me and my soulmates

Friday, July 31, 2009

Alhamdulillah......




I'm thankful for the rezeki that I have,thankful for having my kids,my husband with me...thankful for having my kids healthy and active...thankful that my limbs are all working and i'm still healthy to take care of their needs..


I am one of those people that sometimes forget how lucky I am to have all these blessings in my life.I'm thankful for the tests from HIM..means that i'm not forgotten,Alhamdulillah.One of the bloggers that i follow made me realise that life is too short to be wasted on messy things..
Life should be embrace with joy and cherished it with love and laughter.Appreciate your loved ones and always,always say your thanks to The Creator. :)

Thursday, July 30, 2009

Auckland...Yes?No?...

Salam everyone...Auckland,New Zealand.The last time i visited that beautiful country was in 1995...14 years ago.I have the oppurtunity to go there again next month but the question is....should we?If we go,we'll have like 5 full days there.Tickets have been booked but we haven't collect it yet.At this very minute I'm still thinking if we should go,the H1N1 thing is really scary to me.

My last holiday overseas was in 2006.I'm really looking forward to another holiday but ..yeah..I want to think about this carefully.Yup!!I'm the paranoid mom..so bear with me.Hmmm...yes or no???

Sunday, July 26, 2009

bawwwrriiingggg...

Salam everyone....Nope...I didn't get my steak today..not yet.We don't like to go out on weekends,too many people and with all the disease that is circulating our air right now,I prefer to have makan at home...;)

craving for this...!!!



I'm like drooling like mad this very minute...will pujuk my other half to take me out for dinner ....steaks...yeah!!!yumm2x..I like San Francisco steakhouse..but after i had my 2nd chil(muaz),I dont think I'm capable of handling 2 toddlers in a fancy restaurant..hehehe...maybe will go to a more kids friendly joint,Chillies or Tony Roma's...suggestions anyone?

cooldown mummy ;)


After some soul searching,late night talks,"muhasabah diri"..i know i need to chill a little in some areas of my life.To become a better person,a better mom,wife,daughter,friend...Being paranpoid about almost everything is verrryyy tiring.hehehehe...with dua's from you n my loved ones,I may become that person that I want to..thank you.

Wednesday, July 22, 2009

i'm exhausted...mentally..





Salam everyone....Hoping that your weekend was as you wished..hopefully you and your loved ones are in excellent health and happy.I'm *Alhamdulillah*well and happy but a Lil bit tired mentally.Physically I'm OK but my left thumb is in pain..i don't know why but i want to go to the doc tomorrow or sometime this weekend..maybe X-ray will tell me what's wrong with the thumb..poor thumb.Can't do my housework properly..it's really painful..



Last week I was busy with my work and the housework of course..I don't mind the housework's and I love taking care of my kids on my own ;p...although they do drive me up the wall most of the times but wouldn't trade it for anything else.Went to MV to see a friend,had a basic facial(almost a facial)at HABA Midvalley...fallen in love with the products.Bought some basic stuff for my face*hehehe*...



Thursday,we went back to MIL's place for a kenduri on saturday...penat,penat,penat..Went home on sunday after a week full of events..we went out almost everyday last week and I think i really have to have vitamins stock up in my house.



What really bothers me last week is the attitude of some parents.Everybody loves their children,so do I.I don't really know how to put these in words cause I'll get emo about this and I don't want to end up cursing people on this blog.



I cant stand parents who are ignorant,in denial of their child's behaviour,capability and cant stand parents who cant take responsibility of their children's behaviour.Nauzubillah,I'll end up like on of them.What happen was my kids were slapped and kicked by a barbaric kid,3yrs old and their parents closed both eyes..*Alhamdulillah* my kids were unhurt but i was pissed to the max!!I really don't want to prolong this matter here...i just want to say to those ignorant parents,if you think your kids have the ability to hurt other kids intentionally,please,please..be alert at all times of their behaviour.Don't live in denial saying that your child is an angel while some other kids are hurting at the other end.



I've never done any research on why the children's behave like this,maybe their parents are too busy to look after them themselves,maybe because they get their way all the time..i really don't know but please...don't be like this.Be a responsible parent.Don't be scared or ashamed of your kids poor behaviour,be fair to the other kid and their parents..oh may Allah always bless me in raising my kids myself and may Allah bless me always with being patient,alert and a good mommy,amin.



I felt sorry for my kids for they are still small,Marissa is 4 and Muaz is 2.Once someone told me to let go of my child slowly,so that they can defend themselves on their own......I beg to differ..there are time for everything and the time will come when I'll let go of my children.They are still small and if they get hurt because some parents "let go" their children too early,and hurting my kids physically..I think it's my responsibility to defend my kids and take care of their well being.Once again,everyone is entitled to their own opinion and i thank you for the suggestions.I don't care if people label me as mother hen or nosey mom,uncool mommy...whateverrr...I love my kids and i love raising them and I'm blessed to have them with me.There are time for everything and now is my time to protect them from unwanted things and mishaps..insyaAllah I'm trying my best....
Sorry guys for being very emo about this.I feel strongly about this is because the time has changed and we parents have to take more responsibilities in bringing up our kids on our own and not leaving everything to the maid or carer..The world now are so advanced and our kids are exposed to everything...and i do mean everything.So,please..be with your kids,nurture them with good manners,listen to their body and see them with your heart...don't live in denial and blaming other parents for not being there with their children when their kid were being hurt..be responsible.
*Marissa n Muaz:when other kid try to hurt you..you "give"it back to them..*love you darlings...

Friday, July 17, 2009

my little angels..















Salam everyone...:)
I'm in my MIL's place.came here yesterday.they're having a kenduri cukur jambul for my husbands newborn niece.I'm anticipating a busy weekend.Hopefully yours are not busy as mine.
Yeterday, Muaz slipped and fell.I was in the room n my hubby was in the kitchen fixing Muaz a drink.My heart stopped at the sound of the loud "thump".Muaz was crying and crying.I checked his head,there was a small cut and it was swelling.I didn't panicked but was feeling very scared for him.I quickly asked my hubby to get gamat and dab it on the cut and we quickly took him to Tawakkal hospital.
Alhamdulillah,no jabs or stitches needed.the doctor said it was a small abrasion but to monitor him carefully for 24 hrs or so.We don't any concussion to happen in this 24 hrs.I was so worried i stayed by his side the whole time.Muaz was okay,he was being his usual self,jovial and cheeky.Sang baa black sheep,bob the builders song...:)Alhamdulillah.
Marissa was so worried for her brother..(love u darling)Please pray for Muaz's recovery and so that the fall didn't affect him internally,nauzubillah.
take care guys.have a nice weekend with your loved ones.

Sunday, July 12, 2009

alif's b'day party..and a wonderful saturday..

Today's birthday party has to be one of the best that i've attended...so far..hehehe..laughters and "kutuk"session with 3 other good friends..i had so much fun.I'm very sleepy right now so i'll update tomorrow,insyaAllah.My personal thanks to Mr.Wan Khalik..my best friend Ame a.k.a Baby Blu,the latest hottest newscaster in town Pn.Myhan Rossihan and last but not least,the soft spoken but mind you can be laser jugak yee...Pn.Maznah Mokhtar..I had a great time and hoping that you dudettes did too...thanks ame for organizing a great birthday party.looking forward to your birthday party in november...make up session by the macho daddies..hahaha..
nite everyone or rather..morning..

Saturday, July 11, 2009

suspens je...

Salam everyone....yesss...i'm not sleeping yet!!couldn't sleep,bad3x....eyebags,black circles..just like panda bear,but the panda's are deft cuter.Looking forwrd to my other half's leave from work,1 whole week.appointments made days earlier,hopefully all will be smooth as planned,insyAllah.have a great weekend..

oh ya..the suspens part was,i thought i lost my whole blog contents..hahahaha..buta IT remember?i got it back,alhamdulillah..yahoooooo!!!!
i lost my blog...sob,sob...

Sunday, July 5, 2009

06/07/02-06/07/09...7th anniversary :)

Dearest Sayang.....
I don't even know how to start this...It's so hard,so many things to say but i don't want it to sound cliche.I've been sitting here and retyped everything..again and again..There's so many things to say,so much has happened in our 7 years journey together and I'm thankful that we're still here together(love you).
I am honoured to be your wife and mother to our children.I know I'm not perfect,so not perfect and i thank you for your trust,love and the happiness that you've brought to my humble life.I thank you for taking this "amanah"from Allah s.w.t for taking good care of me and the children.
I'm thankful that i have you to balance my life and made it complete...
To Shahrom Omar,i love you again and again..thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Happy 7Th Anniversary..with all my love.

Wednesday, July 1, 2009

mummy not cool..






Salam everyone..I'm visiting my dad this week.My dearest other half has long off days and we decided this is the best time to take the kids to see their "aki".Unfortunately my other half wasn't feeling well and I had to drive the whole way with Muaz on my lap ,feeding...shhhh..dont tell JPJ or the police...emergency.Not the whole way,maybe half of the way..:)..whateverrr..



The children are enjoying their time here,visiting their cousins...we seldom see them due to time constrains and we live so far from each other...??excuses3x..have to put extra effort in that department.



Still waiting for the news if MJ is being buried as a muslim or something else.Whichever it is,may he rest in peace.When your time is up,there's no running away from "it"..Take each day as a blessing...no matter what comes to you embrace it and say your thanks for only Allah knows what's best for you...
My family,my kids and my other half means the most to me.Sometimes..most of the time as a WAHM..I tend to be more stressful towards the end of a day.I get very frustrated easily when my kids make a mess or fight with each other.I guess most of the time people will say its normal....Its very tiring but hey...everything comes in a package.They are kids and time soon flies soo fast that they'll be in their teens,then married and there you'll be alone in your house..
I always remind myself not to say hurtful words or remarks towards my children.I read somewhere the other day that when your child is hurt by your remarks,they will remember it forever..nauzubillah.I don't want that to happen.I try not to compare them as siblings because every child is different,special,their needs are different and they handle things in their own way.I try to remind myself that be it my first or second child,they are both equally important and they both need my attention and TLC.I know some parents like to say that the 2nd child is more aggressive,naughtier than the rest..but i don't want to categorize my kids..only for one reason.."kata2 ibu itu satu doa"..If i become like the rest and start saying this and that,it will become true..I belief that if I say good things about my kids,eventually they will become like what i want them to be.insyaAllah..I always remind myself not o say NO 1 is better than No2..coz its not written in the Quran that the 2nd child is the worst of all siblings...I read somewhere about "the 2nd child syndrome"..to me,i feel sorry for those people who fear their experience with their 2nd child..for they do know wrong but we parents tend to listen to all negative remarks and negative experience,we tend to be "extra"careful with our 2nd child and we tend to criticize them more...:(
Please read this post as only a personal comment from me.Its got nothing to do with anyone dead or alive..hehehe..its through my readings and my journey.I've seen and met many parents that say the same thing..I quote"biasala,anak no2 memang jahat,anak no 2 memang garang,anak no2 memang suka kacau kacau adik n abg dia"..I felt sad..not because of the fact that i'm the second of my siblings,but also for the fact that these parents doesn't see more to that in their second child.If the 2nd child is such a burden to every human kind,don't have a 2nd child...when you are pregnant with your second child..abort them and wait for the 3rd child to come..
I'm not "cool"about this.I wish that all parents will stop saying all this "doa"that their 2nd child are the worse to handle.Don't blame the kids for everything.They are all Allah's creations,they are guarded by the angels.Love them equally,treat them equally and when you scold them or trying to teach them,try not to belittle any child.Try not to compare them..remember,even identical twins don't have the same thumbprints,what more of different children..Subhanallah..We are all different,*alhamdulillah*..appreciate each other differently,insyaAllah.
My "doa" is that I will be a good mom,someone that my kids will look for when they need advice or a lovable hug,someone they will miss when i'm not by their side and someone that they will remember fondly..
(Princess and Abang..mummy loves you so very much.respect each other and love each other and always look out for each other...)
signing out..mummy.
Salam everyone..I'm visiting my dad this week.My dearest other half has long off days and we decided this is the best time to take the kidss to see their "aki"
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