Have you ever felt that you're living by other people's expectations?When WHATEVER you do is NEVER good enough by their standards?You strived your hardest and still it's not even near their "TARGET"of what you should achieved?
What do you do?How do you feel?Stressed?Sick?Depressed?Talk to someone?Play along?"bodek"them a bit?I don't know..What is the best way for you to deal with this situation.?
You and me....different,childhood,how we were raised=different..backgrounds?different..so,how do we find one solution for this?
Some people will say.....move on
some might say....ignore that person
some say......i dunno
some ....smirk at you
I believe at some point in your life,you're just too tired to hear the same advices and the same people telling you the SAME thing all the time....
Being PATIENT ..all your life is also verrryyy tiring...
What do you do then??TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR LIFE....
Do things at your own pace,own way and at the same time,be nice to all those people around you that has been bugging you,telling you that you're not good enough.SMILE...It is YOUR life..so why bother what people have to say.?As long as your actions does no harm to you and your loved ones....continue.Life's too short to live by what others think of you..It is not them who give you this life.You don't owe anyone any explanations on how you bathe your kids,what you make them for breakfast,why your sambal tumis is not as nice as your sister's,why you wear your clothes starting with your left hand instead of your right hand,why you walk sideways and not like a supermodel,why you don't put on makeup,why you don't have enough designer handbags...and the lists are endless.....
LIVE YOUR LIFE AS HOW YOU WANT IT TO BE,HOW YOUR RELIGION ASK YOU TO..NOT BY OTHER PEOPLE'S STANDARD....PEACE!!!!
Hari Ibu 2018.
4 days ago