me and my soulmates

Saturday, September 18, 2010

It takes so many to make the world....

......I was with some friends during Iftar...a week or so before AidilFitri..old and new friends..it was an OK meeting,nothing fancy.I was seated infront of an old friend,someone who's quite close to me..
She wears hijab..repent(i suppose)..I knew her during her wild days...I'm sorry ..I'm not here to talk bad about anyone..I'm only here to remind myself how people can change their skin,their clothings,their appearance but still can't change their innerself..hmmm..how shud i say it?They changed their appearance,cpvers their "aurat"but they talk bad about other people..they assume,they judge..without hesitation...:(
I was not surprise that she is still that way..The same person that I knew for so long,still have that bitterness in her about almost everybody..especially me..:)I can only pray..that someday she will find her peace and not be so negative about life and everybody....


I believe that no one have the right to judge other people,especially when you don't know that person...It's sad that "fitnah".."umpat"..is like food to some people...
May Allah swt blessed me with and all of us with his guidance and love so that we will become a better person for our loved ones and for ourself.

HIJRAH


"hijrah"....in every sense of the word..

by Adriana Az on Sunday, August 29, 2010 at 10:28pm
HIJRAH

~sometimes...bila kita dah ber"hijrah"...kita kdg2 cepat melatah..:)
bila nampak benda2 yang tak "cantik" di mata kita...kita cepat buat komen,cepat buat "conclusions"or "assumptions"..atau dalam erti kata lain..andaian dan bersangka..
Kita juga manusia biasa yg memang dalam hidup hari2 kita,tak lepas dari buat kesilapan..yg disengajakan atau tidak sengaja..
Cepat lupa bahawa setiap orang ada hak masing2 dalam setiap perbuatan mereka...jgn kita cepat membuat andaian,berprasangka dan menjatuhkan hukuman...takut2 kepandaian kita itu memakan diri sendiri..sia2 saja kita ber"hijrah" apabila "dalaman"kita kosong dan mungkin orang yang kita kata itu lebih baik dari kita..:)
Semoga ..setiap penghijrahan itu berserta dengan niat yang baik dan sentiasa menjaga "mulut" kita agar tak terlepas kata2 yang tak sepatutnya...insyaallah.

~yang buruk itu dari kekurangan saya dan yg indah itu milikNYA~

Monday, July 19, 2010

Al-Fatihah

Assalamualaikum.....Hi gorgeous people..:)
I heard that one of our sisters, from http://onebreastbouncing.blogspot.com/ hasleft us all to meet her Creator.Al-Fatihah.She was suffering from breast cancer.My dua that her family will be strong and redha as this is the reality of life.
I have always reminded myself..that all of us will be tested...in many,many ways...different people,different tests...but the pain that we have to face and feel and endure...all that ...everyone of us will feel it.We have different needs,different wants...we dislikes different things,likes different stufffs....we are all different...its how we find the common thing among us to keep us all united and live in harmony and peace.Living with different people,living with your spouse that sometimes acts like a total stranger...how do you find the similarities,the common ground...the "thing' that ties you both together?...only you know the answer....
Losing someone you love and care and have known for your whole life...is never easy..never easy...you're crying for so many reasons...you know you're gonna miss her/him...you wont see her/him anymore...you're going to miss that person so much that it will hurt you...but...you will bouce back,you will get up on your feet,you hafta..so you gotta...because you're still alive.
This life that Allah swt has grant each one of us..is the gift itself.Dont abuse it,...live it,love it..and no one can make you happy other than you yourself.
My post this time may make sense...most probably not make any sense to most of you...:))
I wish that whoever out there that is feeling down and feeling that the world is crumbling down....wipe those tears....look in the mirror...and say..I love you and I'm gonna make you happy..:)

Friday, July 16, 2010

lelaki kaki pukul...shame on you!!!


Assalamualaikum everyone...:)
I know it's been a while...but I'm still around Alhamdulillah,still able to breathe and embrace this beautiful life...:)
I can't help myself on not commenting on this topic....I can't stand/accept/respect...men who hit women..COME ON!!!!!!!!How do you even look at yourself in the mirror?Hitting women?
I saw this in the news lately where this actor keep on hitting his wife...I don't know why they're still married...I mean ..didn't it say clearly in the holy Quran that you can't hit your wife,kalau nak mengajar/mendidik bukan dengan pukulan yang menyakitkan???
Where's the people who's responsible to help these women that has been abused,tortured physically...not to mention the mental abuse that she will face all her life...
Can a woman,who has been hit by her spouse actually forgives and forget?I can't answer that on anyone's behalf but I know I can't.I'll never be able to forget...It will break my heart to pieces that can never be mend,it will hurt me emotionally..not to mention the pain itself..physically...my dicnity as a person,a human being...I know I could never forget...and it will take years to forgive....
To all the men/husbands/boyfriends....be a man..."A REAL MAN,DON'T HIT WOMAN"


Friday, June 18, 2010

...still around...:)

Assalamualaikum.....:))))))
I wonder if this blog still have readers...:)to you who's reading this,I thank you with a big hug*hugs*
I'm still around,Alhamdulillah :)
Still baking,updating clients,managing the household...my two kids..etc,etc..:)...Life has been...emmmm...okay:)
Sometimes things happen without any warnings or signs....sometimes,you just have to go with the flow and play along with whatever that comes your way.It could be painful,it could be good for you...go with the flow...
I learned in my 35 going 36 years of blessed life that,don't ever think you're alone..coz you're never alone..as long as you're still breathing HE is right there waiting for you to ask for HIS guidance:)
I learned not to question my fate,I learned that things happen for a reason(always ada nikmah)and every clouds have its own silver lining...:)
So gorgeous readers....no matter where you are,in whatever situation you are in now...you're blessed :)
Thanks for taking the time to read this weird ramblings of mine tonight.Till we meet again...stand tall and love yourself!!!




Monday, June 7, 2010

:)

Assalamualaikum.......:)
Hello peoplee...:))It's been a while eh:)I've been ....how to say this..??not hibernating...been very busy trying,very hard to keep myself sane:)..no need to know the details..its very memeningkan and very bowringggg::))))
What I want to say here today...is ...what do you besides having stronger faith in HIM...when you're facing something so hard for you to swallow?besides having more faith,sabar,write the do's and the dont's..the good and bad list,the right and wrong...after all that lists...a never ending one I  might add...what then?
how do you decide?
I was in this situation few times,and alhamdulillah,i got my answers but this time it's really testing me:)
I guess this test is a very tiny one compared to others but still...I pray for strength and guidance from HIM.
When you know you're alone in this fight,you have nowhere to run...you run to HIM...for if no one knows who you are inside,
no one fells what you feel,
when others judge you as they wish....
you turn to HIM for strength,guidance and love.:)
I'm in a crossroad here..alone...
do i make a decision to please other people?
please myself?
my kids are my no1 priority...no question bout that...
so..what do I do?:))
I have no answer.....

Wednesday, May 19, 2010

SERABUT.....

Assalamualaikummmm....hello darlingsss....OMG!!!OMG!!!....its been so long.Yeah...I'm not my usual self lately.Not gonna make any statement that might contribute to"worsen "the situation that I'm going through now...:))very serabut...sometimes zombie...my mom call me a "thinker"..I think too much,and analize things until the last details hat it doesn't bring me any good.
Don't u gorgeous people worry(ada ke yg kesah pon)..I know that i'm very strong,insyaAllah.I'm insyaAllah capable to go through this very small "ujian"...insyaallah.
Please if u ever remember me in your prayer,to say a little prayer for me..:)
I'll be back..insyaAllah..when everyting is better,I doubt things will go back to normal...but it will be better...insyaallah.:)
thank you for taking the time to read this.:)peace!!!




Sunday, May 9, 2010

...hhhmmmmm....

Salaam gorgeous people :)...How' everybody?I've been ..yesss..busy like everybody else.:)sometimes too many things happen all at once,I just dunno what to think,write or do..:)After that dreadful episode at M!@#S KLCC...I decided to try Mr."C"...broadband..hhhmmm...macam tu jgk..sometimes the connection is really bad I wonder why do we pay and yet they never provide us with THE best service... I mean,we paid for it..still...adoiii...tired la talking bout this.:(
We took the kids to PD..Muaz's 3rd birthday.Muaz wasn't well,coughing,slight temperature,runny nose but all of us had fun at the pool,sauna & gym session for mummy n ayah...loved it.The kids had an amazing time feeding the bunnies at the Pet's Farm...All these happened at Avillion Port Dickson...will definitely choose this hotel for our next short getaway again.It was ...almost perfect.9.5 out of 10..:)bravo Avillion Port Dickson:)
I'm also in the midst of studying ...chewwwahhh...studying hokay:)..this particular topic.."does opposites really attracts?"..What do u think peeps?Does opposites really attracts?...Does a relationship which have 2 person,with opposites character,interests...style..etc..etc...really can attract each other?;)..for how long?Will the relationship works?...hhhmmm......:)
Help me out on this and mayybeee..I'll share what I think about it...:)
To all mommies out there....Happy mother's day!!!!give yourself a pat on the back for a" job" well done:)




Sunday, May 2, 2010

GIANT NETWORK PROVIDER,"M".. CUSTOMER SERVICE VERY BAD,SHAME ON YOU!!!

Assalamualaikum everyone...hello gorgeous people.How is everybody.Hopefully...no matter how big the boulder that is in front of you..you'll stay calm and cool...and face it rather than running away from it :)
Well...what happened to me last few days was very disturbing,to me at least....(I'm sensitive person maahhh)I wanted to change my broadband plan..to a cheaper one of course but still gives me the speed and coverage that i need.We went to KLCC to terminate the old plan and registered the new plan.The idiot(please excuse my language)that took the particulars and "registered"my husbands name,told us that we'll be able to activate and get connected after 2hrs.(it was in their promo as well)Happily we went window shopping and headed home.Arrived home around 9ish,settle the kids and ...plug in the modem la kannnn...no svc...hmmmm...cannot be,this is M***S...called the customer svc,only to get hold of them after an hour and a half,(i was bloody pissed already)..please excuse my language again....asked them what happened and the answer was"you'll only be activated after 48hrs"...I was like WTF!!!!!!!hah...dah lama tak nyumpah ni.
Why?
because we have so many applications and it will take time for them to key in your data
Oh..please,don't give me that answer,how many did you expect to apply?10 people?
I'm sorry ma'am...there's nothing i can do.you have to wait 48hrs.
!@#$%%^&&&
The next day we went again to return the old cable(hubby forgotten about it :/)..asked the people there...the answer was
Oh..don't worry,already registered and should be OK.(we tried it there and then..no line)
They said..sorry,then you have to wait 48hrs then...!@#$%....
we went home and tried again that night,no luck.Woke up Saturday morning,I called them again...the reply was
"sorry ma'am..your account is not registered."
what????
"its not registered"
I heard what you said..but why??"i' not sure ma'am"
I put down the phone after some QA with them
Hubby decided to drive down again to KLCC(we're staying in Nilai btw)for the 3rd time,3 days in a row,to cancel the application and asked for a refund.If I was in charge of handling this matter,Ill asked the manager to see me,apologized to me,asked the girl who forgot to register to apologize,asked for the refund asked for compensation,for making us go there 3 times,compensate the fuel,the toll,and the parking tickets.Call me cheapskates..I don't care.This is all about the service that you promise but failed to deliver.I bet hat you wouldn't dare to do this to an American or other mat saleh or Arabs...but they just said sorry encik,gave the money and make stupid faces.
Sorry peeps..I'm just very particular about customer service and manners.You deliver what you've promised...simple as that,if you can't compensate...I guess t will take us another 20yrs for our people to be addressed/treated properly...:/





Monday, April 26, 2010

sorrryyyyy......:)

Assalamualaikummm...hi people...hi everybody:))
I'm sorry for not updating this log.I've been really busy.I can't tell you the details...too many things happened,all at the same time but all are good and well,alhamdulillah.This week will also be a busy week for me,household chores,PM..my dad's here,orders..this n that...ala...the normal mummy stuff kan..kann.kan...
I'm also planning to have some serious TLC actions this week.This also depends whether I have th time(have to make time)...lulur,urut tradisional,facials...hair treatment...yesss..how nice to veerranngannn...:P
Till next entry darlings2x semua...take care,drive safe and eat "sparingly"kekekeke..


Saturday, April 17, 2010

when ayah is not around......;)

When ayah@my dearest husband is not around,mummy will usually freak out quietly..in her head..trying to figure out activities to do with her two active munchkins..I know I only have 2 right now,but.....very handful ya.I have to plan out what to do with them so that they don't get bored and their activities will actually benefit them,hands and eye coordination,and all that sort of thing la..
So... I decided to bake with them..yippie.We made plain cookies,(trial and error basis)I didn't make a lot of them so I made a very small batch of "doh".It turned out well and we had loads of fun..and mummy was very,very happy to see the excitement in their faces.Marissa even called me >teacher.hahaha...love u baby!Enjoy the pics people,we might have another baking session before ayah comes back from his trip :)..we miss u ayah!
p/s:marissa wants to bake these to sell them at our next bazaar event next weekend,whaddya think?




Wednesday, April 14, 2010

botox??NO!NO!NO!....


Salam people...gorgeous people...yesss...finally I found the time...not so right time jugak..but it's ok,a very short and hopefully good entry for you gorgeous mums out there.I'm sure most of you already know the secret to natural "botox" and "detox"..without taking any "tea"that makes you rush to the loo every 10mins,or eating diet pills,or following a tight diet regime that will only last you for 3 mths?....
I'm here to share what I found out last 2 weeks..hahahah...will get you the complete correct eating habit when I have the time to type it out ya.
What made me excited is this statement:botox a'la naturel...Igot excited and remembered only 2things from the list....
1.Every morning drink at least 500ml of plain water(you know this I'm sure...for detoxing)
2.Blend red apple (with skin)and oranges(without skin..obviously)together and drink the juice,without adding sugar.(this is natural botox)

Those are the 2 thing that stuck on my mind,as I've never tried doing both of them(yesss...I'm very teruk)BBUUTTTTTT....I intend to try it out as soon as I get my new juice extractor...huaaaaa..which is i don't know when.sad case lah me...no juice extractor...does anyone knows if blending using the normal blender works?:)
so,all the best ladies...follow this 2  things every morning to get that natural glow in your face:)





Saturday, April 10, 2010

i nak buat botox!!


Are you with me???You wanna join me?let's do it together ..the more the merrier....
kekekekeke..kekkeke....mummy is feeling a little tipsy,sewel a bit..not enough sleep.At MIL's house..dah tua2 pon ada tukar bantal lagi ke?got such thing ah?hahahaha..nevermind that...
I....
want to....
share ......
with ......YOU!!!!!...the secrets to a'la naturel botox..no injections,no needles.....
but..it doesn't come easy...huaaahuaaahuaaa...i'd like to see how many responds I get from this entry albeit i know so well i don't have many followers..wakakakaka...
If ramai nak tahu...maaayyybeeeee..i'll post it in my next entry.kekekek(gatai btol)



Wednesday, April 7, 2010

bread butter pudding......oh no!!!!


Yessssss!!!!!This is the one that I've been digging in these past few days ...huaaaaaa!!!!I made bread butter pudding twice this week and...it's not good for your weighing machine ya!!It was my first time baking it,I've never tried making them myself,but I looovveeee bread butter pudding,so..a friend gave me the recipe which I "professionally"altered it to my own version(actually very malas nak bukak balik mailbox)and...we..me,marissa n muaz..loved it!After finishing 2 casseroles this week...I went to JJ and bought this


It was only rm4.90 and yes,yours truly have been jumping like a mad cow for the past few days...hahahah...weight still the same but inches..losing babe!!wakakaka..gelak golek2x..makcik very happy!!
Lesson for today..eat what you like,sparingly and exercise...(pls ask for doctor's advice before you follow my advice ;)...)


BLANK......

Salam everyone,how have you been?InsyaAllah everybody's well and good.Me and family Alhamdulillah are all well and good.Been busy doing some soul searching...chewwah(as if!!)..no,no..really..been looking back at how my life was simpler back then(before i started blogging)wondering if I had done enough for my family..:)This morning,before My hbnd left for work,I asked him
........."yang,will the kids leave me when they've grown up"....my husband smiled and said,insyaAllah yang,doakan yg terbaik utk anak2.
Thank you Yang.....InsyaAllah.




Wednesday, March 31, 2010

"i'm not good enough??so what??!!"

Have you ever felt that you're living by other people's expectations?When WHATEVER you do is NEVER good enough by their standards?You strived your hardest and still it's not even near their "TARGET"of what you should achieved?
What do you do?How do you feel?Stressed?Sick?Depressed?Talk to someone?Play along?"bodek"them a bit?I don't know..What is the best way for you to deal with this situation.?
You and me....different,childhood,how we were raised=different..backgrounds?different..so,how do we find one solution for this?
Some people will say.....move on
some might say....ignore that person
some say......i dunno
some ....smirk at you
some......sabar(be patient)

I believe at some point in your life,you're just too tired to hear the same advices and the same people telling you the SAME thing all the time....
Being PATIENT ..all your life is also verrryyy tiring...
What do you do then??TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE....
Do things at your own pace,own way and at the same time,be nice to all those people around you that has been bugging you,telling you that you're not good enough.SMILE...It is YOUR life..so why bother what people have to say.?As long as your actions does no harm to you and your loved ones....continue.Life's too short to live by what others think of you..It is not them who give you this life.You don't owe anyone any explanations on how you bathe your kids,what you make them for breakfast,why your sambal tumis is not as nice as your sister's,why you wear your clothes starting with your left hand instead of your right hand,why you walk sideways and not like a supermodel,why you don't put on makeup,why you don't have enough designer handbags...and the lists are endless.....
LIVE YOUR LIFE AS HOW YOU WANT IT TO BE,HOW YOUR RELIGION ASK YOU TO..NOT BY OTHER PEOPLE'S STANDARD....PEACE!!!!







Monday, March 22, 2010

My first stall ;)



Salam everyone...ola ;)There's always a first time for everything..no?Well,for the first time,I'll be opening a shop table at a bazaar as stated below.I'll be selling ..aha!!yesss...my "baby" ...homemade halal beef lasagna
creme caramel and other yummies,together with Ame with her beautiful craftwork.So dear friends,do come...hope to see u there ;)
(anyone who wishes to pre-order their lasagna,pls do so by thursday.lasagna will be sold at rm50,rm5 off the normal price.)
Venue: SEGi University College, Kota Damansara
Address: No. 9, Jalan Teknologi, Taman Sains Selangor, Kota Damansara, PJU 5, 47810 Petaling Jaya, Selangor D.E.
Date: 27-28 March 2010
Time: 10am - 5pm



Thursday, March 18, 2010

Life as a homemaker@housewife...;)

Assalamualaikum...Ola people!!!

Today's entry is about me and me only..not about other homemakers or queen of the house ya...;)
I used to work for 11 years,resigned.Worked for a month with a multinational company,resigned..and have been staying home ever since.Since I left the "working"world,I've seen and heard many comments about "housewives,orang rumah,homemakers..and whatever that this so called "working"people called them(including me la..)Most of the time the remarks will be
"eh,you dah tak kerja?best la dokrumah,goyang kaki,main2 ngan anak je kan"
"ohhh..surirumah,bestla..takde dateline,takde meeting"
"eeeiii..bestnye jadi housewife ye..relax kan"
Some are plain dumb comments to me,some are cynical,some are just being bitchy...some are????IGNORANT???
I saw this in my friends ,friend FB status:as I'm not a normal housewife,i don't have the time to buat update blog".....
hmmmm...maybe she should resign and go learn how to manage her time well.
In life ...we're given/blessed with 24hrs,manage it !!...
Life of a stay at home mom:
  • starts at 6am..mandi,solat..boil water for my coffee
  • hidai baju..if raining,figure out how to make em dry and not smelly..meaning all over the house/guest room
  • I'm not gonna break into details what i do at home..just so you who have maid knows,EVERYTHING that your maid does..i do it,vacuum,sapu rumah,doing dishes,hidai baju,lap itu ini,clean the bathroom,....i don't wash the cars or do the gardening coz i don't have a garden...hahahha..
  • my kids learn to read and write from me ..alhamdulillah,even muqaddam.alhamdulillah..
  • i cook almost everyday...almost.
  • i sleep late coz that's the only "ME TIME" that i have.
  • I NEVER..go out WITHOUT my kids..not anybody's problem,not mine either..sometimes leceh but I wont leave them with other people except my husband.
  • Who ever said housewife don't have datelines or meeting??preparing my kids meal,their bathtime,tea time,nap time,reading time,playing time,mengaji...tv time..everything that involves a toddler and a 5 year old...i call it dateline..constantly on the my feet..have to be faster than them...
  • sometimes i don't even know what to cook...:/
I'm not a perfect housewife..not a perfect mommy..Don't even wish I'm perfect but I do wish and doa everyday that what I do will benefit my kids and my family.They're the most important people in my life..I'm blessed to have them with me...
Oh ya,no to forget,I'm a unit trust consultant and I bake :)..so whoever says being a housewife is easy...ask them to resign and try doing it first....;)
(another thing...please don't forget the endless siblings fights,messing up the toys room,their sakit demam,endless questions why,what,when...from my kids...tiring but satisfying)

Monday, March 15, 2010

stop whining and change...for your future's sake!!!


Assalamualaikum everyone...Ola people!!Hope everybody had a good weekend.It's school hols and maybe some of you are out there with your kids and loved ones,maybe some are at home with your kids,watching TV and enjoying each others company :))
I hope this entry will be short and sweet and will benefit some of us including me.:)I have some friends,acquaintance,people from all walks of life saying that they're tired of doing what they're doing and yet not enough money every month...I maybe the wrong person they talked to as I'm my own boss(my choice..and I don't complain)...hmmm..let's see if I can be some help to those in this category....I will always say,whatever your condition is, save some money first,before you spend it on other things.
  • every month,pay yourself first.put in an account where you know you don't have easy access to it>this is to ensure when you fall sick (nauzubillah),you wont have to call a friend to ask for medical money.
  • B.Y.O.F>bring your own food!!!!people2...come on..don't be such a lazy bum to make your own sandwich to work..to those who likes it hot and spicy,make sambal tumis during the weekend,and there you have sambal tumis sandwich to bring to work,and sambal tumis is great as they can be reheat many times...so can bring to work maybe 2 or 3 times??
  • B.Y.O.D>bring your own drinks!!!so what if people call you cheapskates??so what??they're NOT gonna be there to pay for your hutang and medical bills when you so need the money right?bring water or coffee in your flask.bring creamer in sachets if you like 'em white :)
  • how to have home cooked food when you're tired?easy..cook only once a week,in big portions,freeze them and when u come home,thaw and reheat them>don't tell me you want steak every night right?eat healthy food and not rice every night will do a LOT of GOOD to your body :)
This list are purely from my obeservation and own experience.Though I've never worked in an office before(does one month in the office counts?)..I fine this method works for me.I see so many people complaining of not having enough time to cook,always eating out and before end of the month(usually 2 weeks before)the money's all gone....:(
CHANGE!!!You have to change to be able to have a different life.Money doesn't drop from the sky..to those homemakers,where their husbands are the sole breadwinner,there must be something that you can do to help the economy of your family.Stop whining and complaining or blaming other people even...
It's easy to blame other people for everything..but let's not do that.Be in charge of your life,be a responsible person,if not for other people,for yourself.Life may not be the same tomorrow,you may not have that job that you have today tomorrow..nobody knows what in there for you tomorrow..so,be prepared.SAVE and CHANGE!





Sunday, March 14, 2010

TAG FROM SUPERHEROES AND MOM...:)

Assalamualaikum everyone
oh yeah..i've been tagged..never been tagged before,not femes..hahaha..now ada femesla sikit(ferasan)so..here goes.....


Here are the rules to accept the award :

1. Thank & link the person that gave you the award. THANK YOU IZ
2. Pass this award onto 15 bloggers you’ve recently discovered and think are fantastic:wokay..sapa yg kena???
  1. LYBEAU
  2. A NEW CHAPTER OF MY LIFE
  3. NELCYNDANA
  4. COFFEE CREAMER & SUGAR
  5. AKAK RATU
  6. TRANSFORMASI 2009
  7. MR & MRS IMRAN
  8. DAYS OF OUR LIFE
  9. BABY BLU
  10. MAZNAH
  11. THE DELIVERANCE
  12. EYNDA'S DIARY
  13. THIS IS ME
  14. FROM MY KITCHEN WITH LOVE
  15. THE JOURNEY OF MY LIFE
3. Contact said Blogs and let them know they’ve won the award – Oh..Okayyyy..:)
4. State 7 things about yourself....
  1. simple
  2. loving but can be paranoid mom
  3. blunt
  4. honest
  5. loyal
  6. sensitive
  7. active












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