alif's b'day party..and a wonderful saturday..

Today's birthday party has to be one of the best that i've attended...so far..hehehe..laughters and "kutuk"session with 3 other good friends..i had so much fun.I'm very sleepy right now so i'll update tomorrow,insyaAllah.My personal thanks to Mr.Wan Khalik..my best friend Ame a.k.a Baby Blu,the latest hottest newscaster in town Pn.Myhan Rossihan and last but not least,the soft spoken but mind you can be laser jugak yee...Pn.Maznah Mokhtar..I had a great time and hoping that you dudettes did too...thanks ame for organizing a great birthday party.looking forward to your birthday party in november...make up session by the macho daddies..hahaha..
nite everyone or rather..morning..

suspens je...

Salam everyone....yesss...i'm not sleeping yet!!couldn't sleep,bad3x....eyebags,black circles..just like panda bear,but the panda's are deft cuter.Looking forwrd to my other half's leave from work,1 whole week.appointments made days earlier,hopefully all will be smooth as planned,insyAllah.have a great weekend..

oh ya..the suspens part was,i thought i lost my whole blog contents..hahahaha..buta IT remember?i got it back,alhamdulillah..yahoooooo!!!!

i lost my blog...sob,sob...

06/07/02-06/07/09...7th anniversary :)

Dearest Sayang.....
I don't even know how to start this...It's so hard,so many things to say but i don't want it to sound cliche.I've been sitting here and retyped everything..again and again..There's so many things to say,so much has happened in our 7 years journey together and I'm thankful that we're still here together(love you).
I am honoured to be your wife and mother to our children.I know I'm not perfect,so not perfect and i thank you for your trust,love and the happiness that you've brought to my humble life.I thank you for taking this "amanah"from Allah s.w.t for taking good care of me and the children.
I'm thankful that i have you to balance my life and made it complete...
To Shahrom Omar,i love you again and again..thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Happy 7Th Anniversary..with all my love.

mummy not cool..

Salam everyone..I'm visiting my dad this week.My dearest other half has long off days and we decided this is the best time to take the kids to see their "aki".Unfortunately my other half wasn't feeling well and I had to drive the whole way with Muaz on my lap ,feeding...shhhh..dont tell JPJ or the police...emergency.Not the whole way,maybe half of the way..:)..whateverrr..

The children are enjoying their time here,visiting their cousins...we seldom see them due to time constrains and we live so far from each other...??excuses3x..have to put extra effort in that department.

Still waiting for the news if MJ is being buried as a muslim or something else.Whichever it is,may he rest in peace.When your time is up,there's no running away from "it"..Take each day as a blessing...no matter what comes to you embrace it and say your thanks for only Allah knows what's best for you...

My family,my kids and my other half means the most to me.Sometimes..most of the time as a WAHM..I tend to be more stressful towards the end of a day.I get very frustrated easily when my kids make a mess or fight with each other.I guess most of the time people will say its normal....Its very tiring but hey...everything comes in a package.They are kids and time soon flies soo fast that they'll be in their teens,then married and there you'll be alone in your house..

I always remind myself not to say hurtful words or remarks towards my children.I read somewhere the other day that when your child is hurt by your remarks,they will remember it forever..nauzubillah.I don't want that to happen.I try not to compare them as siblings because every child is different,special,their needs are different and they handle things in their own way.I try to remind myself that be it my first or second child,they are both equally important and they both need my attention and TLC.I know some parents like to say that the 2nd child is more aggressive,naughtier than the rest..but i don't want to categorize my kids..only for one reason.."kata2 ibu itu satu doa"..If i become like the rest and start saying this and that,it will become true..I belief that if I say good things about my kids,eventually they will become like what i want them to be.insyaAllah..I always remind myself not o say NO 1 is better than No2..coz its not written in the Quran that the 2nd child is the worst of all siblings...I read somewhere about "the 2nd child syndrome"..to me,i feel sorry for those people who fear their experience with their 2nd child..for they do know wrong but we parents tend to listen to all negative remarks and negative experience,we tend to be "extra"careful with our 2nd child and we tend to criticize them more...:(

Please read this post as only a personal comment from me.Its got nothing to do with anyone dead or alive..hehehe..its through my readings and my journey.I've seen and met many parents that say the same thing..I quote"biasala,anak no2 memang jahat,anak no 2 memang garang,anak no2 memang suka kacau kacau adik n abg dia"..I felt sad..not because of the fact that i'm the second of my siblings,but also for the fact that these parents doesn't see more to that in their second child.If the 2nd child is such a burden to every human kind,don't have a 2nd child...when you are pregnant with your second child..abort them and wait for the 3rd child to come..

I'm not "cool"about this.I wish that all parents will stop saying all this "doa"that their 2nd child are the worse to handle.Don't blame the kids for everything.They are all Allah's creations,they are guarded by the angels.Love them equally,treat them equally and when you scold them or trying to teach them,try not to belittle any child.Try not to compare them..remember,even identical twins don't have the same thumbprints,what more of different children..Subhanallah..We are all different,*alhamdulillah*..appreciate each other differently,insyaAllah.

My "doa" is that I will be a good mom,someone that my kids will look for when they need advice or a lovable hug,someone they will miss when i'm not by their side and someone that they will remember fondly..

(Princess and Abang..mummy loves you so very much.respect each other and love each other and always look out for each other...)

signing out..mummy.

Salam everyone..I'm visiting my dad this week.My dearest other half has long off days and we decided this is the best time to take the kidss to see their "aki"

MJ..rip :(

Salam...
Yesterday has to be one of the saddest day of my life.Waking up to find out from CNN news that one of the greatest performer has passed on.I was shocked and no words could describe the emotions that I had...until at this present moment I am still in shocked.MJ has to be "the"only performer af all time that has touched millions of hearts irregardless of their nationality,race,colors,religion,age,gender.....
My main concern now is what type of burial is he going to get..If he was a muslim,i "doa"that he will be buried quickly and if he's not I hope he'll get a burial that he would wish for.My heart goes out to his 3 kids and family...
To the King of many hearts...Rest in Peace.(We heart you)

Krispy kreme,Big Apple,JCo Coffee n Donuts..watch out!

Salam everyone...hahaha..i'm getting good at this...cooking(kononla).Today i made donuts for tea.It was a sucess!!Congratulations to mummy!!hehehe..This is my 2nd attemp in making donuts.The first attempt was a year ago and it wasn't good at all..well,this time i wanted to do it because i like donuts too and i like it the way my mama made for us when we were little..soft but crispy on the outside.It's not like the ones you find in the bakery,i don't know what they add in the ingredients,but they always smell of something..hmm..weird to me.

I was very happy with my donuts.They were how i'd like them to be,soft in the inside and crunchy on the outside.Unfortunately my dearest other half is not here.(working)maybe i can keep some for him.He's not into dessert anyway.My kids loved it.They got up from their afternoon nap and immediately went to the kitchen to have their homemade donuts...mummy is pleased again.*Alhamdulillah*

Well mommies..you'll never know unless you try right?Although i dont cook everyday but i'm a firm believer that mommies cooking is the best in the world..insyaAllah.

(i need a massage..BADLY!!)

Family,friends,food...

Salam everyone...:) How's things with you people lately?I've been busy with my kids,the usual stuffs.Been cooking off late,i mean really cooking..trying out new recipes.Not many but you know,sometimes you have this sudden urge in yourself to try doing something new?...and it was trying out new things for me.It may not be anything to some people but for someone like me,who hardly cooks...i can say i am proud of myself.

Last weekend we went to my "old"friend,ame@babyblue..hehehe,if you see my lists of followers,she's there.One of my oldest friend,our friendship went way back in 1995..(think so)hahaha..anyway..she went for a long holiday trip recently and i went to her house day after she arrived.This sweet friend got me a non-alcoholic perfume from Dubai.I asked her to buy one bottle for me,which she did(soo nice of her).The minute i smell the perfume..my eyes closed and my vision and my memory went to the place where i missed most..Mekah/Mecca.I get very emotional whenever i talk about mecca..i really don't know why.I don't even have to talk about it,mentioning Mecca Itself already bring tears to my eyes.Ohh..i missed it soo much..The perfume reminded me of Mecca and brought back visions of Mecca,Kaabah,Masjid Nabawi in Madinah..Alhamdulillah.

I guess Ame saw the "look" on my face(that's what she said)and after left her house,she sent sms to my mobile saying that the perfume is a gift from her..May Allah bless you n your family,and may you be blessed with more wealth and happiness,aminn.*hugs*

Few days passed and my routine at home are mostly the same like other "normal" mommies,cooking,cleaning,feeding the kids.What made me proud this week is that i made "apam" for my kids..on my own..*yippiieee!!!*I never thought that it was that easy!Excuse me,but i've never learn how to bake or cook or make desserts.hehehe..

I was ssooooo glad it turn out great and my kids loved it so much.Unfortunately i only had red colouring at home.Wanted to make the apam colorful at first but it's ok..maybe next time.Muaz loves "apam" and he asked for this "apam" for breakfast,after lunch,tea time and for dinner..hehehe.

I've been cooking off late due to the weather..haha!!It's really not a good time to go out,the weather is verryy hot and there are deadly viruses that i feel safer to be at home.(yess,i can be very melodramatic and like to exaggerate ;) ) Plus my husbands likes my cooking and so does my kids(yeah right!)

So here's another dish that i made right out of my fridge.I can say i'm very good at "dumping"everything from the fridge to make a dish and tasty one i may add.hahaha...I like to call it "spaghetti ala mummycool"..yeahh!!It was for our dinner last wednesday.Yummmyyy...We finished it in less than 10 mins.haha.."ripley's believe it or not"

My next project is to make nestum n raisins cookies,chicken rice and...hmmmm...what else is good to eat?It depends on my mood really..we'll see ..chicken rice are the kids favourite and i've never tried cooking them..so,when ame told me that she can make chicken rice it's like an inspiration..(honest).really..salute to anyone,mommies or daddies who cooks for their family.

Well,that's all for tonight.:) Wishing all of you a nice weekend...hehehe.

My side income..:)

Salam everyone..the weather is really testing us all lately dont you think?Muaz and me are having runny nose n sore throat.I guess the haze is affecting us.No outing at the moment...with the H1N1 and all these viruses in the air,I try not to be in crowded area at the moment.Verrryyy scarreeyyy...There was once we were in the lift at the KLIA airport,a boy sneezed inside the cramp lift and i wanted to "kill"him!!!He didn't even cover his mouth..eewww!!sakit jiwa aku!!

Hmmmm...as much as i dont want to go out,i still have to go to my"office" to submit my work.Hmm,i've never really told anyone here what i do at home besides lazing around with my family?I'm a certified unit trust consultant with Public Mutual.hehehe..What i do is encourage people to save their money with public mutul's fund.Its the best alternative to common savings account and its better.I'm doing this together with my beloved husband,my pillar of strength,my faithful supporter(thank u yang!!*love you*)We enjoy doing this together and we make a good team.So,if anyone of you wants to have a better return on your savings or you want to become a consultant like me,let me know.Only with the best company in Malaysia..woohooo.!!

I'm really enjoying what i do right now,i get to do it at my own time,no pressure from anyone and only I can push myself to go further.I dont have to leave my kids under other people's care,i can still take care of my kids,my house,still cook and clean the house and at the same time doing some side business to help my husband.*alhamdulillah*I'm so thankful and God really answered my prayers.*Alhamdulillah*InsyaAllah,who knows in the future i can own my own shop or cafe or a spa even...its always nice to dream but it doesn't have to be a dream..we can make it happen,don't you think?InsyaAllah..

My heroes..*hugs*

another great week :)

Salam everyone....I hope everybody had a great week..i did.Last Monday,an old friend(knew her way back in 92')called me.I didn"t recognize the number on my hp coz i lost my mobile earlier this year.She called to offer me a 3 days 2 night stay at Ancasa Allsuites Resort n Spa in PD(port dickson).I was shocked at first..who wouldn't.I've never won any free holidays before so this is like a really nice surprise.I discussed with my husband and after declining,still she insisted on us taking the offer.She paid for the rooms inclusive of buffet breakfasts for 2.The room were meant for her bro in-law but they couldn't make it and since they don't want the rooms not occupied,after all they had paid,they wanted us to use the rooms...I'm thankful,alhamdulillah.For me,this is "rezeki" for my kids.We've been planning for their long overdue holiday,overseas...all were cancelled due to flt cancelled,H1N1...etc,etc..and suddenly this generous couple calling us and giving us this holiday.it's like a very much needed getaway,all at the right time.*Alhamdulillah*So we went and had fun..lotsa fun,i'm happy for my kids had a nice time.I ant thank you enough to this humble ,generous couple.May Allah bless you more with rezeki and happiness,amin.

My son had slight temperature this morning and we took him to the local clinic.Gave him his medication and i hope he'll be okay tomorrow morning.My sister came to visit us again today with my mom,they stayed for a few hours but couldn't take them out for dinner because Muaz wasn't felling well :( Maybe next time ok ma,za.)

i have to cut this post short as i'm getting sleepier now.All i can say is things have been good for us..Alhamdulillah..i'm so thankful..really i am.I hope is going well for all of you reading my blog right now.Take care people..

Salam everyone....I hope everybody had a great week..i did.Last monday,an old friend(knew her way back in 92')called me.I didnt recognizethe number on my hp

mummy is pleased..:)

Salam everyone....how's your weekends?Mine has never been better.It has been a hectic but a good week..a great one in fact.*alhamdulillah*Starting with marissa's improvement at her school,i'm soo pleased with her doing so well in school.Even Muaz is following his sister's footsteps.He actually stayed in class for one whole hour!!Yeay! Muaz!!We're all proud of you,that's my boy!I know i'm making a big deal out of this.It's because my kids has NEVER been away from me...nope..you read that right..N-e-v-e-r...because mummy loves to be with them All the time.hahahaha..mummy is obsessed..;)So,when my boy Muaz actually stayed in his sister's class,mingling with the rest of the students,for one whole hour...mummy is VERY proud of you.
I posted few weeks back about my concerns of marissa's learning progress,whether this is the right "base" for her and I have to say i'm very pleased with what i see.she's learning to read and recognize words and spellings.I continue teaching her how to red on my own.Usually i don't take more than half an hour.I try to teach her basic maths as well...hmm..so far we're having fun..*alhamdulillah*
I thought of starting Muaz on his potty training.Maybe when we're both ready.Muaz is also showing a lot of interest in reading.I'm glad.He recognized pictures and now I'm starting to teach him both words and pictures.I dont teach my kids phonics...simple reason,i don't know how it works.During my time in the kindy,we didn't have this phonics programme.I'm not sure how it works but i think,I'll stay with my method and vital years method..:)
Today my mom and my sister came and we had lunch in town and went to alamanda for window shopping.The kids had so much fun with their su n grandma.thank you ma,thank you za.InsyaAllah,we'll pay you a visit when time permits.
Our new washing machine arrived today...yahoo..for the first time i'm using a top loading machine..it works well,that's what matters.Cant spend too much nowadays,have to "save for tomorrow"hehehe...but i love the machine and makes my life easier,alhamdulillah...thank you Yang .(we had to send the clothes to the laundry for the past 3 mths)
Hmmm...what else ya??Maybe i'm sleepy now...wayyy past my sleeping time...i'll update this blog again when i can make time.
signing out,mummycool.

it's been a good day...so far,:)

Salam everyone...
how's your day people?Mine has been wonderful,alhamdulillah.(so far so goooooddd).Hubby came back from work this morning,the children are happy,mummy is happy,went out for lunch and bought some groceries.
Right before we went out for lunch,i checked my email and one particular email really made my day even better.It was from mamafiza@littlekittle.com.I have to share this with you ladies,mommies,daddies out there,this is one amazing young mommy.She inspires positive thinking in me,so that i want to be a better mommy,wife and a better person..so that i see things in a positive way,Things that i take seriously before.Let me give an example,when i bumped into her in alamanda 3 mths ago,i walked straight to her and introduce myself.(i'm a big fan of hers)Marissa was tearing away the serviettes and some of the little pieces scattered on the food court floor.I picked up the serviettes,a little embarassed,and said"marissa,please.."and look at mamafiza and said,"sorryla,my kids are like this"And you know what mamafiza said,"it's okay dear.That is call creativity"...
I was stunned for about 3 seconds.She was right!!My daughter is just being a normal 4 years old.There's nothing to be sorry about.I should be proud of her making something out of the boring looking serviette...and you know what she called the torned serviette?"miss softee."
Isn"t that something?I was so thankful that God planned for me to see mamafiza that day.Since then,i have a better response towards my children's activities.Although its very tiring to clean up the mess,but in the process of them growing up,drawing,scribbling,cleaning up together..we as parent have to be more open,encouraging and more"fun"with our children
If you guys like to know about littlekittle.com and the amazing mamafiza,go to their homeschool blog at www.littlekittle.com.I tried to put up their official link in my blog,but as i said in one of my post,i'm a little buta IT..(sorry mamafiza).will try my best to post it here.click on their blog and i'm sure you guys will agree that this petite lady is one gifted amazing mommy.
I on the other hand is still trying my best on nurturing my kiddos with good manners,habits...etc,etc.Plus,trying so hard being a more patience mom.(about absolutely everything ;) )
To my dearest mamafiza,my hats off to you again for being who you are.Insyaallah,i will try to be more positive and taking everyday as a fun day.It should be that way,as our children needs us the most at their age right now.MMuaahhss to you*hugs*.
To all you mommies and daddies out there,lets remind each other how truly blessed we are,having these precious darlings with us.Make time to be with them,no matter how busy you are with your work,make time to do things that is important to them,even if its watching their favourite programme on the tv,read to them(daddies too)...time is so precious.They'll grow up before you know it..and the time will come when they wont need you to be "there"for them.Don"t waste this time to see them grow up.Its beautiful,its very special to me and hope its special to you guys too.
signing out,mummycool.

moving out??

Nilai Perdana.
Single storey house for sale.3rooms2baths.20x70,Near amenities,giant,comuter station,bus stations,banks..etc.20mins to KLIA,10mins to exit north/south highway.freehold.selling for rm120k.

Desa vista,Salak Tinggi,Sepang.
Double storey house,3r3 baths,1 uitility room,1store room.Near amenities,schools,15mins to KLIA,10mins to giant,nilai.quiet and safe neighbourhood.Malay reserved land.Selling for 130k.

Hi everyone...there's these houses for sale.Hopefully there's somewhere out there will be kind enogh to spread this news and hopefully we'll be able to find someone to buy these houses.So readers,kindly let me know if you're interested,or maybe anyone that u know is interested...thanks.

outing with "aki"...

Salam everyone...how's yr day?It's been really dry and humid lately...so,it affects everybody's mood.I feel tired easily(maybe i forgot to take my vit B-50,or maybe i need a break sooo badly..)

which mummy doesnt right.??every mommy deserve a break,especially those without help from anyone(maids,in-laws or parents)hmm...

My dad,came to visit us recently and my kids were excited and happy to have "aki"around.wishing papa the best of health and may you be blessed with good health so that you can visit us often..vice-versa.

kickers for sale anyone?

Assalamualaikum.....hi y'all.I have to make this really quick coz tak solat lagi and my "big"boy muaz is sleepy ,time for his nap."mummy...abang sleepy"..tht's what he said 10 mins ago.So,make this short,sweet and simple.I;m selling my husbands shoes.its kickers,size 9 or 43.He wore it only once and unfortunately,he bought the wrong size...??why la??but he havent wor them since then.If there's anyone out there interested,pls let me know.I bought it for rm198.00 but selling it it for rm160.It's as good as new.ok,gtg..see y'all again.

It's been more than a week since my last post..hehehehe..didnt have the time,mood or anything to post about.My life is very simple but colorful,thanks to my two munchkins.It's not easy to run around after them,cleaning up from morning till late..but i know this is just a phase,insyaallah.I'm trying to remind myself to enjoy every minute with my precious ones as we'll never know when our "time"will come.I'm truly thankful,alhamdulillah forbeing given this precious oppurtunity to have two beautiful intelligent human beings to be part of my humble life.Thank you God,alhamdulillah.

did we make the right decision?

Salam to all......i've been quite busy lately.So many thinks on my mind but yet i couldnt put it down in words.Infact i'm not in the "mood"to put this down here but ...why not.Maybe it could clear the heavy burden that i've carried this past few days.
When my husband and i decided to send marissa to school,we have talk about it like a million time,comparing the rest of the "pre-school"that this small town has and we decided on one.It's not even in the same town that we live.Why we chose that place is because they gave us the choice to choose how many classes that marissa should attend..and that she doesnt have to go there everyday,they communicate in english only and they emphasize on reading,writing and speaking in english.plus,there's no exam.
Since marissa is only 4,and she speak well..i wanted her to have a place where she can speak english and mingle with friends.Where she doesn't have to be burden with homeworks and exams(she have more than 10 years to do that in the future)....What bothers me and my husband lately is,our daughter is not the same talkative,happy girl that we both know and loved.
i know,coz i'm mommy!Marissa is afriendly,warm and very jovial.She makes friends easily wherever she goes.but,after her 3rd class,when i ask her what are her friends names...for the 3rd time,her reply was still"i dont know"...I got a little worried.Because she always remembers name.I asked her,did you ask them?she said yes but they didnt talk to me.marissa told me that the children were not alllowed to talk to each other and they only have to sit,bersila and keep quiet and "relax".i was like !@#$%..whats going on here???
so,my husband and i talked it over and agreed to monitor her progress.what the teacher told me was she passed her stage 3 in her exercise which is very good but what bothers me is that,is my child having fun?
I've been with her 24/7 at home,teaching her with my best interest and abilities,speak to her until she can speak very well(alhamdulillah)and i can say that my daughter is not this girl that dont know her friends name.besides that what type of school that forbids the kids to talk among themselves.
What i'm going to do is to send her for her 4th class tomorrow and maybe have a little chat with the teacher.This evening i told marissa that she's got to go to school tomorrow and she said i dont want mom..i dont like the school.i cannot do anything there and i only can sit and bersila.they let me draw but they wont let me talk to the other children.
No wonder when we first went there,my daughter spoke to one of the kids and that poor boy never responded.so my daughter asked infront of the teacher,"mom,why he doesnt talk?"
i guess now i know why...
well,if i find my answer tomorrow..this could be the first and the last month marissa attends her "school".(my daughter knows the word "look"eversince she was born and this poor teacher is teaching her what is look!!!!)I would be glad to teach my daughter her spelling and the rest of it myself rather than send her to some school that wont let her be her jovial self.
I may sound like i'm being overprotective or over concerned about this,i dont mind whatever that people will labelled me.I'm a mommy and that's what a mommy does...worry!I worrry that my kids will be something they are not just because somebody else is telling them to be that way.
Well,doa for me and my kids.I have a mission tomorrow.to marissa and muaz:mummy and ayah will try our very best to give the best education for you,duniawi and ukhrawi,insyaallah.we love you both so much and we know you will try your hardest to please us,but dont worry...let us do the worrying.If you're not happy of something you can always come and tell us.

signing out,mummycool.

Muhammad Muaz is 2!!

My "baby"boy is going to be 2 tomorrow.He was born on 6th may 2007,before subuh prayers on sunday at Selangor Medical Centre.Now i know why they say time flies...it sure does!I'm looking forward to share my life and love with muaz.A very happy,cheeky,playful and "manja mummy".Loves his sister so very much"manja kakak" and of course manja with ayah too..but call him"ayah's boy".
Muhammad Muaz,thank you for being a part of me.Mummy is blessed to have you and i'm looking forward to more of your laughs,cries and your cheekiness.May you grow up to be a responsible,handsome,intelligent,religious young man and may you have the best of both worlds darling.We love you!!