me and my soulmates

Wednesday, March 31, 2010

"i'm not good enough??so what??!!"

Have you ever felt that you're living by other people's expectations?When WHATEVER you do is NEVER good enough by their standards?You strived your hardest and still it's not even near their "TARGET"of what you should achieved?
What do you do?How do you feel?Stressed?Sick?Depressed?Talk to someone?Play along?"bodek"them a bit?I don't know..What is the best way for you to deal with this situation.?
You and me....different,childhood,how we were raised=different..backgrounds?different..so,how do we find one solution for this?
Some people will say.....move on
some might say....ignore that person
some say......i dunno
some ....smirk at you
some......sabar(be patient)

I believe at some point in your life,you're just too tired to hear the same advices and the same people telling you the SAME thing all the time....
Being PATIENT ..all your life is also verrryyy tiring...
What do you do then??TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE....
Do things at your own pace,own way and at the same time,be nice to all those people around you that has been bugging you,telling you that you're not good enough.SMILE...It is YOUR life..so why bother what people have to say.?As long as your actions does no harm to you and your loved ones....continue.Life's too short to live by what others think of you..It is not them who give you this life.You don't owe anyone any explanations on how you bathe your kids,what you make them for breakfast,why your sambal tumis is not as nice as your sister's,why you wear your clothes starting with your left hand instead of your right hand,why you walk sideways and not like a supermodel,why you don't put on makeup,why you don't have enough designer handbags...and the lists are endless.....
LIVE YOUR LIFE AS HOW YOU WANT IT TO BE,HOW YOUR RELIGION ASK YOU TO..NOT BY OTHER PEOPLE'S STANDARD....PEACE!!!!







6 comments:

Akak Ratu said...

kenkdg bole sakit jiwa klu kita asik nak dgr pandangan dan pendpt org ttg kita, apa yg kita patut buat, patut ikut, itu ini... tp bak kata ana tu, kita tak yah fikir sgt apa org nak kata ttg kita as long as kita dah buat yg terbaik utk diri kita dan keluarga ikut jln yg betul, ikut syariat islam, insya'Allah, Allah dan malaikat sentiasa menjaga kita... aminnn

adriana az said...

salam kak inni :)memang betol kan kak..jadi sakit jiwa,kadang tak tau dah nak buat apa,mungkin mereka berniat baik,mungkin tidak,tapi kalau segalanya tak pernah betul...pedulikan lah.dah tak berbaloi utk memikirkan bagaimana nak puaskan hati org saja..:)

screamingmommy said...

we know what's best for us, plus it's not them paying our bills:) just be ourself

Lynnda Hosni said...

beb...remember one thing ..ignorance is a bliss....pedulikan...and sabar je...usually orang camni..tak kemana...xxoo

eynda said...

Pernah alami...memang sedih...kecewa...tapi dlm hati eynda selalu cakap...lantak laa...macam diaorg bagus....

adriana az said...

screaming mommy:thanks dear,kita buat sebaik yg kita mampu,if it's not good enough,tawakkal je lah :)
lynnda:thanks babe:)i'll follow tht advice,insyaallah.finding the inner strength.
eynda:thank you eynda:),mmg kecewa kan,tapi niatkita perbetulkan,usha dan tawakkal.kalau dah mmg tak boleh jgk,redha je la ye:)

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