ENTRY BERANI MATI....PART2....

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RENUNGAN BERSAMA....:)

Mari kita sama2 hayati dan sama2 share this post with those we love..


Di akhirat nanti ada 4 golongan lelaki yang akan ditarik masuk ke neraka oleh wanita. Lelaki itu adalah mereka yang tidak memberikan hak kepada wanita dan tidak menjaga amanah itu. Mereka ialah:
1. Ayahnya...
Apabila seseorang yang bergelar ayah tidak mempedulikan anak2 perempuannya di dunia. Dia tidak memberikan segala keperluan agama seperti mengajar solat, mengaji dan sebagainya Dia membiarkan anak2 perempuannya tidak menutup aurat. Tidak cukup kalau dengan hanya memberi
kemewahan dunia sahaja. Maka dia akan ditarik ke neraka oleh anaknya.
(p/s; Duhai lelaki yang bergelar ayah, bagaimanakah hal keadaan anak perempuanmu sekarang?. Adakah kau mengajarnya bersolat & saum?..menutup aurat?.. pengetahuan agama?.. Jika tidak cukup salah satunya, maka bersedialah untuk menjadi bahan bakar neraka jahanam.)
2. Suaminya
Apabila sang suami tidak mempedulikan tindak tanduk isterinya. Bergaul bebas di pejabat, memperhiaskan diri bukan untuk suami tapi untuk pandangan kaum lelaki yang bukan mahram. Apabila suami mendiam diri walaupun seorang yang alim dimana solatnya tidak pernah bertangguh,
saumnya tidak tinggal, maka dia akan turut ditarik oleh isterinya bersama-sama ke dalam neraka.
(p/s; Duhai lelaki yang bergelar suami, bagaimanakah hal keadaan isteri tercintamu sekarang?. Dimanakah dia? Bagaimana akhlaknya? Jika tidak kau menjaganya mengikut ketetapan syari'at, maka terimalah hakikat yang kau
akan sehidup semati bersamanya di 'taman' neraka sana.)
3. Abang-abangnya
Apabila ayahnya sudah tiada,tanggungjawab menjaga maruah wanita jatuh ke bahu abang- abangnya dan saudara lelakinya. Jikalau mereka hanya mementingkan keluarganya sahaja dan adiknya dibiar melencong dari ajaran
Islam, tunggulah tarikan adiknya di akhirat kelak.
(p/s; Duhai lelaki yang mempunyai adik perempuan, jangan hanya ! menjaga amalmu, dan jangan ingat kau terlepas... kau juga akan dipertanggungjawabkan di akhirat kelak...jika membiarkan adikmu bergelumang dengan maksiat... dan tidak menutup aurat.)
4. Anak2 lelakinya
Apabila seorang anak tidak menasihati seorang ibu perihal kelakuan yang haram disisi Islam. bila ibu membuat kemungkaran mengumpat, memfitnah, mengata dan sebagainya...maka anak itu akan disoal dan dipertanggungjawabkan di akhirat kelak....dan nantikan tarikan ibunya ke neraka.
(p/s; Duhai anak2 lelaki.... sayangilah ibumu....nasihatilah dia jika tersalah atau terlupa... kerana ibu juga insan biasa... tak lepas dr melakukan dosa... selamatkanlah dia dr menjadi 'kayu api' neraka....jika tidak, kau juga
akan ditarik menjadi penemannya.)
Firman Allah S.W.T;
"Hai anak Adam, peliharalah diri kamu serta ahlimu dari api neraka dimana bahan bakarnya ialah manusia, jin dan batu-batu.....
SELAMAT BERAMAL.

entry berani mati..hikhikhik...

....salam  everyone:)..This entry is named entry berani mati is becaused...hauhuahuahua..I'm about to share with you..story mory I..yang have memalukan I like BIG time hokay..huahuahua..as I'm typing this I'm already laughing terkekek2 but cannot make any sound coz marissa n muaz are sleeping..hikhikhik..better type as fast as I could so that they wont get up before i could finish this..hokay..here goes..This embarrassing event took place last year in a hypermarket nearby my hse..hypermarket ye..take note..meaning that ramai orang...
I locked my house before I left and I went into the car.When I entered the hypermarket...I passed by this kiosk that sells programs for children..ala what's the name?dah terforgot..as usual..I just say no,thank you to the sales person and walked off confidently..(berlagak beb)..then went to the playland that they have there..took off my slippers(i wear sandals/slippers everywhere)and followed my kids at the playland..good mummy what,takut anak jatuh so,standby la kat anak..
where is this story going???sabau,sabau...
my hubby went to the surau and I waited for him at the playland..still in the playland area..then my husband came out from the surau and said"let's go home"..so..i said..wokay..i went to where I left my slippers...eh..there's my slippers...and there's my OTHER slippers.....get it??!!get it??!!!
I HAD MY SLIPPERS ON....CONFIDENTLY..WALKING IN THE HYPERMARKET,FULL OF PEOPLE..WITH SLIPPERS ON MY FEET...NOT THE SAME PAIR!!!!!!!HOOOOMMMAAAAIIIGAAAWWWDDDDD!!!!horror babes!!horror!!!...
i ran to my husband gelak macam nak pengsan,muka merah nak mamps...malu like gila...dunno where to put my face..wanted to get inside the groceries trolley so that i don't have to walk...Ya Rabb...malu weii....
So...so..people,people...lesson learnt..don't rushed out of the house and take time to put on your shoes/slippers..by actually looking at them before you put them on!!
(luckily for me..cewahh..nak lucky lagi tu...yeah,i have nice slippers..both bling2..hahahah..tak la malu sgt kekekek..as if!!!)

yang lepas jangan dikenang...

................Barang yang lepas jangan dikenang,kalau dikenang pasti menangis...:(.....No matter what you face in life,don't let your past becomes the boulder that stops you from moving forward.Embrace life,look forward,make the best of everything.....sounds familiar?yeah..all the best professionals speaker/motivator will say the same thing..it's not as easy as they say it..I know.What do they mean by those things?When we're facing this big messy problem..sometimes we feel like..that's it laa...nyampah,menci..why me??what did I do that I'm tested this way???
hmmmm...heard all those before,experienced that phase too..before..but,I'm thankful.It's just a phase..really.Just like a thick black...was it black or dark grey??yup,just like a black thick cloud that will pass and the sun will shine again....
I'm still learning,everyday is a learning process.Focusing on many things in life,one have to know their priorities..set a limit,set a goal..who comes first,what comes next...or you can also just live your life as they are and be positive no matter what comes in your way :)

Family,kids,work,hobbies,friends,...you...who comes first?you decide...

kak zura...oh kak zura..:)

pics by google

salam everyone.....announcement2x...those who wishes to have a body massage at home,spa massage or traditional massage..you can try this lady's service..whom in my opinion is in the top of my masseuse's list...cewwwahhh..ada list masseuse hokay!!!!

She's staying in Nilai..call her at 019-7293606 for appointment..she's very busy so do make appointments first :)

reminder for myself :/

Diriwayatkan dari Abfullah bin Mas'ud r.a, bahawa dia mengatakan Rasulullah s.a.w, bersabda:
"Tahukah kamu sekelian, siapakah yang benar-benar bartaubat?"
Kami menjawab: Allah dan Rasulnya lebih tahu."
Nabi Muhammad s.a.w bersabda:
"Barang siapa bertaubat sedang dia tidak mempelajari ilmu
maka dia bukanlah orang-orang yang (benar-benar) bertaubat;
dan barang siapa bertaubat sedang dia tidak bertambah tekun ibadatnya,
maka dia bukanlah orang yang (benar-benar) bertaubat;
dan barang siapa bertaubat sedang dia tidak berusaha membuat seterunya rela kepadanya'
maka dia bukanlah orang yang (benar-benar) bertaubat;
dan barang siapa bertaubat sedang dia tidak merubah pakaian dan perhiasannya,
maka dia bukanlah orang yang (benar-benar) bertaubat;
dan barang siapa bertaubat sedang tidak menggantikan sahabat-sahabatnya'
maka dia bukanlah orang yang (benar-benar) bertaubat;
dan barang siapa yang bertaubat sedang dia tidak melipatkan tilam dan tikarnya,
maka dia bukanlah orang yang (benar-benar) bertaubat;
dan barang siapa bertaubat sedang dia tidak menyedekahkan kelebihan ari apa yang ada di tangannya'
maka dia bukanlah orang yang (benar-benar) bertaubat;
maka apabila kelakuan-kelakuan ini semua telah nyah dari seorang hamba
barulah dia menjadi orang yang sungguh-sungguh bertaubat."

me like the bizinessss...:)

Assalamualaikummmmm....dear2 everybody..finally I have the time to sit down and post a new entry..Been busy and loving it,Alhamdulillah.still can't make this entry as detail as I want to,I'm going to Melaka for the weekend...catching up with old friends and my husband's family are meeting us there..
I met the very sweet ABRAHYN today..homaaaiiigooootttt...she was this...sweet LITTLE creature..very relax(yessss...i read body language kihkihkih)humble AND.....she wore PINK!!!!hehehehe..head to toe...homakhai..cute la pulak kan..huhuhu..I cant wear Pink like she did..sumpah tk cantik..kekeke.
I will update about my lasagna delivery in http://monpetiticafe.blogspot.com/ so,do join me there.:)
So..till next update..I shall leave y'all to a nice long weekend..drive safely,don't forget to lock yr cars as soon as you get into it..there are many "saiko's" out there..and be healthy..:)

save with Public Mutual ;)

KUALA LUMPUR 22 Jan. – Biarpun para pengguna merentasi Asia Pasifik, Timur Tengah dan Afrika semakin yakin terhadap ekonomi enam bulan akan datang, tetapi pengguna Malaysia pula adalah sebaliknya.
Di Malaysia, ketidaktentuan ekonomi telah mendorong para pengguna mengekal atau meningkatkan tahap simpanan untuk perbelanjaan kecemasan.
Berdasarkan Tinjauan MasterCard, hampir 90 peratus golongan pengguna yang berumur 18 hingga 29 tahun begitu berhati-hati dengan simpanan untuk kegunaan ketika terdesak.
Majoriti pengguna di Malaysia iaitu 32 peratus merancang untuk menyimpan antara satu hingga 10 peratus daripada pendapatan dalam tempoh enam bulan akan datang.
Tiga kategori utama simpanan itu ialah persaraan (59 peratus), pelaburan (38 peratus) dan membeli atau menaik taraf hartanah (29 peratus).
Tinjauan itu dijalankan pada 1 Oktober hingga 9 November 2009, membabitkan 10,623 pengguna di Asia Pasifik, Timur Tengah dan Afrika.
Melalui hasil tinjauan itu didapati ketidaktentuan ekonomi dan perbelanjaan kecemasan merupakan sebab utama yang menyebabkan pengguna merancang untuk meningkatkan simpanan mereka.
Filipina yang mewakili 91 peratus pelanggan yang mempunyai sikap berhati-hati yang tinggi terhadap ketidakstabilan ekonomi berbanding Morocco (30 peratus).
Majoriti pelanggan serantau menyimpan sehingga 10 peratus pendapatan mereka, 23 peratus lagi memperuntukan 11 hingga 20 peratus simpanan mereka untuk tujuan sama.
Hanya lima peratus sahaja pengguna serantau tidak membuat sebarang simpanan.
Lebih menarik, golongan mudah merupakan pengguna yang mempunyai semangat tinggi terhadap simpanan dengan 84 peratus pengguna di bawah umur 30 tahun mahu menyimpan berbanding 81 peratus dari kalangan yang berumur 30 hingga 44 tahun.
Penasihat Ekonomi Asia Pasifik MasterCard Worldwide, Dr. Yuwa hendrick-Wong berkata, daripada perspektif ekonomi, keutamaan kepada simpanan boleh dikategorikan kepada dua aspek, satu simpanan untuk perbelanjaan masa depan seperti pembelian atau menaik taraf hartanah dan persaraan.
”Jenis kategori ini akan terus menjadi tabiat utama menyimpan di rantau Asia Pasifik,” katanya.
Satu lagi adalah mereka yang menyimpan sebagai persediaan untuk menghadapi kemungkinan pada masa depan kerana berhati-hati dengan unjuran ekonomi jangka sederhana.
Ini disebabkan kefahaman bahawa kemeruapan pasaran berada dalam keadaan tidak stabil, tambah Hendrick-Wong.
Dalam pada itu, tinjauan itu juga mendapati punca utama pelanggan kurang menyimpan adalah disebabkan pendapatan tidak mencukupi (55 peratus), inflasi tinggi (34 peratus) dan kadar faedah yang rendah (15 peratus).
sumber: Utusan online

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minyak urut....urut apa??:)

salammmmm...yezzzaaa..the entry for today is I'm going to pretend to be a makcik urut..urut apa??jeng,jeng,jeng....urut badan and yg sewaktu dengannye.hehehehe

No...I want to share with you people out there(i kan suka share2 ni) what I found,my mom's family found this minyak many2 years ago....more than 30yrs ago la gamaknye.

So,recently my mom bought the whole pack of this ointment and I tried it today and it worked fast and healed muaz's cut on the forehead..boys will be boys...that's a whole different story.so,i'm gonna upload the pic here and if anyone of you wanna try this ointment,u can ask for MINYAK HAJI MOHD.TERMIZI BIN AL-HAJI IBRAHIM.

problems VS blessings

Salam everyone...kekekeke..problems vs blessings...masalah vs Rahmat...everybody or most of us wakes up in the morning on the wrong side of the bed,not all..not all the time,maybe most of the time..mesti ada problems..but it's OK..makes our life more colourful and more juicy heheheh..
I was told about this problems vs blessings by somebody and I was really touched.Sometimes we're so ignorant towards the blessings that we have everyday that we took for granted it will be there everyday..so,the story goes like this

ms x:i have a big problem..masalah besar sgt..(sobbing)
Mr z:apa masalah you?tell me..I'm sure its not that big
ms x:how can u say that..its big and I'm mad +sad
Mr z:OK...lets try this..you tell me yr problem and i tell you its not that big and yr rahmat is bigger
Mr z:1st rahmat..you open up yr eyes in the morning,Alhamdulillah,you're still able to see
2nd rahmat...you're breathing
3rd rahmat...you can still think
do you want me to go on with the blessings that you have?how many problems do u have??
ms x:*sobbing*
Mr z:sometimes,when you wake up from sleep..instead of being thankful,you choose to think of the problems first...
what if when you wake up one day..and you can't see?that my dear is what i would call a BIG problem.

Well...I guess Mr z was right and quite blunt :) but he was right(in my opinion)..We're only humans and it's good that once in a while we better ourselves by "muhasabah" diri.

ffffwwwweeeeiiitttt!!!!

FFFWWWWWeeeeeettiiTTTTT!!!!!
Assalamualaikummm...yeah!mummy's back!!kekekekek..(saja gempak,did it work??)I've been really,really..tired,exhausted mentally and physically.Other than my normal routine as a mom,wife,a consultant(like this word),running in and out of the house is what I "like"best..huhuhuhu...I know,..no complaints.Time management my best friend would say..and that's what it is.It's all about time management.I think we "busy"people also should make time for ourselves,and I'm not talking about pampering yourself in a spa,or having someone over to massage you(hehehe..did that last week)..me telling you that have a time on your own to have a self analysis..got such thing ke?Working is part of life but don't make it your life.Stop and really stop and have a moment just for yourself.Take a deep breath,close your eyes and smile will actually take that stress feeling away.It worked for me.Sometimes when I'm too tired and I know I'll get agitated,apart from picking up the phone and spill the beans to my good friend..hhehehe..I'll go to my bathroom,shut the door,look in the mirror and smile.It really make a difference...try,cuba,test :)..
Oh yeah..zikir,...I'm not pious but zikir works for me too.
So..peace to everybody..work smart,don't forget to hug your loved ones everyday.Hug them,they need it and so do you :)

mayonnaise in a jar...

I received this in my email today and like to share it with you.


Mayonnaise in a jar.

When things in your life seem , almost too much to handle,
When 24 Hours in a day is not enough,
Remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.
A professor stood before his philosophy class
And had some items in front of him.
When the class began, wordlessly,
He picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar
and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students, if the jar was full.
They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured
them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
The pebbles rolled into the open Areas between the golf balls.
He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous 'yes.'
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively
filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.
'Now,' said the professor, as the laughter subsided,
'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things - family,
children, health, Friends, and Favorite passions –
Things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, Your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, house, and car.
The sand is everything else --The small stuff.
'If you put the sand into the jar first,' He continued,
'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
The same goes for life.
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff,
You will never have room for the things that are important to you.
So...
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Play With your children.
Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.
There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.
'Take care of the golf balls first --
The things that really matter.
Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.
The professor smiled.
'I'm glad you asked'.
It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'

fennaaatttt....

the host and hostess

chicken dance

marissa and birthday girl allysha

chicken dance again

hmmmm....

making cheeky faces again :)

birthday girl,allysha is 2!!

Salam everyone....I've been busy hehehe..wih my kids,my chores,all the same stuff and now my baking thingy.I enjoyed making them but I can't say its not tiring.We went to Allysha's birthday party today.Had a lot of fun catching up with acik nah and Ame of course...but somehow with kids and all,I felt like the time was too short hahaha..mummy wated more "lepak"time.
Anyways,still it was nice to meet up with friends.Ame ordered cupcakes for her abah and I was honoured to do it for her,yeah...her mum being the "tokay kueh"...I was nervous hokay!!It was like going for an exam or something.I hoped I passed the benchmarks and hoped they liked the cuppies.Checkout http://monpetiticafe.blogspot.com/
Thank you my dearest friend Ame for your trust and support,I know that you could afford more than what you ordered from me,and I know you ordered because you wanted to gave me yr support and I thank you from the bottom of my humble heart.*hugs kuat2!*
I need to get a full body massage heheheh..tomorrow at 8am..hehehe..nite.

Berpada pada.

by-adrianaaz

Kadang2 manusia suka lupa
selalu manusia lupa....
Lupa utk berpada2
bersederhana dalam segala hal

Manusia memang suka lihat pada luaran
Samada cantik atau buruk luaran itu
manusia suka melihat luaran sahaja
Suka menghakimi luaran orang walau mereka bukan "hakim"yg terbaik
Menjatuhkan hukuman berpandukan kepada "rasa" mereka

Kadang2 manusia suka lupa
Yang lembut diluar kadang keras didalam
Yang nampak keras diluar,sebenarnya halus dan lembut didalam

Kadang manusia suka lupa
Lupa dgn siapa mereka bersuara,siapa di depan mereka
Manusia akan kata apa mereka suka
Bergurau..katanya

Tapi manusia lupa,didepan mereka adalah org yg halus jiwanya
Yang telah terluka hatinya
akibat gurauan yg tak berpada2

Jangan pandang org sebelah mata
Lihat pada hatinya dan bukan luaran
Lihat pada hatinya dan bukan ijazahnya
Lihat pada hatinya,
Lihat pada hatinya.

 

A good start :)

Salam....I hope its not too late for me to wish Happy New Year to all out there.I've been busy and I had no extra time to post new entries but I had some time to spare reading some of the blogs.
We took marissa n muaz to bagan lalang and port dickson the day after for a short swimming session.Had so much fun with them and you know what sea breeze can do to you right,you get so tired afterwards and thats one of the reason why I was too lazy to blog.I wanted to share my thoughts bout so many things that I saw during our short rip to PD but I guess I'll do it some other day.I'm just too tired to talk about civic awareness in this country,public toilets,littering...endless list of negative remarks will come out from me and I don't want to spoil anybody's mood.Yeah not to forget...cruelty to animals..yechhhh!!!I don't like it when I find myself going deep into this issues as I feel that whatever my opinion about all these matters are going down the drain and wasted.I deeply regret that no matter how modern our country will be,no matter how much we spend in building better infrastuctures,its the mentality and attitude of oneself to make it worthy.oh..oh...ana is in a serious tone and mood now...nope,no..no..I don't want to stress myself about these things anymore..not good for me n my family :)
Yeah,that was the 2009 and now Jan4th..I had 3 orders of lasagna and 40 cupcakes delivered yesterday to Pn.Linda R(cupcakes)Pn.Liza(2 lasagna)and my own biras in sbg..hahaha.Thank you ladies for having trust in me and supporting my new found interest and business :)
Marissa said..."mom,you made the best lasagna and cupcakes in the whole world..you're the best COOKER!!!"..hahahaha..oh baby,baby(thts what i call her)...mummy will be honoured to be yr "cooker" anytime.hahhaha..Its a wonderful feeling to be praised by yr own kids albeit the fact that I'm not the best cook but as long as I'm their best cook,I'm happy :)
So,I started with a good response from my biras and friends,visited my mom in USJ and my baby sis and my mom said it was really good(sapa lagi nak pujikan)...but Its true,they hardly praise anyone hahaha..so,Alhamdulillah,Alhamdulillah,Alhamdulillah..yg baik dari Allah swt and kekurangan is from me.
So,I hope whoever reading this will give me your best doa that I will succed in this biz and insyaallah with your doa and good wishes I'll be one of the good "player"in this field :).

cream caramel,"kek" batik(my version),homemade beef lasagna :)+cupcakes:))

Salam everybody :)
I'm on cloud 9 these past few days.One of my old schoolmate asked me few weeks back if I'm taking orders for cupcakes...She's planning to give it to her son's classmate on his birthday.Yippeeee!!!Alhamdulillah,syukur byk2.I was thankful that she trusted me to do it for her..thank you dear.So,now I'm like nervous+excited+going bonkers over this whatever feeling that is in me right now,smiling,dreaming..hehehe..So,I decided to extend my menu a bit..hahaha..

all time favourite...ssllluurrrppp;)

I love eating all these yummy food,I know,I know..watch out for the numbers on your weighing machine going up,up,up...but they're sinfully delicious(ferasan+overrated+tak tipunye statement)I kept making them and my family enjoyed them..muaz kept asking for the cupcakes..every time he opened the fridge,he'll go like"mum,where are the "tuptakes??"can you make some more "tuptakes" mum?"

I love this baby ;)

hehehehe...So,I'm trying my luck at selling these personal favourite dessert of mine and my homemade beef lasagna.Wish me luck babes and if anyone of you wishes to order..email me ya..

my kek batik :)

sticky chewy balls(my 1st trial on makin them as giveaways for weddings/door gifts/dessert.

happy :)

MV last week's outings

KLCC-last week's outings

my princess

Alhamdulillah....I've been smiling for the past week..hehehehe..(kerang busuk)I'm constantly reminding myself to smile,even if marissa spilled my coffee on her workbook,muaz spilled water on the floor..bla,bla,bla..I will still smile because....???I just want to :))I made some kek batik for my neighbour last night.Hopefully they'll like it.We took the kids for outing,watched a movie,Princess and The Frog,enjoyed it,had a chat with old friend at Alamanda's food court...hmmm..It was a good day for everybody,Alhamdulillah.I would usually opposed to the idea of going out on a public holiday but today was a good day for everybody :)I didn't complained about any single thing..hahahaha..I would usually complained to my hubby about the crowd,the public toilet and other things lah..but today,I behaved.I "redha" and that I guess was the reason why the day was a good one :))

kek batik for sale :))

what goes around....comes???

Salam people,babes,dudes,haji,hajjah....:)Tengah cari ilham on what to share.Day in day out with the kids,cooking,cleaning up,picking up after them..bla,bla,bla..yup!!What stay-at-home mom does..not to forget,reading,writing,numbers,shapes,colors..bl,bla,bla..supermom?nope..did it out of lurveeeee babes,Amanah...yesss.Amanah dari Allah swt.

I'm far from a "perfect"mom..I have my own temper to handle,I have my own flaws...but like all of you out there,I'm still trying everyday to take care of my "amanah"and treat them with tender loving care :)

Hmmmm...what else is our amanah?Husbands has a BIG amanah to take care of,his wife and his family..kids,parents..etc,etc..So,when he said"aku terima nikah...."and its "SAH"..there you have one amanah on your shoulder dudes!!!It's not like you marry and then you think you're the king of the house and you are my wifey and you are to "layan"I sesuka hati I...ho,ho,ho..dudes..you're so wrong if you think that way.When you take her as your wife,you made a promise to God to take care of this wife of yours,your family,to lead them to the right path,you the imam(for muslems)..I think I can babble about this like the  whole night..I'm so not gonna do that.I believe they're better people out there who knows more about this hukum hakam about the husbands and wifey relationship.Next!!!

Amanah again...our body is amanah.It's ours but not rightfully ours..hehehe..konpius??It's a loan people,...from Him,Allah SWT the Almighty.So,what did yo do to this "loan"have u taken good care of it?Have you abandon it?Have you treat it as how it's suppose to be treated?since it's not rightfully yours,you should know what are the do's and dont's right??:)Next!!!

Who else?What else?..Our responsibility towards our society,our pets..yess..our pets.Have we forgotten that they too are  Allah SWT creations?Have we done our best to protect them and to give them what they deserve?:)I'm sure you guys have,alhamdulillah.Their food,place to sleep,if they need "partners"during mating season...those are all their needs and we cant take it away from them...hmmm...Next!!

I believe in hukum karma,what goes around comes around...I also believe that if you intentionally hurt other people,someday you'll be hurt too,nauzubillah.If not you,someone that you care for will have to pay for what you did,fair?no?....hmmm...Les all pray that we always pause and think before we say something or do something that might hurt other people,animals,living creatures.
I'd like to apologise if I've hurt anyone's feelings in the process of reading this,it's purely my own tot's and a reminder to myself,not with the intention to hurt anyone.:) Peace!

new year,new hope.new ME :)

Salam Maal Hijrah :)..We had a great time watching the doa awal and akhir tahun from TV1..Marissa and Muaz doa with us and we hug each other and promise ourselves to become a better person,insyaallah.Quite emotional for me,(byk buat salah kan kekeke)and I pray that all of us will have a better year ahead,a successful year,with more happy moments insyaallah.
I don't want to think about negative people,what they think and how they think and why they are negative about all things,I don't want to end up like that,nauzubillah.I want to be more positive,more focus in what I do and yesss...I want to smile more often.Sometimes I notice that I don't smile,I only smile and laugh when I'm playing with my kids or share a joke with my hubby.I need to smile more,to exercise my facial muscle...cewwwahhhh..macam ye je :)
Ok2x....gotta go,kids hungry,hubby's away..so me n my kids are going to have a blast on our own wwoooohhhoooo.....

TIME WILL TELL

This entry is dedicated to mama and papa,although I know you won't be able to read this but I hope you know how much I love you guys *hugs*
After having kids of my own,I know I owe a lot of things from my parents,their dedication,their unconditional love,the hopes and doa....(tears are streaming as I'm typing these down)very  emotional for me to talk bout my parents...Looking back at what I've achieved as person,mother ,wife,daughter,daughter in-law,friend,neighbour,colleague...etc,etc..I have a long way to go in becoming a better person,to have a better relationship with everyone,even with my kids..I'm not sure how I'm able to achieve that,it's not easy.Being someone that is quite emotional at times like me,sensitive about issues that is close to my heart....I know it's not easy for people to understand me,who am I really??(I'm so not in the right state of mind right now,babbling like someone so lost)
I was chatting with my friend about something when I realised how my parents had raised me to become who I am right now...I'm not going to spill the details as it might sound like I'm bragging(riak)...but I'm really thankful to have learned sooo much from my parents,Alhamdulillah.
I'm learning everyday,about people and how they lead their lives ma,pa...Papa always tells me"it takes so many people to make the world Na..."..and I will never forget.(miss u pa)Whenever I'm down,I will read the poem you shared with me  Pa..to gather my strength and to know that you are always there for me,makes me feel so much better.I'd like to share this poem here,hopefully my dear friends/readers will like it too:-)

Time will tell for TIME tells all
Just wait and time will show-
but bit by bit the truth comes out,
And in the end we see-
Who are right and who was wrong
Time tells eventually

So if you are misunderstood-
Your feelings try to hide.
If you took the wisest course,then you will be justified....
Remember that the other person may be right as well.
So don't pursue the argument.
Be patient,time will tell.

I have my papa to turn to when I'm down and I have my mama to ask for strength and wisdom.I can never repay them in any way and I'll forever be indebted to them for all the good things that I'm blessed with right now,alhamdulillah.
May Allah swt blessed our parents with good health and many more years with us.To my dear friends whose parents are no more with us here,Al-Fatihah to their souls and may they rest in peace.