:54:00.000+08:00

like this place :)

marissa refused going for her afternoon nap and insisited on putting henna on her hand

cantik ke?

tgh nyanyi old mc donald had a farm

my darlings

assalamualaikum ayah...we are okay..how are you?we've been busy too..:)kakak had henna on her hands and abang have been busy...playing and bullying kakak..;)

nasib anak...

2009-10-06T16:31:00.003+08:00

assalamualaikum...hopefully everyone is healthy and happy.....
it's about nasib anak no2 lagi...those who believes the western pyschology or westerns thinking would agree with this"2nd child syndrome"..I..honestly dah penat sangat dengar pasal orang cakap:
"awak tau la kan anak no2 camna???!!!"
"yeah...she's the 2nd in the family..tu yg degil semacam"
"anak no2 kan garang...suka tiru kakak dia!!!sebok je!!"
and so on,and on and on...you know...they can go on forever on this topic...on how they despise these 2nd child,they prefer the first child who are ALWAYS(in their opinion)deserve everything more than the rest of the siblings because they are the 1st...and they can go on how the last child of the family are actually an angel....
I feel sorry for the children...all of them..no matter whether they're the 1st or 2nd or 3rd or 4th or...byk lagi ke..they were "trained"to despise their siblings even when they themselves are KIDS.They are "trained"to differentiate themselves from the rest of the siblings because mummy and nenek and atok says so.They are"trained"to tell their siblings that "i'm better and i deserve more things because i'm the 1st child"...
I feel sorry for them.
I have 2 kids myself...at the moment.My eldest is a girl,alhamdulillah.Her name is Marissa.
My second child is a boy,alhamdulillah.His name is Muhammad Muaz.
They are different in gender,qualities,habits,heights,weights,achievements...and so on..
but I love them both so very much EQUALLY.InsyaAllah..never once I told them that Marissa can have more coz she's the first..or muaz have more coz he's a boy..(i've heard someone told me that marissa can have more..she's the 1st child)
When I conceived them both...I was thankful to Allah swt for these amazing blessings that he gave us,me n my husband.These two "amanah"from Allah swt..are equally important,equally loved(insyaAllah)...I dont want to betray the trust that Allah have given me,nauzubillah.
I found this new blog when i googled:"is there such thing as 2nd child syndrome in Islam?"and i found this
So...dear all...love them equally..thats your promise to Allah swt..when you wanted them.

dearest ayah....with love..

2009-10-04T00:34:00.000+08:00

"as we promised you ayah...we slept shortly after you left...:)mummy having a little bit of headache due to the humid weather..we love you and we promise we will take care of each other,we won't fight ;)..we will drink our milk and we will follow what mummy says...ayah take care okay...don't you worry bout us,insyaAllah..we'll be okay.we love you!!!"-marissa and muaz.

sharing....

2009-10-03T09:20:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum.....to marissa,muaz and to anyone reading this right now,I hope that this entry will benefit us all...InsyaAllah.I received it from my uncle via email and I think he got it from a website called Tmn2 syurga.
5 PERKARA ELOK DISEBUT
Dalam sesi muzakarah kali ini, saya hendak menarik perhatian tentang 5 perkara yang patut disebut-sebut selalu untuk memberi kesedaran kepada kita sepanjang menjalani hidup ini.

Nabi Muhammad saw pernah mengingatkan umat-umatnya tentang kelima-lima perkara ini iaitu:

1. Perbanyakkan menyebut Allah daripada menyebut makhluk.

Sudah menjadi kebiasaan bagi kita menyebut atau memuji-muji orang yang berbuat baik kepada kita sehingga kadang-kadang kita terlupa hakikat bahawa terlampau banyak nikmat yang telah Allah berikan kepada kita. Lantaran itu, kita terlupa memuji dan menyebut-nyebut nama Allah. Makhluk yang berbuat baik sedikit kita puji habisan tapi nikmat yang terlalu banyak Allah berikan kita langsung tak ingat. Sebaik-baiknya elok dibasahi lidah kita dengan memuji Allah setiap ketika, bukan ucapan Al-hamdulillah hanya apabila sudah kekenyangan hingga sedawa. Pujian begini hanya di lidah saja tak menyelera hingga ke hati.
2. Perbanyakkan menyebut akhirat daripada menyebut urusan dunia.

Dunia terlalu sedikit dibandingkan dengan akhirat. 1000 tahun di dunia setimpal dengan ukuran masa sehari di akhirat. Betapa kecilnya nisbah umur di dunia ini berbanding akhirat. Nikmat dunia juga 1/100 daripada nikmat akhirat. Begitu juga seksa dan kepayahan hidup di dunia hanya 1/100 daripada akhirat. Hanya orang yang senteng fikiran sibuk memikirkan Wawasan Dunia (WD) hingga terlupa Wawasan Akhirat (WA). Manusia yang paling cerdik ialah mereka yang sibuk merancang Wawasan Akhiratnya. Saham Amanah Dunia (SAD) tak penting, tapi yang paling penting ialah Saham Amanah Akhirat (SAA) yang tak pernah rugi dan merudum malahan sentiasa naik berlipat kali ganda. Oleh itu perbanyakkanlah menyebut-nyebut perihal akhirat supaya timbul keghairahan menanam dan melabur saham akhirat.
3. Perbanyakkan menyebut dan mengingat hal-hal kematian daripada hal-hal kehidupan.

Kita sering memikirkan bekalan hidup ketika tua dan bersara tapi jarang memikirkan bekalan hidup semasa mati. Memikirkan mati adalah sunat kerana dengan berbuat demikian kita akan menginsafi diri dan kekurangan amalan yang perlu dibawa ke sana. Perjalanan yang jauh ke akhirat sudah tentu memerlukan bekalan yang amat banyak. Bekalan itu hendaklah dikumpulkan semasa hidup di dunia ini. Dunia ibarat kebun akhirat. Kalau tak usahakan kebun dunia ini masakan dapat mengutip hasilnya di akhirat? Dalam hubungan ini eloklah sikap Saidina Alli dicontohi. Meskipun sudah terjamin akan syurga, Saidina Ali masih mengeluh dengan hebat sekali tentang kurangnya amalan untuk dibawa ke akhirat yang jauh perjalanannya. Betapa pula dengan diri kita yang kerdil dan bergelumang dengan dosa?
4. Jangan menyebut-nyebut kebaikan diri dan keluarga.

Syaitan memang sentiasa hendak memerangkap diri kita dengan menyuruh atau membisikkan kepada diri kita supaya sentiasa mengingat atau menyebut-nyebut tentang kebaikan yang kita lakukan sama ada kepada diri sendiri, keluarga atau masyarakat amnya. Satu kebaikan yang kita buat, kita sebut-sebut selalu macam rasmi ayam 'bertelur sebiji riuh sekampung'. Kita terlupa bahawa dengan menyebut dan mengingat kebaikan kita itu sudah menimbulkan satu penyakit hati iaitu ujub. Penyakit ujub ini ibarat api dalam sekam boleh merosakkan pahala kebajikan yang kita buat. Lebih dahsyat lagi jika menimbulkan ria' atau bangga diri yang mana Allah telah memberi amaran sesiapa yang memakai sifatNya (ria') tidak akan mencium bau syurga. Ria' adalah satu unsur dari syirik (khafi). Oleh itu eloklah kita berhati-hati supaya menghindarkan diri daripada mengingat kebaikan diri kita kepada orang lain. Kita perlu sedar bahawa perbuatan buat baik yang ada pada diri kita itu sebenarnya datang dari Allah. Allah yang menyuruh kita buat baik. Jadi kita patut bersyukur kepada Allah kerana menjadikan kita orang baik, bukannya mendabik dada mengatakan kita orang baik. Kita terlupa kepda Allah yang mengurniakan kebaikan itu.
5. Jangan sebut-sebut dan nampak-nampakkan keaiban atau keburukan diri orang lain. Kegelapan hati ditokok dengan rangsangan syaitan selalu menyebabkan diri kita menyebut-nyebut kesalahan dan kekurangan orang lain. Kita terdorong melihat keaiban orang sehingga terlupa melihat keaiban dan kekurangan diri kita sendiri. Bak kata orang tua-tua 'kuman seberang lautan nampak, tapi gajah di depan mata tak kelihatan'. Islam menuntut kita melihat kekurangan diri supaya dengan cara itu kita dapat memperbaiki kekurangan diri kita. Menuding jari mengatakan orang lain tak betul sebenarnya memberikan isyarat bahawa diri kita sendiri tidak betul. Ibarat menunjuk jari telunjuk kepada orang; satu jari arah ke orang itu tapi 4 lagi jari menuding ke arah diri kita. Bermakna bukan orang itu yang buruk, malahan diri kita lebih buruk daripadanya. Oleh sebab itu, biasakan diri kita melihat keburukan diri kita bukannya keburukan orang lain. Jangan menjaga tepi kain orang sedangkan tepi kain kita koyak rabak. Dalam Islam ada digariskan sikap positif yang perlu dihayati dalam hubungan sesama manusia iaitu lihatlah satu kebaikan yang ada pada diri seseorang, meskipun ada banyak kejahatan yang ada pada dirinya. Apabila melihat diri kita pula, lihatkan kejahatan yang ada pada diri kita walaupun kita pernah berbuat baik. Hanya dengan cara ini kita terselamat dari bisikan syaitan yang memang sentiasa mengatur perangkap untuk menjerumuskan kita ke dalam api neraka.
Demikian tazkirah minggu ini. Semoga 5 perkara yang disebutkan di atas dapat kita hayati dan diterapkan dalam kehidupan kita seharian. Sama-sama beroda semoga terselamat dari kemurkaan Allah semasa di dunia hingga ke akhirat. Amin...
Dalam sepotong ayat dan hadis ada menerangkan:
"Sesungguhnya yang mengada-adakan kebohongan itu hanyalah orang-orang yang tidak beriman dengan ayat-ayat Allah dan merekalah pembohong-pembohong." (An-Nahl ayat 105)
"Barangsiapa mengatakan dariku apa yang aku tidak katakan, maka hendaklah Ia bersedia mengambil tempatnya dari Neraka."(HR: Az-Zahabi dlm Al-Kabair.)
-Berpesan-pesan sesama insan-

Majlis "baraan"and hari raya 2009

2009-09-28T16:43:00.001+08:00

marissa and aisyah

marissa,aisyah,muaz

in the messy toys room

muhammad yassin and BIL (jai)

yassin,nazhif,aisyah,marissa

kuah kacang

sambal tumis ikan bilis +petai

my rendang ayam

Salam babes....I was so like super duper busy the whole week.Nak crite pon still tired.Had majlis "baraan"in our neighbourhood..the first time the people here actually "planned"for a proper majlis baraan,they usually just "serang"your house during hari raya.*hehehe*What I mean by "serang"is,around 8-10 families plus 20 kids go to your house after isyak prayers to celebrate raya...
This year they made a plan not to serang but to do it row by row of houses.Invited my sisters but they had their own plans and my BIL couldn't make it as they were otw from JB.So,I didnt get to "escape"hahaha..wished my sister wud have told me that she was organizing her own raya celeb...then I can go to her place...but it's okay.I dont mind people coming to my house,but oh it was so tiring.....penat woo!!!All in all,Alhamdulillah,there was dua and selawat Nabi,Alhamdulillah...Penat tapi berbaloi2..tho I missed my celeb with my mom and my sisters,nieces and nephew...takde rezeki kat sana,ada rezeki kat rumah sendiri..:)
I didn't take any pics..so busy attending to...50 or more people...I made chicken rendang,kuah kacang,sambal tumis ikan bilis with petai(hubby's and dad's request) and nasi impit..drinks,kuih muih..itu je la yang termampu.*alhamdulillah*
Marissa was excited..she knows there'll be "so many guests"in our house every year and she couldn't wait for that nite...
The day after,I made nasi lemak and curry mee.My eldest sister came to fetch my dad to go back to his house.So,we had curry mee and nasi lemak and sambal ikan bilis from the day before.Later in the afternoon as my dad was leaving,my husbands bro and family together with my Inlaws came to celebrate raya with us.My BIL wasnt in KL the whole week.So,they came and left around 8pm and we continued our majlis baraan to visit our neighbours houses(balas kunjungan).That night itself we went to 8 houses...Ya Rabbi...penatnye...dah tak fun dah..so tiring but kalau tak follow org berasa hati pulak..(paham2 je la ye)
On sunday,I went to celebrate raya with my own ol'buddies as ame called us.The kureng part,I forgot to bring my camera..so,enjoy the pics at ame's blog..heheheh...tumpang ye makcik:).I knew Liza and Yati like 17yrs ago.We were batchgirls..Ame is more senior(tabik puan)..tu pon sbb akak muda lagi hahahaha....
Had a great lunch at Yati's,and kek lapis sarawak at Ame's.Most importantly..my kids enjoyed their day..our kids made friends with each other(terharu)and I hope we can do this again soon.Liza might just make our wish come true if her"open " house is confirmed to be on the 4th or 3rd..kekeke...
Today is monday and I'm going to my massage session later...oh..i so need that.

raya 2009

2009-09-23T08:34:00.001+08:00

Assalamualaikum gorgeous babes!!!!!!!Still having your rendang and lemang for breakfast?Any open house next week?Don't forget to invite ah...kehkehkeh..(tak malukannn..)Here are some pics during our 1st raya in KL and USJ.More to come insya'allah.didn't snap a lot of pics though coz makcik jadi "orang kuat"that's what my MIL called me that day,I had to do the replenishing of the food,washed the dishes,make drinks,etc,etc,etc...We were the only family from my hubby's side spending the raya there.My BIL went back to his in-laws house...MIL had no other help except fom moi...nyeh nyeh nyeh...:)...(with help from my dearest hubbby of coure...looking after the kids needs except when muaz insisted on me carrying him)
We had like everybody else's lah kot...rendang,nasi impit,sayur lodeh,soto,kuah kacang...chocolate cake,raya cookies....green syrup(homemade)and carbonated drinks for the guests...After solat sunat Aidil Fitri in the surau nearby the house,walking distance,we went home to bersalam salaman.This year I'm more excited for the kids because Muaz already know that he can collect "duit raya"..hahaha..marissa was given a sling pouch by her tokmak to keep all the duit raya that she collected that day..Muaz on the other hand will go straight to the room,got on the bed and start opening his duit raya envelopes and counting.."mom..look,I have so much MONEY!!!!"Muaz with big grin and big eyes waving the money at me.hahaha..so cute.
After breakfast with the kids,our guests came non stop until late in the afternoon...at around 5pm,we packed our things to spend the rest of our 1st day of raya in USJ Subang(my kampong hahaha)...and that's how we spend our !st day of raya 2009 :)..Alhamdulillah,semuanya dipermudahkan and I'm so thankful and feeling so blessed that I get to spend good times with my loved ones on this Raya day..we never know if there's still tomorrow kan?Alhamdulillah.Me and my family like to wish you babes a Happy Hari Raya again..adios!

marissa

hero and princess :)

my sweethearts

my love,my life.......

came back from solat sunat aidilfitri with "duit raya"from tok bah and tok mak.

best friends in genma's house

zzzzzz....this pic was taken on 3rd raya,Muaz insisted on wearing the sampin to sleep.(baju dah basuh hokay)

Wallahualam...semoga kita semua selamat.

2009-09-23T00:31:00.001+08:00

Assalamualaikum dear friends,readers :)..How was Raya so far?Mine was wonderful...Alhamdulillah.Waiting for my Hubby to come home and continue our raya celebrations with friends and families.I received this note in my mail box and I wanted to share this with you.Hopefully,in our raya celebrations,we wont forget to do our "kewajipan"kepadaNYa..insyaallah...take care babes..enjoy the rest of your hols..:)

MENJELANG PUASA 2012....WALLAHUALAM...ALLAH MAHA MENGETAHUI-NYA..

Cuba kira... 1 Ramadan pada tahun 2012 jatuh pada 20 july hari jumaat, jadi 3 august 2012 bersamaan 15 ramadan jatuh juga hari jumaat.
Sama dengan hadis nabi pasal huru hara besar yang akan jadi pada tengah malam pertengahan bulan ramadan iaitu hari jumaat 15 ramadan
dekat bumi ni yang akan mengejutkan semua orang yang sedang tidur, pasal satu suara yang amat dahsyat akan kita dengar dekat langit,
bukan kiamat tapi huru hara tersebut akan melenyapkan umat manusia di atas muka bumi ini sebanyak 2/3,yang tinggal cuma 1/3 shj. (yang NASA Amerika dok bagitau pada 21-12-2012 planet X akan lintas mai kat bumi ni)
Adakah kita semua ni tergolong dalam 1/3 tu....ALLAH sahaja maha mengetahui............
cuba kita tengok hadis nabi kat bawah ni dan kenyataan pasal calender islam 2012.
Nu'aim bin Hammad meriwayatkan dengan sanadnya bahwa Rasulullah saw. bersabda:
Bila telah muncul suara di bulan Ramadhan, maka akan terjadi huru-hara di bulan Syawwal..."
Kami bertanya: "Suara apakah, ya Rasulullah?" Beliau menjawab: "Suara keras di pertengahan bulan Ramadhan,
pada malam Jumaat, akan muncul suara keras yang membangunkan orang tidur, menjadikan orang yang berdiri
jatuh terduduk, para gadis keluar dari pingitannya, pada malam Jumaat di tahun terjadinya banyak gempa.
Jika kalian telah melaksanakan shalat Subuh pada hari Jumaat, masuklah kalian ke dalam rumah kalian, tutuplah pintu-pintunya,
sumbatlah lubang-lubangnya, dan selimutilah diri kalian, sumbatlah telinga kalian. Jika kalian merasakan adanya suara menggelegar,
maka bersujudlah kalian kepada Allah dan ucapkanlah: "Mahasuci Al-Quddus, Mahasuci Al-Quddus, Rabb kami Al-Quddus!",
karena barangsiapa melakukan hal itu akan selamat, tetapi barangsiapa yang tidak melakukan hal itu akan binasa".

selamat hari raya babes!!!

2009-09-17T02:35:00.000+08:00

Salam babes...saya dengan rasa rendah diri menyusun sepuluh jari,memohon maaf seandainya my entries before this ada yg telah menyinggung sesiapa disini...ianya bukan disengajakan...saya bersama family mengucapkan selamat hari raya aidilfitri kepada semua readers,friends and family jauh dan dekat.drive safely to your destinations and semoga bergembira di hari raya(jgn gembira tak hingat dah..hehehe)take care babes...

mStar Online : Hari raya bukan hari sedih

2009-09-15T03:09:00.001+08:00

mStar Online : Hari raya bukan hari sedih

Shared via AddThis

don't judge darlings,empathize :)

2009-09-13T16:40:00.000+08:00

"eh..semua nak tanya wife dia dulu...mesti kena queen control"
"minah tu apa2 sikit nak tanya husband dia,stress betul hidup dia kan??""\
"nasib baikla aku tak kahwin,kalau tak nak jaga laki,anak2...no time for myself.everything have to answer to my husband"
"ei...dia tu tak bercampur ngan jiran/orang..mesti sombong tu..berlagak"

These lists of daily conversations could fill up the whole page..:)

Familiar with them?Sounds familiar to my ears..I hear this almost everywhere...the reason why I don't join any group or persatuan or anything that has got to do with people having the chance to "mengumpat".(sometimes terbabas jgk ngan kwn2 )

Why do we judge other people?Who gave us the rights?Why do we think that we are "better"than the rest?Who are the victims?

We tend to forget that He is THE only ONE that can be THE judge...that all of us WILL face the judgement day...

So,it doesn't matter if that wife wants to ask her husbands permission for everything that she does,or this husbands wants to discuss with his wife first before he makes any decisions,doesn't matter if some people wants to marry because their "nawaitu"was to meramaikan umat Rasulullah,or it doesn't matter if the lady just want to stay home and mind her own business...(maybe she's always in pain and cannot join the community)...it doesn't matter...what matters is mind your own business and DON'T JUDGE...I'm just reminding myself....don't judge..emphatize...we're not qualified.

Sharing is Caring..

2009-09-11T22:43:00.000+08:00

Salam…Semoga dirahmati Allah Sentiasa. Sekadar renungan bersama……..
Tiga Cahaya Di Hari Kiamat

Di hari kiamat ada tiga cahaya yang berl ain an :
* Cahaya yang pertama seperti bintang-bintang.
* Cahaya yang kedua seperti cahaya bulan.
* Cahaya yang ketiga seperti cahaya matahari.
Apabila ditanya cahaya apakah ini ? Lalu dijawab :
"Cahaya yang pertama ialah cahaya wajah-wajah manusia yang
ketika di dunia, mereka akan meninggalkan pekerjaan dan terus bersuci dan
mengambil air sembahyang apabila terdengar azan.

Yang kedua ialah cahaya wajah mereka yang mengambil air
sembahyang sebelum azan.
Cahaya yang ketiga ialah cahaya mereka seperti matahari.
Mereka di dunia sudah bersiap sedia di dalam mas jid sebelum azan lagi."
Kala Jengking Neraka
Di hari kiamat akan keluar seekor binatang dari neraka jahanam yang
bernama "Huraisy" berasal dari anak kala jengking.
Besarnya Huraisy ini dari timur hingga ke barat. Panjangnya pula seperti
jarak langit dan bumi.
Malaikat Jibril bertanya : " Hai Huraisy ! Engkau hendak ke mana dan siapa
yang kau cari?"
Huraisy pun menjawab, "Aku mahu mencari lima orang.
Pertama, orang yang meninggalkan sembahyang.
Kedua, orang yang tidak mahu keluarkan zakat
Ketiga, orang yang derhaka kepada ibubapanya
Keempat, orang yang bercakap tentang dunia di dalam masjid.
Kelima, orang yang suka minum arak."
Simpanlah baik2 amanat ini dan sebagai peringatan kita setiap hari.
Sampaikan kepada sekelian muslimin/muslimat yang l ain semoga
menjadi pedoman hidup hingga keakhir hayat , Insya ' Allah
A langkah berbahagianya anda semua yang mempunyai anak lelaki dan dididik
pula melaungkan azan di mas jid2 maupun disurau2..Amin. Wasallam.

Semoga Allah merahmati kita semua dan mengampuni segala dosa2 kita yang
lalu dan hari ini. Azan adalah dakwah yang paling utama sekali kerana
ianya mengajak kita membuat kebaikan dan mengingati Allah swt. Secara
tidak sedar kita sentiasa didakwah sebanyak 5 X sehari. Cubalah hayati
setiap perkataan dan jawaplah seperti yang disarankan. Bagi orang yang
melaungkan azan pula jika dia berniat untuk seluruh alam (spt yang
disarankan olih Allah kepada Nabi Ibrahim alaihisallam) muazin itu akan
mendapat pahala umat islam seluruh alam yang bersolat pada hari itu.
begitulah kelebihannya yang Allah beri. Wassallam...
ADAB MENDENGAR AZAN
Kematian itu pasti menjelma. Hanya masa dan waktunya yang tidak kita
ketahui.Cuba kita amati . Mengapa kebanyakan orang yg nazak, hampir ajal
tidak dapat berkata apa-apa.. lidahnya kelu, keras dan hanya mimik
mukanya yang menahan kesakitan ' sakaratul maut ' . Diriwayatkan sebuah
hadis yg bermaksud: "Hendaklah kamu mendiamkan diri ketika azan, jika
tidak Allah akan kelukan lidahnya ketika maut menghampirinya."
Ini jelas menunjukkan, kita disarankan agar mendiamkan diri, jangan
berkata apa-apa pun se mas a azan berkumandang . Sebagai orang beragama
Islam kita wajib
menghormati azan Banyak fadhilatnya . Jika lagu kebangsaan kita diajar
agar berdiri tegak dan diamkan diri.
Mengapa ketika azan kita tidak boleh mendiamkan diri? Lantas sesiapa yang
berkata-kata ketika azan, Allah akan kelukan lidahnya ketika nazak . Kita
takut dengan kelunya lidah kita se mas a ajal hampir tiba maka kita
tidak dapat mengucap kalimah "Lailahaillallah. ." yang mana sesiapa yang
dapat mengucapkan kalimah ini ketika nyawanya akan dicabut Allah dgn
izinNya menjanjikan syurga untuk mereka. Dari itu marilah kita sama-sama
menghormati azan dan mohon kepada Allah supaya lidah ini tidak kelu
se masa nyawa kitasedang dicabut.
"Ya Allah! Anugerahkanlah kematian kami dengan kematian yang baik lagi mulia, lancarkan lidah kami mengucap kalimah "Lailahaillallah. .." semasa sakaratul maut menghampiri kami. Amin.. amin.. amin Yarobbala ' lamin .."

hidayah...

2009-09-11T20:11:00.002+08:00

Salam everyone...I received this mail and I want to share it with you babes.It's very touching(to me at least)and I have a lot of respect for this amazing lady for being brave enough to come forward and share her story with us.May all of us with get the petunjuk and hidayah dari Allah swt.

Rasanya sudah ramai yang tahu tentang kesusahan lampau saya kerana
banyak majalah menyiarkan cerita itu. Niat saya tiada lain, hanya mahu
menjadi pencetus semangat untuk wanita di luar sana . Biar mereka tahu, sebagai
manusia jangan terlalu mengharapkan orang lain untuk berjaya dalam
hidup.
Saya pernah jadi penoreh getah, sambil-sambil itu melakukan
bermacam-macam kerja kampung untuk menampung hidup. Malah pernah juga
cuba berniaga kedai runcit, menyertai MLM dan bekerja kilang
Apabila berjaya dengan perniagaan Sendayu Tinggi, saya mula sedar
manusia perlu ada tiga sifat jika mahu berjaya. Pertama, mereka mesti
mengorak langkah untuk memulakan perkara kecil dalam diri. Kemudian, jangan
pernah berkata tidak sebelum mencuba kerana tiada apa yang mustahil.
Ketiga, jangan suka menyalahkan orang lain.
Nilai sepuluh sen
Bila sudah berjaya mengumpul kekayaan, tiap-tiap tahun saya pergi
umrah. Ada banyak peristiwa yang dialami di tanah suci namun ada satu
pengalaman yang paling menarik. Ia berlaku ketika saya tidur lalu
bermimpi, satu suara menyuruh saya membaca beberapa ayat daripada surah Al-Baqarah.
Sekembalinya saya ke tanah air, saya terus mencari tafsir Al- Quran.
Saya mendapati antara maksud ayat yang disuruh baca itu ialah mereka yang
mendapat hidayah namun jika memalingkan mukanya, mungkin tiada lagi
hidayah untuknya selepas itu.
Saya memang sudah lama terdetik mahu berganjak ke alam (fasa) lain
sebaik sahaja usia mencecah 40 iaitu membuat persediaan untuk mati. Saya
mula melihat betapa kehidupan di dunia ini sangat singkat, indah dan perlu
dinikmati. Saya sedih mengenang ramai orang yang berjaya dalam
perniagaan tetapi hidup tidak bahagia.
Ketika saya mengejar dunia, hidup dirasakan huru-hara. Pernah saya beli
sebuah kereta dengan harga RM1 juta. Setiap kali tiba di satu-satu
tempat, saya senang melihat banyak mata memandang dan berbisik-bisik
kagum.
Namun lama-kelamaan saya tersedar, rasa bangga melihat kekaguman orang itu
menimbulkan perasaan riak dan mahu menunjuk-nunjuk.
Jika syiling sepuluh sen terjatuh, pernah satu ketika saya tidak mahu
mengutipnya semula. Waktu itu saya memikirkan kelas sebagai seorang
jutawan. Tetapi hari ini, saya tidak mahu lagi bersikap begitu. Saya
mahu buang rasa riak, sebab nilai duit sepuluh sen itu besar nilainya
pada sesetengah orang dan tidak patut dibazirkan begitu sahaja.
Saya tidak pandai mengaji dan tidak tinggi ilmu agama. Jadi saya
mengupah seorang ustazah yang tinggal bersama di rumah ini untuk
mengajar serta seorang ustaz untuk berkongsi ilmu agama. Sehari setiap minggu, rumah
saya dibuka untuk orang ramai menyertai majlis ilmu yang dibuat di sini.
Impian saya yang masih belum tercapai ialah membina sebuah kompleks
hasil perniagaan. Di kompleks berkenaan saya mahu membangunkan aktiviti
dakwah di samping memberikan kehidupan kepada fakir miskin menerusi
perkongsian ideologi perniagaan.
Saya tidak mahu golongan susah yang saya bantu ini memandang saya
sebagai sumber kewangan. Saya tidak memberikan mereka 'ikan' tetapi
'pancing' untuk mengubah kehidupan. Caranya saya beri mereka produk untuk
dipasarkan. Saya juga mengambil kuih, kerepek dan lain-lain daripada
mereka untuk dijual.
Satu lagi impian yang sedang diusahakan, saya mahu bina sebuah rumah
perlindungan untuk anak yatim piatu dan mualaf. Rumah sudah ada, tenaga
pengajar pun tidak ada masalah. Cuma tinggal mencari bayi dan
kanak-kanak untuk dibesarkan dengan pendidikan akademik berserta ilmu
agama di rumah tersebut.
Kini mula berpurdah Purdah ini sudah lima bulan saya pakai. Bukan sebab alim, dan bukan
juga sebab H1N1. Sebaliknya inilah antara cara saya menjaga hati daripada
dirasuk perasaan riak. Bila mengenakan purdah, tiada orang yang
mengenali saya jadi tiada lagi layanan istimewa yang biasa saya dapat.
Saya tidak malu untuk mengaku, selama ini memang saya pakai tudung
tetapi hati masih kotor. Ini kerana walaupun memakai tudung saya sering
kalah bila syaitan berbisik supaya bersolek setiap kali ke luar rumah sesuai
status selaku pengasas produk kecantikan.
"Kau kenalah pakai baju yang menampakkan kelangsingan, barulah orang
tahu produk kau bagus" - itu juga antara bisikannya yang sering
menewaskan saya. Barangkali ketika itu saya antara wanita akhir zaman yang disebut
dalam hadis 'menutup aurat tetapi masih bertelanjang'
Sebagai majikan pula, kadangkala saya memarahi pekerja kerana mahu
semuanya serba sempurna. Saya menjadi sungguh takut apabila tersedar
dan berfikir bagaimana pula saya di sisi majikan paling besar iaitu Allah
Taala? Dia pun berhak marahkan saya kerana sungguhpun solat, di mana
zikir dan amalan sunat bagi menyempurnakan lagi amalan kepadanya?
Syukurlah, perubahan yang dibuat melimpahkan bahagia dalam hidup.
Anak-anak (Nurhayati, Alif Syukri, Aiman Hazim, Nurazizah dan Nurain
Sufiyah) dan suami melengkapkan lagi dunia wanita ini.
Kini hari-hari saya lalui sambil meneguk kelazatan ilmu akhirat.
Melayan keletah anak-anak, mengulit orkid, epal Madura, daun kesum, kedondong,
kari, limau purut dan pokok herba lain; juga melayan burung, ayam,
lampam, puyuh, puyu dan tilapia melengkapkan lagi kediaman bak syurga dunia
yang saya gelar Sorga Ammi.
Sesudah solat Subuh, tatkala berdiri di balkoni rumah menyaksikan kabus
berlalu dibawa angin sambil merenung kalam-kalam bukit , saya semakin
yakin betapa perlunya saya bersyukur menjadi hamba yang dilimpahi kasih
sayangNya. -Pn.Rozita,pengasas Sendayu Tinggi.

maafkan segala salah silap=kosong2 okay..??

2009-09-11T01:31:00.000+08:00

Salam babes...wondering what do you guys say to your friends,close friends,acquaintance,neighbours...bla,bla,bla..dan yang sewaktu dengannye when you wish them selamat hari raya,maaf zahir dan batin?Every year,alhamdulillah..when we get to celebrate Hari Raya,I notice most people will just extend their hands,sengeh2 and say"kosong2"...I first heard that term 7 years ago..being sometimes "lurus" like me,I wondered what is "kosong2??"

Then barula paham..ohhh..minta maaf...So since then I understand how some people minta maaf during hari raya...Hmmm..maybe its funny to some people or maybe minta maaf is not something that they take it seriously...I on the other hand is very careful on how i minta maaf during hari raya or hari2 lain...bukan nak kata I baik..but I takut kalau ada orang yg tersakit hati or berasa hati ngan I,and I tak sempat minta kemaafan from tht person,then tiba2 my time is up...hmmm..nauzubillah....I'm sure you babes have come across people like this or like me :)

I ada jugak berasa hati with few people yang mulut sgt laser,or perbuatan yg made me cry at night(as if)but every year..they never say sorry..they simply salam and walk off.Maybe I dont deserve their kemaafan (betul ke aku ckp ni,y'olls paham tak what i'm trying to say?)or maybe they think they're sinless or maybe there's nothing to forgive and they prefer to forget...and every year I'll wait anxiously for that moment to come,for them to hurt my feelings again.My good friend will tell me"takpe la Na..ko redha je,forgive them"and I will follow her advice again but still I know what is waiting for me this raya.

To all my readers...this entry is just to share with you that sometimes,people get hurt..and if they get hurt because of us,I think it's only right to say sorry the proper way.(my 2cts worth)

raya sale :)

2009-09-10T20:27:00.001+08:00

Salam everyone....how are things?yesss...It's sepuluh hari terhakhir ramadhan..alhamdulillah,syukur.May all of us be granted with all the blessings from Allah swt...

I have few things with me here that I'd like to sell..They're all used but still in very good condition as I've only used them twice.I have this Carlo Rino pumps that I bought early last year and I've only worn them twice.

As for the bowlings set,I was once an avid bowler :)..love the game but I dont have the time to play them as often as I want to.I only used the trolley bag,and the shoes once.My purple ball have been used many times,I've had it with me since1991..but the new colorful ball was only used once by my hubby.

So dear friends and readers,please email me if you want these items or if you know anyone who wants to have them.

carlo rino's shoe box with size and price tag

carlo rino size 6@37 selling for rm40.

mens bowling shoes

columbia yellow dot hardball 13kg

trolley bag for 2 balls,columbia white dot hardball and ladies bowling shoes size 7(6)

yesss...we did it!!..hehehehe..

2009-09-03T01:47:00.001+08:00

Salam everyone...how's your raya preparation?Mine is as as per normal..not much to be done.Everything is done in moderation mode..kekeke..tomorrow going to pick up the fruitcake from elin.....yummy..The last time I had steamed fruit cake was 3 years ago..:(
The entry today is about me trying to make raya cookies ..for the first time for my kids and my hubby,of course.I've never bake cakes or cookies,I don't have any confidence in making them myself.I was afraid if it didn't turn out the it was suppose to,it would make me feel less a mommy...???
So,this year,I decided to make them anyway..come what may,I'm ready for it..and tadaaaaa.....they were fabulous..chewahhh..yess..I like to overrate things sometimes...but,really..I'm so glad they turn out great.My hubby and the kids enjoyed it very much.Marissa infact helped me to spoon the cornflakes into the paper cupcakes mould..(proud of you baby!!!)
So..there you go guys..you'll never know unless you try and never underestimate yourself..you'll surprise yourself sometime.It might not be a big thing to those who make cookies every year...but it's a biggie to me..hehehe..never tried anything like this before.Fun and satisfying.

Hokay...gotta go..take care babes and happy shpping to those loves to shop,happy baking to those who loves to bake and enjoy to the rest...dot.dot.dot...

great outing..

2009-09-01T01:32:00.002+08:00

Salam everyone...babes,dudes,mommies,daddies..ladies and gentlemen...Yesss...mummycool is in a good mood.I had a great time with my family today.A normal outing but what made it special is because,my kiddos had a fab time...:)
They ran here and there,playing and teasing each other..Alhamdulillah.My intention to go out was to find my Raya baju kurung and tudung...no luck,nothing that I saw was nice enough to me.....no..I'm not that fussy but I can be if I think that the thing that i wanted to purchase,the price was marked up so much...not worth paying..hah enuff said~~..(actually takde duit)~~
So we went to KD giant to get some groceries and hoping to see the Ariani tudung collections that amelia khalik has been "persuading"me to see.(ala makcik takut mahal)....:).but it wasn't in KD giant..it was opposite of the Giant building.They opened a gallery there and they're having a SALE!!!!and they were CLOSED!!!!!!HUAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!
So I went home with a full tummy but feeling a lil bit down coz I didn't get to get my things...it's okay,ada la hikmahnya kannnn....
Hokay people...this I have to tell you.If you guys haven't tried Nachosnachos Kd Giant..u should try.The food was good,the service was great(i'm fussy when it comes to service)..and today I felt good coz I had a good meal with my family :) Bravo to Mr.Syahrin Zaini manager of Nachosnachos Kota Damansara,PN.Amelia Khalik and the staffs..
My kids are nachos lovers,so are their parents...they had Nachos tostada(two orders ya!!)I had the Ramadhan set,Ame's fried Chicken served with mexican rice,sirap bandung and ice lemon tea(bottomless...marissa's fave)
I didn't snap any pics...go to Nachosnachos for their menu.(ame...discount nxt time yek..mud pie pong okay ;) )
Seriously babes...their Oreo Mud Pie...yummylicious.That was my first time trying it and let me tell you it's gonna be in my MUST HAVE LIST on my next visit.Oh ya..if I forgot to tell you guys,I have a sweet toot.h..so..I can tell you which dessert is to die for and this Oreo mud pie def falls in that category.(if you guys happen to be in alamanda,try the brownies from the waffle kiosks in their foodcourt)

Hokay babes...gotta go..dunt wanna miss my sahur.take care..and sweet dreams ;)

Muslim women and colours « Everyday Muslims

2009-08-27T21:04:00.000+08:00

Muslim women and colours « Everyday Muslims

just sharing some info with my fellow muslims sisters :)

buka puasa sorang2..:(

2009-08-27T18:44:00.002+08:00

Today I'm breaking my fast alone...~~huaaa~~...hehehe...saspens je..actually I'm so used of handling things,the house,the kids alone..yess..husband always not around...oh no..don't have naughty imaginations ya...he's away working.
So 1st year marriage memang sad lah..but after that I got used to it and it's not so bad."everybody needs a little time alone..."muahahaha...remember that song??
so,gotta go babes...have to boil water for my nescafe...ahhhh...happy breakfasting y'all..

Happy Birthday Yayang!

2009-08-23T00:35:00.000+08:00

Salam y'all...How was buka puasa?Hope y'all didn't stuff yourself with all the delicious food.:)

Last Thursday we went for a special family dinner to celebrate my other half's birthday...age?hehehe..biarlah rahsia.We went to Nilai Springs Resort Hotel http://www.nilaisprings.com.my/

It's a new hotel in town and a very nice one too.

I didn't take any pictures of the food...was too hungry to snap pics..hehehe..I had Rancheros Grilled Steak served with sweet basil mayonnaise and black pepper sauce..yummy,my husband had Beef Stewed served with fettuccine and sauteed capsicum(sedaps gilos)and the kids had Al Dante spaghetti with meatball in tomato sauce.There were no one there except us,Alhamdulillah.I think there was a company gathering held there and they finished their buffet dinner before we came.I'm glad because I really don't want to be in a crowded area :)

Marissa enjoyed herself so much and asked to take her there again..(Insya'Allah sweetheart)She's a very cheeky girl and she loves making funny faces.Now,Muaz is following her footsteps,making funny faces too..hmmm...(layann)

terawih oh terawih....

2009-08-22T16:36:00.000+08:00

Salam people....How's your fasting so far?Going for sunat terawih later?I really want to go but..makcik ada 2 anak kecik kan(macamla kecik sgt)It's like this,eversince I had my kids,I've never had the chance to do my solat terawih at the mosque or rather berjemaah.I only do it at home...alone.:(...I'm OK with it coz to me it's bahagian masing2 but this year I think I want to try to take my two kiddos to the mosque for terawih.Marissa should be OK,she knows how to behave but Muaz...hmmm...I've seen him waiting for my hubby,not by his side but he was sitting a bit far from where my husband was praying.I don't want him to wander around when everybody else is praying..

So,have to discuss again with my better half bout this.If it's not safe,then..mummy solat in the house ajela..:)

So babes...selamat berbuka puasa and selamat solat terawih.

Selamat Berpuasa dan beribadah..

2009-08-21T20:50:00.000+08:00

To all my friends and fellow muslems...Selamat beribadah di bulan Ramadhan semoga mendapat rahmat dari Allah swt..

Nervous?Travelling With Todders?Don't Fret!Enjoy Their Company.

2009-08-21T00:32:00.000+08:00

Salam babes....daddies too...

As y'all already know,I just came back from a trip with my 2 kiddos.Marissa is 4+ and Muaz is 2+..My kids are very active,very curious about almost everything...they ask many questions and so on lah kann..I've been to Zurich with Marissa when she was 18mths old and it was a pleasant flight to and back.Mainly because Marissa was still breastfeeding then and she's such a good girl.She sat on her seat,ate her meals and slept when she felt sleepy.I was very lucky,Alhamdulillah.

After 3 years,I went to Auckland with not one but 2 toddlers,and this time I have a boy with me.Yup!!Muaz the "cannon ball"..I was quite nervous not knowing if I could handle them well,if they"ll behave,if they need to go to the loo...bla..bla..bla..

So,to shorten this piece...I'd like to share a few "tips"(i hope it will help)esp if you're travelling without yr spouse or yr maid..

Be positive:have an open mind,relax and have a positive thinking before you start your journey.You don't want to spoil the holiday mood.

Smile:It relaxes your facial muscle..as much as you want to scream at your kids,smile first..then the tense will slowly fade away...

Think funny:Do you have a funny bone?don't stress your kids with "don't do this or that stuffs"..let them explore.You have to understand that by exploring,your kids learns faster.

BYO rubbish bag:When you travel with toddlers,anticipate to have extra mess around you.So,in order to make some space in that cramp seat of yours,BYO plastic bags.Put everything that you don't need to use in the bag etc.wrappers,plastic cups,tissues...

Pre-order kids meal:Usually they come in a special box that will attract your kiddos,they have some cards or colouring stuffs to keep them occupied.Oh yes,don't forget to remind the stewardesses to serve your kids first before they serve you(they usually serve the kids 10-15mins before you get your tray)

Lighten up:when you have kids,they're your top priority..so,don't sulk when you don't get to read your fav mags or watch your fav movies.Keep your children occupied with their shows and video games,don't forget to answer their questions or they'll be ringing for the crew to attend to them :)

Walkabout:please let your children stretch or take them for a short walk around the cabin when the "coast"is clear.Having your kids strapped to their seats is not a wise decision.let them stretch their legs or have a chat with other mommies or children if they want to as long as they're not disturbing other passengers.

Last but not least....have fun.Your kids want to have fun with you,loosen up a bit and you'll pass this with flying colours.I'm looking forward to my next holidays with my kiddos..we had a blast,alhamdulillah.

Auckland and Kelly Tarlton's

2009-08-19T22:16:00.000+08:00

Salam everyone...Maybe some of you want to know where we went in Auckland...with 2 active toddlers,you have to take them to a place they will enjoy and remember.We took them to Kelly Tarltons,the Underwater World...yup..no details,just google it and you'll find all the interesting info's.(sorry babes...I'm so lazy)

Fun and very interesting place for the kids and us.The next time you want to go for a family holiday,try Auckland.

Randy,beloved pet passed away 17/08/09

2009-08-18T01:41:00.000+08:00

I received a call at 0815hrs on the 17Th/08/09 from my little sis,Aza....she couldn't even speak.All I heard was her cries and she said"randy".....I knew then...
I'm terribly sad of the news,my sister and my mom was devastated.They wouldn't even talk...They were both still crying when i called her 5 minutes ago.Not many would understand why it's such a big thing to us.Only cat lovers would.I don't have a picture of randy,they're all with my sisters.He's this flat faced Persian cat,orange....adorable and lazy.He's been with us or rather my sister for more than 15years..He will be missed...Even if I tell you how special he was,not many would understand...BabyBlu would as she knows how we loved Randy and how Randy has been a part of our journey in this world.
I know Randy is in a better place right now."neny...you know i love you and i will always will...:( ...)Rest in peace..we love you.