when ayah is not around......;)

When ayah@my dearest husband is not around,mummy will usually freak out quietly..in her head..trying to figure out activities to do with her two active munchkins..I know I only have 2 right now,but.....very handful ya.I have to plan out what to do with them so that they don't get bored and their activities will actually benefit them,hands and eye coordination,and all that sort of thing la..

So... I decided to bake with them..yippie.We made plain cookies,(trial and error basis)I didn't make a lot of them so I made a very small batch of "doh".It turned out well and we had loads of fun..and mummy was very,very happy to see the excitement in their faces.Marissa even called me >teacher.hahaha...love u baby!Enjoy the pics people,we might have another baking session before ayah comes back from his trip :)..we miss u ayah!
p/s:marissa wants to bake these to sell them at our next bazaar event next weekend,whaddya think?

sorry baby,abang.

To my dearest children,I'm truly sorry for not taking the time to look into your eyes when we talk,sometimes I'm busy with my work,housework and caught up with my own ups and downs,my mistake...I'm only human :) I pray that we will always love and respect each other and know that I'll be there for you always,insyaallah.

nasib anak...

assalamualaikum...hopefully everyone is healthy and happy.....
it's about nasib anak no2 lagi...those who believes the western pyschology or westerns thinking would agree with this"2nd child syndrome"..I..honestly dah penat sangat dengar pasal orang cakap:
"awak tau la kan anak no2 camna???!!!"
"yeah...she's the 2nd in the family..tu yg degil semacam"
"anak no2 kan garang...suka tiru kakak dia!!!sebok je!!"
and so on,and on and on...you know...they can go on forever on this topic...on how they despise these 2nd child,they prefer the first child who are ALWAYS(in their opinion)deserve everything more than the rest of the siblings because they are the 1st...and they can go on how the last child of the family are actually an angel....
I feel sorry for the children...all of them..no matter whether they're the 1st or 2nd or 3rd or 4th or...byk lagi ke..they were "trained"to despise their siblings even when they themselves are KIDS.They are "trained"to differentiate themselves from the rest of the siblings because mummy and nenek and atok says so.They are"trained"to tell their siblings that "i'm better and i deserve more things because i'm the 1st child"...
I feel sorry for them.
I have 2 kids myself...at the moment.My eldest is a girl,alhamdulillah.Her name is Marissa.
My second child is a boy,alhamdulillah.His name is Muhammad Muaz.
They are different in gender,qualities,habits,heights,weights,achievements...and so on..
but I love them both so very much EQUALLY.InsyaAllah..never once I told them that Marissa can have more coz she's the first..or muaz have more coz he's a boy..(i've heard someone told me that marissa can have more..she's the 1st child)
When I conceived them both...I was thankful to Allah swt for these amazing blessings that he gave us,me n my husband.These two "amanah"from Allah swt..are equally important,equally loved(insyaAllah)...I dont want to betray the trust that Allah have given me,nauzubillah.
I found this new blog when i googled:"is there such thing as 2nd child syndrome in Islam?"and i found this
So...dear all...love them equally..thats your promise to Allah swt..when you wanted them.