Al-Fatihah

Assalamualaikum.....Hi gorgeous people..:)
I heard that one of our sisters, from http://onebreastbouncing.blogspot.com/ hasleft us all to meet her Creator.Al-Fatihah.She was suffering from breast cancer.My dua that her family will be strong and redha as this is the reality of life.
I have always reminded myself..that all of us will be tested...in many,many ways...different people,different tests...but the pain that we have to face and feel and endure...all that ...everyone of us will feel it.We have different needs,different wants...we dislikes different things,likes different stufffs....we are all different...its how we find the common thing among us to keep us all united and live in harmony and peace.Living with different people,living with your spouse that sometimes acts like a total stranger...how do you find the similarities,the common ground...the "thing' that ties you both together?...only you know the answer....
Losing someone you love and care and have known for your whole life...is never easy..never easy...you're crying for so many reasons...you know you're gonna miss her/him...you wont see her/him anymore...you're going to miss that person so much that it will hurt you...but...you will bouce back,you will get up on your feet,you hafta..so you gotta...because you're still alive.
This life that Allah swt has grant each one of us..is the gift itself.Dont abuse it,...live it,love it..and no one can make you happy other than you yourself.
My post this time may make sense...most probably not make any sense to most of you...:))
I wish that whoever out there that is feeling down and feeling that the world is crumbling down....wipe those tears....look in the mirror...and say..I love you and I'm gonna make you happy..:)

lelaki kaki pukul...shame on you!!!

Assalamualaikum everyone...:)
I know it's been a while...but I'm still around Alhamdulillah,still able to breathe and embrace this beautiful life...:)
I can't help myself on not commenting on this topic....I can't stand/accept/respect...men who hit women..COME ON!!!!!!!!How do you even look at yourself in the mirror?Hitting women?
I saw this in the news lately where this actor keep on hitting his wife...I don't know why they're still married...I mean ..didn't it say clearly in the holy Quran that you can't hit your wife,kalau nak mengajar/mendidik bukan dengan pukulan yang menyakitkan???
Where's the people who's responsible to help these women that has been abused,tortured physically...not to mention the mental abuse that she will face all her life...
Can a woman,who has been hit by her spouse actually forgives and forget?I can't answer that on anyone's behalf but I know I can't.I'll never be able to forget...It will break my heart to pieces that can never be mend,it will hurt me emotionally..not to mention the pain itself..physically...my dicnity as a person,a human being...I know I could never forget...and it will take years to forgive....
To all the men/husbands/boyfriends....be a man..."A REAL MAN,DON'T HIT WOMAN"