me and my soulmates

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

it's been a good far,:)

Salam everyone...
how's your day people?Mine has been wonderful,alhamdulillah.(so far so goooooddd).Hubby came back from work this morning,the children are happy,mummy is happy,went out for lunch and bought some groceries.
Right before we went out for lunch,i checked my email and one particular email really made my day even better.It was from have to share this with you ladies,mommies,daddies out there,this is one amazing young mommy.She inspires positive thinking in me,so that i want to be a better mommy,wife and a better that i see things in a positive way,Things that i take seriously before.Let me give an example,when i bumped into her in alamanda 3 mths ago,i walked straight to her and introduce myself.(i'm a big fan of hers)Marissa was tearing away the serviettes and some of the little pieces scattered on the food court floor.I picked up the serviettes,a little embarassed,and said"marissa,please.."and look at mamafiza and said,"sorryla,my kids are like this"And you know what mamafiza said,"it's okay dear.That is call creativity"...
I was stunned for about 3 seconds.She was right!!My daughter is just being a normal 4 years old.There's nothing to be sorry about.I should be proud of her making something out of the boring looking serviette...and you know what she called the torned serviette?"miss softee."
Isn"t that something?I was so thankful that God planned for me to see mamafiza that day.Since then,i have a better response towards my children's activities.Although its very tiring to clean up the mess,but in the process of them growing up,drawing,scribbling,cleaning up together..we as parent have to be more open,encouraging and more"fun"with our children
If you guys like to know about and the amazing mamafiza,go to their homeschool blog at tried to put up their official link in my blog,but as i said in one of my post,i'm a little buta IT..(sorry mamafiza).will try my best to post it on their blog and i'm sure you guys will agree that this petite lady is one gifted amazing mommy.
I on the other hand is still trying my best on nurturing my kiddos with good manners,habits...etc,etc.Plus,trying so hard being a more patience mom.(about absolutely everything ;) )
To my dearest mamafiza,my hats off to you again for being who you are.Insyaallah,i will try to be more positive and taking everyday as a fun day.It should be that way,as our children needs us the most at their age right now.MMuaahhss to you*hugs*.
To all you mommies and daddies out there,lets remind each other how truly blessed we are,having these precious darlings with us.Make time to be with them,no matter how busy you are with your work,make time to do things that is important to them,even if its watching their favourite programme on the tv,read to them(daddies too)...time is so precious.They'll grow up before you know it..and the time will come when they wont need you to be "there"for them.Don"t waste this time to see them grow up.Its beautiful,its very special to me and hope its special to you guys too.
signing out,mummycool.

Sunday, May 24, 2009

moving out??

Nilai Perdana.
Single storey house for sale.3rooms2baths.20x70,Near amenities,giant,comuter station,bus stations,banks..etc.20mins to KLIA,10mins to exit north/south highway.freehold.selling for rm120k.

Desa vista,Salak Tinggi,Sepang.
Double storey house,3r3 baths,1 uitility room,1store room.Near amenities,schools,15mins to KLIA,10mins to giant,nilai.quiet and safe neighbourhood.Malay reserved land.Selling for 130k.

Hi everyone...there's these houses for sale.Hopefully there's somewhere out there will be kind enogh to spread this news and hopefully we'll be able to find someone to buy these houses.So readers,kindly let me know if you're interested,or maybe anyone that u know is interested...thanks.

Saturday, May 23, 2009

outing with "aki"...

Salam's yr day?It's been really dry and humid,it affects everybody's mood.I feel tired easily(maybe i forgot to take my vit B-50,or maybe i need a break sooo badly..)

which mummy doesnt right.??every mommy deserve a break,especially those without help from anyone(maids,in-laws or parents)hmm...

My dad,came to visit us recently and my kids were excited and happy to have "aki"around.wishing papa the best of health and may you be blessed with good health so that you can visit us often..vice-versa.

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

kickers for sale anyone?

Assalamualaikum.....hi y'all.I have to make this really quick coz tak solat lagi and my "big"boy muaz is sleepy ,time for his nap."mummy...abang sleepy"..tht's what he said 10 mins ago.So,make this short,sweet and simple.I;m selling my husbands shoes.its kickers,size 9 or 43.He wore it only once and unfortunately,he bought the wrong size...??why la??but he havent wor them since then.If there's anyone out there interested,pls let me know.I bought it for rm198.00 but selling it it for rm160.It's as good as new.ok,gtg..see y'all again.

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

It's been more than a week since my last post..hehehehe..didnt have the time,mood or anything to post about.My life is very simple but colorful,thanks to my two munchkins.It's not easy to run around after them,cleaning up from morning till late..but i know this is just a phase,insyaallah.I'm trying to remind myself to enjoy every minute with my precious ones as we'll never know when our "time"will come.I'm truly thankful,alhamdulillah forbeing given this precious oppurtunity to have two beautiful intelligent human beings to be part of my humble life.Thank you God,alhamdulillah.

Monday, May 11, 2009

did we make the right decision?

Salam to all......i've been quite busy lately.So many thinks on my mind but yet i couldnt put it down in words.Infact i'm not in the "mood"to put this down here but ...why not.Maybe it could clear the heavy burden that i've carried this past few days.
When my husband and i decided to send marissa to school,we have talk about it like a million time,comparing the rest of the "pre-school"that this small town has and we decided on one.It's not even in the same town that we live.Why we chose that place is because they gave us the choice to choose how many classes that marissa should attend..and that she doesnt have to go there everyday,they communicate in english only and they emphasize on reading,writing and speaking in,there's no exam.
Since marissa is only 4,and she speak well..i wanted her to have a place where she can speak english and mingle with friends.Where she doesn't have to be burden with homeworks and exams(she have more than 10 years to do that in the future)....What bothers me and my husband lately is,our daughter is not the same talkative,happy girl that we both know and loved.
i know,coz i'm mommy!Marissa is afriendly,warm and very jovial.She makes friends easily wherever she goes.but,after her 3rd class,when i ask her what are her friends names...for the 3rd time,her reply was still"i dont know"...I got a little worried.Because she always remembers name.I asked her,did you ask them?she said yes but they didnt talk to me.marissa told me that the children were not alllowed to talk to each other and they only have to sit,bersila and keep quiet and "relax".i was like !@#$%..whats going on here???
so,my husband and i talked it over and agreed to monitor her progress.what the teacher told me was she passed her stage 3 in her exercise which is very good but what bothers me is that,is my child having fun?
I've been with her 24/7 at home,teaching her with my best interest and abilities,speak to her until she can speak very well(alhamdulillah)and i can say that my daughter is not this girl that dont know her friends name.besides that what type of school that forbids the kids to talk among themselves.
What i'm going to do is to send her for her 4th class tomorrow and maybe have a little chat with the teacher.This evening i told marissa that she's got to go to school tomorrow and she said i dont want mom..i dont like the school.i cannot do anything there and i only can sit and bersila.they let me draw but they wont let me talk to the other children.
No wonder when we first went there,my daughter spoke to one of the kids and that poor boy never my daughter asked infront of the teacher,"mom,why he doesnt talk?"
i guess now i know why...
well,if i find my answer tomorrow..this could be the first and the last month marissa attends her "school".(my daughter knows the word "look"eversince she was born and this poor teacher is teaching her what is look!!!!)I would be glad to teach my daughter her spelling and the rest of it myself rather than send her to some school that wont let her be her jovial self.
I may sound like i'm being overprotective or over concerned about this,i dont mind whatever that people will labelled me.I'm a mommy and that's what a mommy does...worry!I worrry that my kids will be something they are not just because somebody else is telling them to be that way.
Well,doa for me and my kids.I have a mission marissa and muaz:mummy and ayah will try our very best to give the best education for you,duniawi and ukhrawi,insyaallah.we love you both so much and we know you will try your hardest to please us,but dont worry...let us do the worrying.If you're not happy of something you can always come and tell us.

signing out,mummycool.

Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Muhammad Muaz is 2!!

My "baby"boy is going to be 2 tomorrow.He was born on 6th may 2007,before subuh prayers on sunday at Selangor Medical Centre.Now i know why they say time sure does!I'm looking forward to share my life and love with muaz.A very happy,cheeky,playful and "manja mummy".Loves his sister so very much"manja kakak" and of course manja with ayah too..but call him"ayah's boy".
Muhammad Muaz,thank you for being a part of me.Mummy is blessed to have you and i'm looking forward to more of your laughs,cries and your cheekiness.May you grow up to be a responsible,handsome,intelligent,religious young man and may you have the best of both worlds darling.We love you!!
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