me and my soulmates

Sunday, January 31, 2010

reminder for myself :/


Diriwayatkan dari Abfullah bin Mas'ud r.a, bahawa dia mengatakan Rasulullah s.a.w, bersabda:
"Tahukah kamu sekelian, siapakah yang benar-benar bartaubat?"
Kami menjawab: Allah dan Rasulnya lebih tahu."
Nabi Muhammad s.a.w bersabda:
"Barang siapa bertaubat sedang dia tidak mempelajari ilmu
maka dia bukanlah orang-orang yang (benar-benar) bertaubat;
dan barang siapa bertaubat sedang dia tidak bertambah tekun ibadatnya,
maka dia bukanlah orang yang (benar-benar) bertaubat;
dan barang siapa bertaubat sedang dia tidak berusaha membuat seterunya rela kepadanya'
maka dia bukanlah orang yang (benar-benar) bertaubat;
dan barang siapa bertaubat sedang dia tidak merubah pakaian dan perhiasannya,
maka dia bukanlah orang yang (benar-benar) bertaubat;
dan barang siapa bertaubat sedang tidak menggantikan sahabat-sahabatnya'
maka dia bukanlah orang yang (benar-benar) bertaubat;
dan barang siapa yang bertaubat sedang dia tidak melipatkan tilam dan tikarnya,
maka dia bukanlah orang yang (benar-benar) bertaubat;
dan barang siapa bertaubat sedang dia tidak menyedekahkan kelebihan ari apa yang ada di tangannya'
maka dia bukanlah orang yang (benar-benar) bertaubat;
maka apabila kelakuan-kelakuan ini semua telah nyah dari seorang hamba
barulah dia menjadi orang yang sungguh-sungguh bertaubat."

Saturday, January 30, 2010

me like the bizinessss...:)

Assalamualaikummmmm....dear2 everybody..finally I have the time to sit down and post a new entry..Been busy and loving it,Alhamdulillah.still can't make this entry as detail as I want to,I'm going to Melaka for the weekend...catching up with old friends and my husband's family are meeting us there..
I met the very sweet ABRAHYN today..homaaaiiigooootttt...she was this...sweet LITTLE creature..very relax(yessss...i read body language kihkihkih)humble AND.....she wore PINK!!!!hehehehe..head to toe...homakhai..cute la pulak kan..huhuhu..I cant wear Pink like she did..sumpah tk cantik..kekeke.
I will update about my lasagna delivery in http://monpetiticafe.blogspot.com/ so,do join me there.:)
So..till next update..I shall leave y'all to a nice long weekend..drive safely,don't forget to lock yr cars as soon as you get into it..there are many "saiko's" out there..and be healthy..:)

Sunday, January 24, 2010

save with Public Mutual ;)



KUALA LUMPUR 22 Jan. – Biarpun para pengguna merentasi Asia Pasifik, Timur Tengah dan Afrika semakin yakin terhadap ekonomi enam bulan akan datang, tetapi pengguna Malaysia pula adalah sebaliknya.
Di Malaysia, ketidaktentuan ekonomi telah mendorong para pengguna mengekal atau meningkatkan tahap simpanan untuk perbelanjaan kecemasan.
Berdasarkan Tinjauan MasterCard, hampir 90 peratus golongan pengguna yang berumur 18 hingga 29 tahun begitu berhati-hati dengan simpanan untuk kegunaan ketika terdesak.
Majoriti pengguna di Malaysia iaitu 32 peratus merancang untuk menyimpan antara satu hingga 10 peratus daripada pendapatan dalam tempoh enam bulan akan datang.
Tiga kategori utama simpanan itu ialah persaraan (59 peratus), pelaburan (38 peratus) dan membeli atau menaik taraf hartanah (29 peratus).
Tinjauan itu dijalankan pada 1 Oktober hingga 9 November 2009, membabitkan 10,623 pengguna di Asia Pasifik, Timur Tengah dan Afrika.
Melalui hasil tinjauan itu didapati ketidaktentuan ekonomi dan perbelanjaan kecemasan merupakan sebab utama yang menyebabkan pengguna merancang untuk meningkatkan simpanan mereka.
Filipina yang mewakili 91 peratus pelanggan yang mempunyai sikap berhati-hati yang tinggi terhadap ketidakstabilan ekonomi berbanding Morocco (30 peratus).
Majoriti pelanggan serantau menyimpan sehingga 10 peratus pendapatan mereka, 23 peratus lagi memperuntukan 11 hingga 20 peratus simpanan mereka untuk tujuan sama.
Hanya lima peratus sahaja pengguna serantau tidak membuat sebarang simpanan.
Lebih menarik, golongan mudah merupakan pengguna yang mempunyai semangat tinggi terhadap simpanan dengan 84 peratus pengguna di bawah umur 30 tahun mahu menyimpan berbanding 81 peratus dari kalangan yang berumur 30 hingga 44 tahun.
Penasihat Ekonomi Asia Pasifik MasterCard Worldwide, Dr. Yuwa hendrick-Wong berkata, daripada perspektif ekonomi, keutamaan kepada simpanan boleh dikategorikan kepada dua aspek, satu simpanan untuk perbelanjaan masa depan seperti pembelian atau menaik taraf hartanah dan persaraan.
”Jenis kategori ini akan terus menjadi tabiat utama menyimpan di rantau Asia Pasifik,” katanya.
Satu lagi adalah mereka yang menyimpan sebagai persediaan untuk menghadapi kemungkinan pada masa depan kerana berhati-hati dengan unjuran ekonomi jangka sederhana.
Ini disebabkan kefahaman bahawa kemeruapan pasaran berada dalam keadaan tidak stabil, tambah Hendrick-Wong.
Dalam pada itu, tinjauan itu juga mendapati punca utama pelanggan kurang menyimpan adalah disebabkan pendapatan tidak mencukupi (55 peratus), inflasi tinggi (34 peratus) dan kadar faedah yang rendah (15 peratus).
sumber: Utusan online

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Thursday, January 21, 2010

minyak urut....urut apa??:)


salammmmm...yezzzaaa..the entry for today is I'm going to pretend to be a makcik urut..urut apa??jeng,jeng,jeng....urut badan and yg sewaktu dengannye.hehehehe
No...I want to share with you people out there(i kan suka share2 ni) what I found,my mom's family found this minyak many2 years ago....more than 30yrs ago la gamaknye.
So,recently my mom bought the whole pack of this ointment and I tried it today and it worked fast and healed muaz's cut on the forehead..boys will be boys...that's a whole different story.so,i'm gonna upload the pic here and if anyone of you wanna try this ointment,u can ask for MINYAK HAJI MOHD.TERMIZI BIN AL-HAJI IBRAHIM.






Wednesday, January 20, 2010

problems VS blessings


Salam everyone...kekekeke..problems vs blessings...masalah vs Rahmat...everybody or most of us wakes up in the morning on the wrong side of the bed,not all..not all the time,maybe most of the time..mesti ada problems..but it's OK..makes our life more colourful and more juicy heheheh..
I was told about this problems vs blessings by somebody and I was really touched.Sometimes we're so ignorant towards the blessings that we have everyday that we took for granted it will be there everyday..so,the story goes like this

ms x:i have a big problem..masalah besar sgt..(sobbing)
Mr z:apa masalah you?tell me..I'm sure its not that big
ms x:how can u say that..its big and I'm mad +sad
Mr z:OK...lets try this..you tell me yr problem and i tell you its not that big and yr rahmat is bigger
Mr z:1st rahmat..you open up yr eyes in the morning,Alhamdulillah,you're still able to see
2nd rahmat...you're breathing
3rd rahmat...you can still think
do you want me to go on with the blessings that you have?how many problems do u have??
ms x:*sobbing*
Mr z:sometimes,when you wake up from sleep..instead of being thankful,you choose to think of the problems first...
what if when you wake up one day..and you can't see?that my dear is what i would call a BIG problem.

Well...I guess Mr z was right and quite blunt :) but he was right(in my opinion)..We're only humans and it's good that once in a while we better ourselves by "muhasabah" diri.



Saturday, January 16, 2010

ffffwwwweeeeiiitttt!!!!

FFFWWWWWeeeeeettiiTTTTT!!!!!
Assalamualaikummm...yeah!mummy's back!!kekekekek..(saja gempak,did it work??)I've been really,really..tired,exhausted mentally and physically.Other than my normal routine as a mom,wife,a consultant(like this word),running in and out of the house is what I "like"best..huhuhuhu...I know,..no complaints.Time management my best friend would say..and that's what it is.It's all about time management.I think we "busy"people also should make time for ourselves,and I'm not talking about pampering yourself in a spa,or having someone over to massage you(hehehe..did that last week)..me telling you that have a time on your own to have a self analysis..got such thing ke?Working is part of life but don't make it your life.Stop and really stop and have a moment just for yourself.Take a deep breath,close your eyes and smile will actually take that stress feeling away.It worked for me.Sometimes when I'm too tired and I know I'll get agitated,apart from picking up the phone and spill the beans to my good friend..hhehehe..I'll go to my bathroom,shut the door,look in the mirror and smile.It really make a difference...try,cuba,test :)..
Oh yeah..zikir,...I'm not pious but zikir works for me too.
So..peace to everybody..work smart,don't forget to hug your loved ones everyday.Hug them,they need it and so do you :)



Tuesday, January 12, 2010

mayonnaise in a jar...


I received this in my email today and like to share it with you.


Mayonnaise in a jar.

When things in your life seem , almost too much to handle,
When 24 Hours in a day is not enough,
Remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.
A professor stood before his philosophy class
And had some items in front of him.
When the class began, wordlessly,
He picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar
and proceeded to fill it with golf balls.
He then asked the students, if the jar was full.
They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured
them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
The pebbles rolled into the open Areas between the golf balls.
He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous 'yes.'
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively
filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.
'Now,' said the professor, as the laughter subsided,
'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things - family,
children, health, Friends, and Favorite passions –
Things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, Your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, house, and car.
The sand is everything else --The small stuff.
'If you put the sand into the jar first,' He continued,
'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
The same goes for life.
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff,
You will never have room for the things that are important to you.
So...
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Play With your children.
Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.
There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal.
'Take care of the golf balls first --
The things that really matter.
Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.
The professor smiled.
'I'm glad you asked'.
It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'

Saturday, January 9, 2010

fennaaatttt....


the host and hostess


chicken dance


marissa and birthday girl allysha


chicken dance again


hmmmm....


making cheeky faces again :)


birthday girl,allysha is 2!!

Salam everyone....I've been busy hehehe..wih my kids,my chores,all the same stuff and now my baking thingy.I enjoyed making them but I can't say its not tiring.We went to Allysha's birthday party today.Had a lot of fun catching up with acik nah and Ame of course...but somehow with kids and all,I felt like the time was too short hahaha..mummy wated more "lepak"time.
Anyways,still it was nice to meet up with friends.Ame ordered cupcakes for her abah and I was honoured to do it for her,yeah...her mum being the "tokay kueh"...I was nervous hokay!!It was like going for an exam or something.I hoped I passed the benchmarks and hoped they liked the cuppies.Checkout http://monpetiticafe.blogspot.com/
Thank you my dearest friend Ame for your trust and support,I know that you could afford more than what you ordered from me,and I know you ordered because you wanted to gave me yr support and I thank you from the bottom of my humble heart.*hugs kuat2!*
I need to get a full body massage heheheh..tomorrow at 8am..hehehe..nite.

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Berpada pada.

by-adrianaaz

Kadang2 manusia suka lupa
selalu manusia lupa....
Lupa utk berpada2
bersederhana dalam segala hal

Manusia memang suka lihat pada luaran
Samada cantik atau buruk luaran itu
manusia suka melihat luaran sahaja
Suka menghakimi luaran orang walau mereka bukan "hakim"yg terbaik
Menjatuhkan hukuman berpandukan kepada "rasa" mereka

Kadang2 manusia suka lupa
Yang lembut diluar kadang keras didalam
Yang nampak keras diluar,sebenarnya halus dan lembut didalam

Kadang manusia suka lupa
Lupa dgn siapa mereka bersuara,siapa di depan mereka
Manusia akan kata apa mereka suka
Bergurau..katanya

Tapi manusia lupa,didepan mereka adalah org yg halus jiwanya
Yang telah terluka hatinya
akibat gurauan yg tak berpada2

Jangan pandang org sebelah mata
Lihat pada hatinya dan bukan luaran
Lihat pada hatinya dan bukan ijazahnya
Lihat pada hatinya,
Lihat pada hatinya.

 


Monday, January 4, 2010

A good start :)

Salam....I hope its not too late for me to wish Happy New Year to all out there.I've been busy and I had no extra time to post new entries but I had some time to spare reading some of the blogs.
We took marissa n muaz to bagan lalang and port dickson the day after for a short swimming session.Had so much fun with them and you know what sea breeze can do to you right,you get so tired afterwards and thats one of the reason why I was too lazy to blog.I wanted to share my thoughts bout so many things that I saw during our short rip to PD but I guess I'll do it some other day.I'm just too tired to talk about civic awareness in this country,public toilets,littering...endless list of negative remarks will come out from me and I don't want to spoil anybody's mood.Yeah not to forget...cruelty to animals..yechhhh!!!I don't like it when I find myself going deep into this issues as I feel that whatever my opinion about all these matters are going down the drain and wasted.I deeply regret that no matter how modern our country will be,no matter how much we spend in building better infrastuctures,its the mentality and attitude of oneself to make it worthy.oh..oh...ana is in a serious tone and mood now...nope,no..no..I don't want to stress myself about these things anymore..not good for me n my family :)
Yeah,that was the 2009 and now Jan4th..I had 3 orders of lasagna and 40 cupcakes delivered yesterday to Pn.Linda R(cupcakes)Pn.Liza(2 lasagna)and my own biras in sbg..hahaha.Thank you ladies for having trust in me and supporting my new found interest and business :)
Marissa said..."mom,you made the best lasagna and cupcakes in the whole world..you're the best COOKER!!!"..hahahaha..oh baby,baby(thts what i call her)...mummy will be honoured to be yr "cooker" anytime.hahhaha..Its a wonderful feeling to be praised by yr own kids albeit the fact that I'm not the best cook but as long as I'm their best cook,I'm happy :)
So,I started with a good response from my biras and friends,visited my mom in USJ and my baby sis and my mom said it was really good(sapa lagi nak pujikan)...but Its true,they hardly praise anyone hahaha..so,Alhamdulillah,Alhamdulillah,Alhamdulillah..yg baik dari Allah swt and kekurangan is from me.
So,I hope whoever reading this will give me your best doa that I will succed in this biz and insyaallah with your doa and good wishes I'll be one of the good "player"in this field :).

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